Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Porn addiction?
MsMorgan420 Xper 2
My husband has been addicted to porn for many years now. Its always been a problem and it has never been okay with me. He hides it.. chooses it over me at times.. doesn't come to bed. I've done everything he's asked of me.. as a wife.. mother.. parent... friend.. lover.. but nothing has changed.. he still goes back to his same habits. I know i don't deserve this but leaving is not that simple. Its gotten to the point where I feel completely betrayed everytime I catch him especially if I attempted to get him to fool around before hand. I am NO prude in bed.. im very adventurous and im willing to try what ever in the bedroom if its what turns him on... so thats not the issue. Im at a loss and im tired of feeling unlovable. Why does he continue even if it means losing his family?
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(31)Because he's an addict
Well addictions are hard to break as you can see it all over. It does suck for you. But then again, would you rather he fucks other women? You really need to talk to him about it. Tell him you care, and if it's serious to get help.
Have you asked him what he gets out of the porn? What function does it play in his life?
Try walking up to him with your panties in your hand and a naughty smile on your face, see if that gets his attention.
Or you can try my favorite thing to do.
Have him lay on his back with his erection on his stomach.
Straddle him back by his balls. Spread your pussy lips on either side of his cock.
Now slide up to the head, and then back to the balls, keep repeating.
With your clit rubbing on his cock, let him play with you tits and nipples.
In no time you should have an orgasm that should make his blood pressure go through the roof.
By the way, I call that Riding the Pony
Here's an insight I once heard from a married friend of mine. He said that your girlfriend becomes your wife. Then she becomes the mother of your children. Then she becomes your mother. And that kills the romance. Is it possible that you're having trouble turning off your mom routine and accidentally mothering your husband? My friend always said he loved his wife and she was an excellent mother, but sometimes he just wanted his girlfriend back.
You're making it larger than it is. I get turned on the most by thinking of black men fucking my girlfriend and that is just a fantasy and it doesn't mean that i don't find my girlfriend attractive. Sometimes we just want to be with ourselves
What does he say when you ask him to stop. Maybe you need professional help. I’m sorry but I don’t understand. I do look at porn here and there but by all means could go with out.
He says he will stop and that he's sorry and feels ashamed but not enough to stop or quit neglecting me sexually. It wouldn't be a big deal if I turned him down or im not home but I would love for him to wake me up to play versus him watch porn without even trying with me 1st
Porn is a drug. It alters behavior and rewires the brain. You start with simple vanilla porn but it gets kinkier and kinkier as the brain needs to keep itself stimulated.
He’s nuts! Oh to have a girl like you!
Don't feel all that special honestly. I just wish he understood how much better things could be if he would put half as much effort into our relationship as he does w/ sneaking around to watch porn.
Any type of sexual addiction is just that. And addiction. He probably needs some therapy but good luck getting a guy to admit that. I’m on the other side of the coin. I have a disinterested wife. I’ve spent years trying but nothing is ever reciprocated. I understand how complicated it is and not wanting to throw in the towel. It’s just a lonely feeling!
I can relate 💯. Its very lonely being the only one wanting to keep trying while he just does whatever.
He is stupid