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Sexual Health Prostitution VS Dating.. Which is better?
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With prostitution, the guy gets what he wants, and the girl gets what she wants. 1. There's no game playing, you never think to yourself "does he or she like me?"- women get the money and men get the sex. Everyone wins. 2. With a woman you date, she's not required to do monthly STD and aids checks. Like a legal prostitute. 3. With a prostitute is there a chance if the sex is bad, or the "deal" goes bad that she gets HALF of ALL of your money. No. 4. Its defiantly cheaper. An average prostitute in Nevada costs about 300 bucks on average for sex. An average date costs about 100 bucks, and most women don't want to put out until the 3rd date AT LEAST. And even then its not a certainty. Cost of gas= 20 bucks for the drive to her house to pick her up, to the movie,and to the restaurant and back to her house and then back to yours. Cost of movie= 12 bucks X 2= 24 bucks, rounded down to 20. That's 40 bucks not including popcorn and candy. So that's 60 bucks. Now include the cost of the meal at a "decent". Because we all know she's going to think your a cheap loser if you take her to taco bell.- unlike a whore where you don't have to pay anything except for what you get in return. So you figure 20 bucks a person.. that's 40 bucks. This is not including candy, gifts, or flowers. 60+40=100 bucks.. and there you have it. 3 dates=300 bucks. Suppose it was even guaranteed that she's has to put out on the 3rd date making it "equal" even then its like putting her vagina on lay away, and you have to wait. Most people also don't date consecutively one day after the other either. 5. Most of the time women in marriages "put out" to get their husbands to do chores or anything like that. Its been said that most women are nothing more than closeted prostitutes because after all how many women here would date a man who's broke? How many women here will accept a man who doesn't pay for the date? If you won't accept a man who takes you to taco bell for a date, then all it means is that you are a hooker who is just haggling over the price. The only difference between prostitution and dating is emotional connection and love. Both of which are free. So, unless you want men to date you, stop acting like whores, because were just going to go there instead of dating you. Because at least with them its a sure thing. So which do you think is better.
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This is prostitution vs dating, not prostitution vs relationships. Obviously getting the sex for free from a girlfriend is better. That's why its vs dating, not relationships.
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44 47This guy is obviously very bitter and has no clue about emotion, love, or connecting with someone. Since it is apparent that you are only interested in sex with total disregard to what the woman may be feeling or wanting out of dating you it serves you right to be stepped on anyway.
That would be true if I weren't gay. Nice try though.
Lol now that was a shocker. Seriously he pulled the gay card!
So far as I know, there are gay prostitues as well, so your argument really doesn't mean anything. Also, this totally invalidates your question and gives a little insight as to why you only see dating in terms of dollars, as if all straight men think about is sex-to-dollars ratio. When I'm out with my Girlfriend on a date it's because I like her company and we get along. I could care less about how much we spend or if I'm getting any that night - I'm secure in my relationship.
Its not irrelevant. 1. She said, "in disregard to what the WOMAN may be feeling" She was arguing that i was straight and upset that "women" are turning me down. Her argument is nullified. 2. Anyone who is gay will tell you most of us are shallow and out for a good time we have no problem with it. Its EXTREMELY easy for gay men to get laid. We don't have to resort to prostitution. Get a gay friend. hell tell you this is true. 3. Gay prostitution is an anomaly. Its less abundant, because of what i just said. So focusing on the minority example fails. 4. If you could "care less" about the sex, then get a dog. Or better yet hang out with your guy friends, who, on the average men have more in common with other men. Thats why its better to be gay. You don't have to hide your farts, you can talk about football without boring your partner and still enjoy all the benefits of sex. Your argument fails.
Haha I do see your point. it would obviously depend on what you are looking.
Some people want an emotional connection as well which you can't buy. Like you said there is does she like me or not. If you are looking for just sex a prostitute might be good.
But if you want emotional sex and a relationship your better off taking the other road.
Actually you end up paying for emotional connection too. In the form of gifts, and paying for dates. So yeah, you can buy that.
Maybe for a materialistic person but most don't like someone just because they got them a gift.
If you as a man, never buy her a gift, never pay for dates, and she's your girlfriend you're going to get dumped. Call all women materialistic if you want to, but that's the truth. And like I said, because of that, you still end up paying for emotional connection because of it.
I think its hilarious that your comparing prostitution to dating. There is obviously a big difference. It all has to do with emotions. If your doing a prostitute you have not feelings for them and your pretty despite for sex considering that your paying for it. If your dating someone your interested and connected.
Desperate for sex if you goto prostitutes? I have two words for you: Charlie sheen. OR I could keep going, with people such as tiger woods and david ducovney. So no, your wrong there. Plus you are NOT interested in them, if you are dating, you are getting to know them, you have NO IDEA who they are, she could be a raving lunatic and he could be a raping, ax murderer for all you know. The only interest you have really is superficial, and a mans interest in a prostitute is also superficial.
Um, I'm sorry but if your dating someone you are interested in them. I don't know what world that you live in, but even celebrities can be despite for sex they can be nympho psychos human beings as well. You don't know their personal lives.
