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Sexual Health Prostitution VS Dating.. Which is better?
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With prostitution, the guy gets what he wants, and the girl gets what she wants. 1. There's no game playing, you never think to yourself "does he or she like me?"- women get the money and men get the sex. Everyone wins. 2. With a woman you date, she's not required to do monthly STD and aids checks. Like a legal prostitute. 3. With a prostitute is there a chance if the sex is bad, or the "deal" goes bad that she gets HALF of ALL of your money. No. 4. Its defiantly cheaper. An average prostitute in Nevada costs about 300 bucks on average for sex. An average date costs about 100 bucks, and most women don't want to put out until the 3rd date AT LEAST. And even then its not a certainty. Cost of gas= 20 bucks for the drive to her house to pick her up, to the movie,and to the restaurant and back to her house and then back to yours. Cost of movie= 12 bucks X 2= 24 bucks, rounded down to 20. That's 40 bucks not including popcorn and candy. So that's 60 bucks. Now include the cost of the meal at a "decent". Because we all know she's going to think your a cheap loser if you take her to taco bell.- unlike a whore where you don't have to pay anything except for what you get in return. So you figure 20 bucks a person.. that's 40 bucks. This is not including candy, gifts, or flowers. 60+40=100 bucks.. and there you have it. 3 dates=300 bucks. Suppose it was even guaranteed that she's has to put out on the 3rd date making it "equal" even then its like putting her vagina on lay away, and you have to wait. Most people also don't date consecutively one day after the other either. 5. Most of the time women in marriages "put out" to get their husbands to do chores or anything like that. Its been said that most women are nothing more than closeted prostitutes because after all how many women here would date a man who's broke? How many women here will accept a man who doesn't pay for the date? If you won't accept a man who takes you to taco bell for a date, then all it means is that you are a hooker who is just haggling over the price. The only difference between prostitution and dating is emotional connection and love. Both of which are free. So, unless you want men to date you, stop acting like whores, because were just going to go there instead of dating you. Because at least with them its a sure thing. So which do you think is better.
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This is prostitution vs dating, not prostitution vs relationships. Obviously getting the sex for free from a girlfriend is better. That's why its vs dating, not relationships.
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44 47The saying around here is why beg for it when you can pay for it...
With dating most men pay AND beg.
That is true
Prostitution vs Dating ? thts a terrible mismatch. The point of prostitution is for you to have sex. The point of dating, is not sex, it is to bond with her. And I guess you've only gone out with gold-diggers, because not all girls want you to spend a lot on dates.
I would say the point of dating is evolutionarily meant to pair bond and eventually propagate the species. Which usually is done through sex.
Dating/relationship z better...simple
depends if you want intimacy or not..id say gf
Well I don't know how much intimacy dating has. This is not prostitution vs GF, its prostitution vs dating.
Prostitutes are the most disgusting thing on the planet. Just the thought of sticking my C ock in basically a tube of a mix of STD's is, well horrifyig is not even enough of a word. I wouldn't use a prostitue with my best friends d ick.
Prostitutes in the bunny ranch are actually cleaner than your average woman on the street who ISNT a hooker. They are actually forced to get monthly checks. Your average woman is not, and does not.
Well said
Average woman on the street who isn't a hooker isn't having sex with say 25 men a week (five days of work) and doesn't need to get checked monthly. And anyone can get an STD in a 30 day window. Even with regular condom use. With high numbers of partners the risks exist. "sex workers are far more likely to be infected with STDs than people in the general population."7 "Sex Workers and STIs" 2016. Sexworkers are performing a job, but this job is risky even under legal prostitution. They have sex with whoever pays. It would be great if their clients were tested before they had sex with them. STIs would, therefore, not be a risk for sexworkers, and also their subsequent clients.
Dating. But only if men CHOOSE to date
a GOOD women.
ok well I'm not so tightly wound as some of the girls on here I see your point, I for one would quite happily be paid 300 bucks to sleep with a guy no strings attathed if only you could be sure he never had any std's. I suppose I don't know what the guys at the bar have either when I decide to go home with them but I know I'm clean before anyone decides to write a "funny" comment! I would say prostitution BUT I couldn't do it, I mean sleep with just about anyone, no thanks some men are just nasty! I want to fall in love and the only way to do that is by dating someone, so for me ill choose dating but that's just my preferance.
Define nasty?
You really need that defined?
dating is more rewarding in the end. if you want something amazing then you need to put in the hard yards first. even the prostitutes who say that they love their job, deep down want this.
Here's how I see it:
Escorts are hotter usually, and you get sexual satisfaction. I don't know how they work. But are they STD free? They surely don't test you. So how does it work?
Dating, you're trying to accomplish 2 things. 1. The chase. If you like the chase, it's like an accomplishment and it can be fun. You can make her pay as well. 2. The girlfriend experience, where you can cuddle and have her do things for you. It's like an extra friend except you're sexual with her. It can even lead to marriage.
I know I'm really bad with the ladies so I might go with the P if I continue failing. I'm good with the $, bad with the ladies.
