Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Of course you should care more about the fact they lied in general rather than what about, but still, which on the poll? And would you leave or stick around?
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#Poll Which would make you more mad to find out after sex and why?
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If your partner lied about being a virgin BUT they revealed after sex that they were actually not a virgin AND THEN laughed that your sexual performance couldve been better
Vote A
If your partner lied about not being a virgin BUT they revealed after sex that they actually were a virgin AND THEN cried that your sexual performance physically hurt them
Vote B
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
Updates:
+1 y
Im just shocked more people didn't choose B. Dont you view it as gaslighting/manipulation in a way?
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What Girls & Guys Said
8 42The second one would just make me feel sad. Not mad.
Ahh ok
If A happened she would be divorced SO fast it wouldn't even be funny.
Lmaooo
And I don't even believe in divorce.
If I hurt a girl and she somehow hid it from me until I was done and then to cry from the pain, I'd feel like shit.
I don't think I'd be mad though.
But that should def piss u off in a way
Not at her tho. I'd probably blame and hate myself for not noticing. Start thinking shit like she probably stayed quite just to please me, and I was too blind to recognize that she was in pain.
Oh yea that is sad
The first one would piss me off for sure.
Whys that
Like if she said I was terrible that I couldn't make her cum or I was average size for her compared to other guys.
You care more about the laughing then the fact that she couldve slept with 1000 guys and not had been a virgin?
The laughing part cause I am sensitive to laugher.
Oh i see
Not as funny beeing laughed at. I would stop rightaway if she told or show me it hurts.. Sex is about pleasure only, no harm or abuse what so ever!
I'd just comfort her if she wanted to, just let me hug you and feel free to cry against me shoulder. It'll all be fine.
Awww
I think I'd be more hurt and start crying more than being Mad if either happened.
Awww
There are many tests that a woman would go through before being able to do the deed with me that are mythic-like trials in comparison.
The virgin one👍
The first one is a very a**hole move and would lead many guys to not sleep ever with you again or break up, a few might say "challdnge accepted" though.
I could forgive the second one, maybe she is just very shy and didn't dare to say anything in fear or embarrassment
I dont think i could stay with either. She’d probably always remember you from hurting them during sex
I think in my experience women tend not to have a lot of Sympathy for the guy because they want to be immature instead of making them better they put him down ways guys don't bleed from are penises so
Yea i think you can practice together more til it gets better
The second, it's all about feeling good, so that would bother me wayyy more.
Yea im shocked more didn't choose that
The first option would hurt me a lot. If the second one happened, I would be sorry, but I would love that person and she loved me. And I would understand why she lied.
I wouldn't understand why they lied
Because the person would be ashamed. And she was afraid that if the other person found out she was a virgin, he wouldn't want to have sex with her.
And with good reason. 🤷♀️
I wouldn't be mad at either lol. I'd find it sort of silly and wonder why she felt the need to lie to me.
It would be hard to trust em again
A would piss me off, and I would be gone; with B I would go into aftercare mode.
So you’d cuddle her and stuff after B? Would you confront her at a later time?
Confront, no, but there would be a conversation. I can understand where she may have been coming from, but miscommunication is how you end up hurt.
Lol true
I chose A
Yea im shocked the majority did
The first one for sure
Okayy
For B, you could make adjustments
Like what? I wouldn't even want to have sex anymore that day if i found out they lied
On B you could adjust how you performed. I'd prefer they lie they weren't and find out they were. But saying you are and then finding out they weren't is much worse to me.
Does it make you think about how many people theyve been with?
Oh yeah. If its more than a handful, I still find it pretty bad. I like sex, but not with someone who has been with a bunch of different guys
Yea i prefer virgins or someone whos had less than 5 partners
Exactly. Alright, no more sex talk. 🤫🤫🤫🤫
I have had the second one happen to me a few times. I have never had someone laugh at my performance. Lol. If anything, I always have repeat customers. Lol. I have told girl's I can't with them anymore because they are not good. Or they smell really bad. Lol
Not customers 😂
Lol.
Well, A hurts more
But check update
Yeah, but what if it's true, sometimes it can be in rare cases
The first
Whys that