Actually their personal lives are never "personal" they are on display for the whole world to see. You can't be desperate for sex if your getting sex all the time.. it doesn't work that way. sorry. And those people I mentioned do, its in the media. So I guess you sleep with every guy you date then?
Well I guess lets listen to what the media has to say, cause we all know that media is true and something we should definitely live by and OH YEAH they definitely don't tell any lies. BECAUSE MEDIA ISN'T SUPERFICIAL? I don't know who broke your heart or manipulated you bad enough to think that there isn't a difference prostitution or dating but you definitely got it twisted. I'm sticking to what I know is real.
Why the hell would tiger woods admit to being a cheating bastard and probably ruin his career? The media once told me that obama was elected president. I guess mcaine won then... SWEET! The question of this post is "which is better", which suggests that they obviously aren't the same.
The only difference I see between dating and prostitution is that when you are dating everyone else gets the money and she eventually drops her panties. She goes home broke, she doesn't have any more money than when she left, in fact she may have less.
With a prostitute, she gets the money and drops her panties and has more money in her purse to pay for a bill.
As someone else stated, the point of a date is to get laid. Men don't do anything for nothing. They are not spending all that money to feel good about themselves
I find both to be rather pointless.
if you're dating just to get laid then a prostitute is better.
if you want to find a connection with someone and eventually a relationship, then dating is better.
it all depends what you want.
1. I don't see anything wrong with prostitution, if it's 2 adults, who am I to tell them who to sleep with ? And there is no game playing so if what you want is just sex at the time, then go for it.
2. Monthly checks don't say much, I mean what if she just had her check up, then caught an std 3 days later and slept with you the next day ? Plus prostitutes sleep with A LOT of men and if you think your chances of getting an std are lowered , that's kind of crazy
3. Why do you think only men make the money ? And have you ever heard of a pre-nup ?
4. If you are only going out with a girl because you want her p*ssy on layaway then you should just stick to prostitutes because I'm not going out with a guy just for his d*ck or for a free dinner, I can buy my own dinner and I pay for myself when I go to movies with friends, so if you're not going on a date with a girl so that you can get to know her so it possibly turns into a relationship then please just stick to paying for prostitutes and leave us females alone.
5. a) If I was married I wouldn't put out to get my husband to do chores, he's grown he should be cleaning up after himself anyway, I'm not his mother.
b) I wouldn't care if a man did'n't have a lot of money, I work and take care of myself his money is not my business, as is mine none of his business also but I do expect him to have a job and hopefully aspirations for the future.
c) I like taco bell
So to answer your question normal men that are looking for an emotional connection or love and not a p*ssy on layaway should date.
Men like you on the other hand who generalize all women and obviously have some mommy issues, please just stick to prostitutes because real women don't want you anyway
IdontWantToBeMe Well, if you?re so confident about never having to ask anything of a guy, then you?re probably comfortable with asking a guy out, because in most cases I know, a guy will look for prostitutes because they?re either too shy to ask a ?normal? girl out or are frustrated because their wives can?t satisfy them. In both cases, it?s your fault. (to be continued)
(cont.) If you women would stop being so demanding and actually be more obvious when you wanna have sex, more men would be into ?normal? girls instead of prostitutes, because, let?s face it, if you women don?t get over yourselves and start making it easier for us to date you, then we?ll end up with a prostitute, and you?ll end up with no sex at all. plain and simple.
btw, no prostitute is any less of a "real woman" than you are, if you really think you're superior than them, then you're the one who's not a real woman. just saying
Carrotman of course a real woman is superior to a prostitute... ethically, job wise and probably socio- economically and education wise too. But if you are talking about judging their heart, only God had that power.
Has that power*
This is actually clever. People are hacking it with their emotional prejudice, which you kinda take for granted. But like you keep saying - this isn't relationships vs. prostitution, this is dating vs. prostitution. But you gotta look at that mathmatically. From a human perspective, you start dating in the hope of finding someone you will fall in love with and so on, fulfilling the inbuilt and unexplained desire to connect completely and permanently with another human, and from the same perspective, you hire a prostitute so you can stick the shaft in her, like, basically. But from a mathmatical perspective, you aren't focused on an endgoal.
Logically, you enter into something - assuming your dating an alltaking woman which is fairly common in America I hear (its not really common where I am, though, but that's because no one actually has any money regardless of who they are, you know what I mean? Hahaha), because everythings fairly common in America - in which you have to pay a sum of money, in exhange for some kind of product. We're not giving that product a name of any kind.
Now in dating, many times your left with no product - ie. no further relationship, emotional connection or sex. Or even like, helpful cleaning tips, or an extended television liscence, or anything. Right? Nothing. But you've still payed all that money. Now from a human perspective, you expect that. But mathmatically, that's a major WTF. That's a huge risk right there. That's a probably of like 1 (or 2, depending on your disposition.) That's crazy.
However, in prositution, you pay, assuming the afformentioned amounts are correct, about the same. But with prostitution, a product is guaranteed. Mathmatically, that's the more intellegent choice. Isn't it?
Ofcourse we don't date for the same reason we hire out ladiez, but logically that's not assumed.There's a sum in there somewhere its like
Prostiution: M + F = X
Dating: M + F = ?
