Also, do you self-shame for any of the above? I think sexually, everyones shamed for something whether by others or by themselves. Even if not often, I’m sure we’ve all had at least one experience in which we were shamed sexually. Whenever I have sex, I think im shamed for never wanting to stop. This could be by the guy or by myself. But i view it as a bad sex addiction like i once had a softporn addiction. So yea after sex, I often force myself to return to celibacy since im not yet married because I think i would literally kill his dick if i didn't stop and i’d prob cause myself not to be able to walk for a good while. I’m shamed by others for being a bit of an exhibitionist and enjoying sexual things in public places. And then I’m also shamed for not wanting a lot of sexual partners in life. A lot of people feel the more partners, the more experience. But I dont see it that way. You can experience/learn a lot with just one person.
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14 38Nope, not gonna reveal anything they have to just go with me to my grave 😂😂😂😂
Lmao
I don't have any friends, thus I don't really have any one to shame me other than myself and I do shame myself occasionally. I think I'm not old enough for people to shame on not having sex at all or at least being a Virgin... Maybe if I was like, 25 or so and was a virgin I would burst off, but not yet. Anyways, I think the closest other than that would be having weird fetishes because I think I'm into things some people aren't or slot of people don't fancy in a partner so I shame myself because I know some people wouldn't want to let me engage in it and might want to have red with me because of it... Or may just think that I'm a weirdo which I am and am NOT ashamed of being weird, just shameful of what people find weird ABOUT me.
Also, I have a suggestion for you. You should do kind of a part 2 but instead, do " what body part do others shame you for because I'm sure some people are shamed for not having a big dick or a smaller one or even not having muscles or having too much... Or even, DON'T have a sexual poll and do a non-sexual version of it.
Nahh i dont need people whining about having too small or too big tits/ass/dicks. We see enough of that foolishness on GaG daily
I don't get shamed because I don't kiss and tell. Who, where, when, how, why and how many girls I have been intimate with, is nobody else's business. Simple as that !
Very smart
You need to get married, girl.
Lol so i can killa dick?
Yep! Lol
Lol i just pray my hubby can keep up cause i want it 3 times a day, at least 4 days a week
@DizzyDesii God bless you, woman.
Hahaha
Your husband is going to be so lucky.
He needs to hurry his ass up lol
Lol.
I. Usually shamed because I'm not interested in the rough bdsm stuff
Yea if i wanted to be tied up, i’d asked to be kidnapped 😂
Hahaha. I'll come kidnap you and bring you back to New York. Lol 😂
I need to start writing my stories somewhere else and copying them and pasting them here. I had a girlfriend years ago that suggested that... but she was married... long ass story...😳
@Andres77 what, that you kidnap her
Actually, that's not my style. I don't ever force women to do anything they don't want to do.
@Andres77 suggesting being kidnapped?
@dizzydesii I hope I didn't insult you. If I did I'm sorry. I'm just in one of those moods
It's a long story and I'm not going to write it down again. If I find it I'll copy and paste it. But... she wanted me to break in to her apartment and"rape" her in front of her tied up husband as revenge for abandoning her in a place where she was actually raped. I couldn't do it. Even after she showed me where his gun was and suggested I take out the firing pin. Crazy shit. Of course I ghosted the married woman shortly thereafter.
@Andres77 damn that's sick. She should have divorced his ass if he left her there
None of those for me and I don’t judge
Mmmm everyones judged at least once. But yea its good if you dont continue to
Bad hair days 🤣🤣
I would say for me it's just a fetish everybody has what works for them I'm no different so my interest me weird people a little bit
Yea i wouldn't be surprised
A and C I guess...
I see
Actually, none of the above. And I’m sorry you feel that way after sex. I, like you, don’t want to stop fucking. We cum once and want to keep fucking until we are both exhausted and I’m all out of cum.
Thats so damn hot
I’m happy with what I am and who I am.
Nobody shames me.
people still shame you even if you dont let it effect you
I have my kinks... I am not always sure if i can share them without scaring her. hahaha. but as are just kinks. I can live perfectly without them.
But it’ll always be in the back of your mind... you’d feel a little unsatisfied if you never got to do em. Thats what scares us... the lingering thoughts
you know... like the 50 shades of grey. some thing are more beautiful in the fantasy world. but in the real one can be unsatisfactory and ugly. so i made my peace with that fact. there are more important stuff that a kink. after all is not a fetish so I dont need it to feel sexualy satisfied or beloved.
Love hearing that
Been shamed For having certain fetish
Yep that happens
Id have to say it was my first time and of course I was a preemie. Never happened again thank goodness.
Wait which poll option is that
E, not enough experience
I don't know. Because no one has ever had the ball's to shame me for anything. Lol
Not out loud anyways lol
That just makes them cowards. I respect honesty. If you tell me how you really feel. I will not be mad. But, you do it to try and make me feel shameful. Then my fist will do the making up. Lol
Ooooo
Lol.
Non of the above, I dont discuss my sexual life with those that are not involved in it, and if they aren't involved I only give them the surface level information
Thats good
I've never been shamed for any of this stuff.
Maybe not out loud lol
As I’ve never had sex so I’m slowly getting comments from people as in why am I still a virgin.
You should ask them in return why they gave it up so easily 🤣
Yups. Tit for tat.
There is nothing wrong with being horny wanting a lot of sex. You a human being. I think most people would be ashamed to admit they want a lot more than they are getting.
As to the number of guys a girl dicks. I would say any number over 10 is way too many.
Unless you are into perverted stuff never feel ashamed about your sexuality and the ways you express it via sex.
For me, anything over 3 sex partners in life is too much
True. As an adult. But I think many high school kids can easily have 2 or 3 within a few years.
And thats sad. Im gonna pray my future kids wait til at least 18 and out of HS before they have sex. But the one person i did it with at 15 was not even exactly by choice so i definitely wouldn't have had sex with multiple in HS. I tried my best to wait til marriage
Hmmm. I want to ask you a personal question but I won't do it publicly.
Ask me here. Im open
There no easy way to ask this that's why I did want to ask publicly. You were "forced" at 15?
Read it here
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The mother fucked deserves a slow execution. If I was your parent I would have killed the little bastard myself. If I was sent to prison it would be worth seeing him suffer the way he made you suffer. I was "forced" physically once but didn't suffer the emotion stuff you did. I don't talk about what happened to me publicly.
Im so sorry that happened to you. I hope you’ve overcome the trauma. I finally did. But yea my parents still think im a virgin. They dont know about what he did nor my sexcapades that came later on
In my mind you were a victim of violence. I would consider any who is raped while a virgin are still virgins.
Yea my second ex said the same. But thats cause he thought the sex stopped after those forced times. He didn't know after so many times thet i made myself like sex. Then i started initiating
Is too late to press charges?
It happened in 2009. Probably
I don’t have enough sex so I believe it’s the way I look
Awww