Money, Female, Product, in this scenario.
?:1, in ratio terms. Or 9:1, if you wanna go by that rule, but I think that's long dead, ain't it? I'm not really a maths person.
Anyway, this jokes. Well done.
Oh by the way, on the idea that pimped prostitutes shouldn't be used because they've got terrible lives, that's a bit whacked out an idea. If we're all kindred souls we'd be using them more, I mean if they don't sell they probably get thrashed around, don't they? Or they don't get their cocaine and get a serious case of the horrors. Its not like if we all decide not to use street harlots they'll all suddenly get better lives, you know? Effectively it'd just add to the unemployment, cost the country more money - assuming this country grants dole - and you'd have hundreds of cracked girls starving on the streets. But your right, you know, about how scarred those girls are left. I know, like, its wild.
girl friend is homely flesh. prostitutes are like public toilet, unhygenic.
...I can't answer.It's like comparing a golden brick to a pile of sh*t. In case you were trolling, hurray you've got a reaction, good for you...yay...! In case you were not, you have a really bad opinion about women which is based on prejudice.It's really sad and pathetic in my opinion and I can't change such a narrow minded sexist opinion.No offense.
Personally I don't need a guy to buy anything for me.I'm capable of buying things on my own.Maybe you like dating women just for the sex part,so that means you have never experienced having feelings towards them or the other way around...Anyway...Good luck with your life...
for you prostitution is better for normal men its not, so go ahead run along to the bunny ranch one less asshole for women who respect themselves to deal with
Nope I already proved (convincingly I might add) that prostitution is better than dating. I did not however say that its better for men. So go ahead and put words in peoples mouths.
Since I don’t live near Nevada, it would be cheaper for me to go the dating route.
Besides, if you are going on first dates you aren’t going to the movies all the time.
You are probably just going some were to meet, eat, and talk to get to know each other better. Movie dates are for after you know that the relationship is going to work out.
... and most people I know won’t have a big meal at a restaurant and then have popcorn and candy at a movie too!
Prostitute is better because you get what you want and you don't have to face foolishness.
A Girl wants to get married. A guy wants to have sex.
Dating is a game where a girl and/or a guy could win it.
You choose to take her to an expensive restaurant. You could just take her on a date in a park.
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Man is a hunter and only looser pays to get for he wants. A good hunter would walk 1000 miles after the grizzly bear and kill him when he could just buy a dead/in a cage bear for a much cheaper price.
What is a satisfaction of paying for sex? 30 minutes?
What about the satisfaction of meeting a real love of your life?
- At least a couple of years.
Fine, go get some whores. Most girls looking for a relationship wouldn't touch your kind anyway.
Seriously...
Of course dating is better...
Ok. First off if it takes anywhere over $40+ to get, you are a loser. I would enjoy making love to the girl I'm in love with waaaaay more than a dirty whore. The whore doesn't have any passion, and all she's doing it for is money. Not to mention her vaj is probably loose as f***. Grow a pair, find an AWESOME girl, fall in love with everything about her, and get all the best sex in the world, FOR FREE.
*to get laid
First off, sex is never "free" you always end up paying for it, even when you have a girlfriend. Yes, the sex is better with a girlfriend than a whore. But then again, this is not whore sex vs girlfriend sex, this is prostitution vs dating. and all she's doing it is for the money?- HA just like most women who date. And vaginas don't really get loose from f***ing, that's a myth, unless its from child birth, and even then its rare, and can be fixed through surgery and kegel exercises.
Secondly, you really don't know if the girl your dating has a lose vagina. This is ASSUMING that you are actually going to get that far. Remember this is not RELATIONSHIPS vs prostitution. this is DATING. Where there is no guarantees your going to get there. So now that I shot all of that argument down, to sh*t, what else you got.
Oh and one more thing. When your dating you have no idea if she's had 30 kids and decided not to have the surgery, nor do the kegals. And by the way many prostitutes actually do the kegals and they do the surgery. PLUS they have the money to do it since they typically roll in money. So the girl your dating who doesn't have to put out and probably wont, since most first dates don't end in sex, might have 30 kids and be loose as f***. But you'll never know since first dates don't end in sex, "typically"
Preferably, something along the lines of dating. This is because it's legal.
Nevada.
Everyone doesn't live in nevada
haha, good question man..I bet Charlie Sheen contemplates this on a daily basis too!...anyways, I think it comes down to this: with a ho, you won't get the emotional attachment, the love or the girlfriend experience, just mindless sex.
I love sex as much as the next guy but that's not enough for me, I want more, I want her to care about me on some level, not necessarily love but care...this is where the argument for a prostitute is lost on me...I would take a regular girl, even with the bitchiness that time of month and all the blah-blah-blah talk and stuff, just because she will also give me her heart...that's crucial...I want her heart, not just her pu**y...
I think if you can guarantee emotional attachment with every women you dated, then you would have a point. With prostitution you get the guarantee of mindless sex.
Prostitution is VILE. Boy, we act as if we're nuttin but beasts...as if the soul and emotions don't even exist.