Each whore in nevada is regulated by the government so they get tested once a month. They also screen the men, by doing visual penis checks. They also use condoms every time. Of course there is no 100% safe way to avoid getting an std, but that is certainly better than having sex with a woman who isn't forced by her job to get checked, and use condoms and check her men. The chase is only good when you win. No one likes to lose. 2. Prostitutes do GFE, but it costs extra. And marriage? bleh.
1. If you win you feel that much better about yourself. 2. They charge by the hour/half. GF's provide GFE and support 24/7 or at least they should. It's all about catching a good one. There are millions of gazelles out there, you gotta hunt for one worth your time. But if you live in Nevada, living the vegas lifestyle, I suppose prostitutes are better.
Well yeah a good girlfriend is WAY better than a prostitute. They cost less, the sex is better and you get love. But this is dating vs prostitutes, not girlfriends vs prostitutes. Even if you live in Nevada girlfriends are better. Providing you have a good one.
Dating = Girlfriend eventually? No?
Ideally. but if you want to go by statistics, Most dates don't end in girlfriends. And thank god they don't.
I see what you're saying... Prostitute if you want to relieve yourself sexually and dating if your goal is to want a girlfriend.
Prostitution all they way!
its like what Charlie Sheen once said, "i dont pay them for sex i am paying them to leave". so with that said i rather be with a prostitute because with a prostitute you will always get what you pay for and not worried about attachments afterwards. lets not forget that with a prostitute you are always bound to get what you want right away as you dont need to "sweet talk", buy drinks or put a prostitute in the mood for her to give you what you want.
with a date in the other hand is a total drag as you have to sweet talk her, take her out to dates, buy her drinks, etc just so in the end she will either not leave you alone, stalk every where you go, sabotage your plans in life, and the list goes on!
As a guy, you end up paying for sex one way or another. Buying movie tickets and dinner is the same as paying cold hard cash to a hooker.
Its all prostitution, and most women are prostitutes. If they weren't, they would not require money being spent on them in order for the guy to get the reward
Oh this made me laugh because it reminded me of a quote from Boondocks. Riley was talking to his grandad, because the g-dad has a new girlfriend and didn't know she was an actual prostitute. So Riley says: "You pay for her dinner right? She a hoe! Why can't you just give her the same amount of money you would've for dinner and let that bitch buy herself some groceries instead!?" lol
This is only true if the only thing you want from a woman is sex. Otherwise, paying for a date isn't paying for sex, it's paying to do an activity with someone---to spend time with them and get to know them. Also, sex is not just a "reward" for the guy, it's a rewarding experience for both people. Sex is something that is shared, not given. Both people are giving and receiving pleasure from the experience.
Men could care less about you or your personality. we want sex and everything else is just a way to get to sex. you'll never understand that though, because you live in a fairy tale self-delusion. You probably dreamed of being a little princess when you were little and you never grew up
@selfishstars: "Otherwise, paying for a date isn't paying for sex, it's paying to do an activity with someone---to spend time with them and get to know them. " Seriously? So now I need to pay to get to know someone? Hot diggity, I can't wait to get my next paycheck to make a new friend! That being said, to the asker: you go to the prostitutes, I'll go find myself someone to love who doesn't require that I pay for everything we do. Win-win for everyone.
Good luck in finding that khell... That's what most men want, including myself. A good woman is hard to find.
So all men are just sex fiends who only want women for sex and not to get to know us as people? Unmarked
That last word was a typo by the way. Seriously though question asker, be honest with yourself. You aren't looking for a "good woman," you are just looking for easy sex. You made that clear by actually comparing prostitution as an alternative to dating. Obviously prostitution provides you with easy sex. If you wanted more than that (which you don't) that wouldn't even be an option for you. That's fine. Its your choice but don't pretend you're looking for anything more than sex. Man up to the truth.
Seriously though, be honest with yourself, you aren't looking for a good man, you are just looking for easy money. You made that clear by complaining and putting words in peoples mouths.If you wanted more than that (which you dont) you wouldn't be so p*ssed off right now. that's fine its your choice, but don't pretend that your looking for anything more than money. Stop lying.
Ok, Deal! You'll go after the hookers, I'll stay with my wife.
Yeah go ahead and have fun having sex with one woman the rest of your life. You enjoy that.
Sounds to me that you are very angry and you are a cheap ass
with dating you get the real thing. love. relationship between equals.
with prostitute you get to break the rules of ethics, and help a woman destroy her life.
choose.
So you love every man you date... wow.. what a slut.
Don't be stupid... but this is the only way to fall in love... hopefully you won't fall in love with a prostitute. =]
The point is, the majority of dates people go on don't end up in love or a relationship of any kind. Thats why this is dating vs prostitution not dating vs marriage, relationships or girlfriends. Both dating and prostitution are short term deals.
Do you actually consider going to one? have you ever tried it?
No, but I know people who have.
I believe that they'll regret it later... dating has a real purpose, prostitution might do you good for a few seconds. not to mention the risks
Like I said before, this is vegas and with regulation there is less chance of stds than with a woman you meet whos not forced to get monthly checks and check her man and forced to uses a condom every time she has sex. Dating only has a purpose if you get the goal in the end, and most times you dont. Its like going in a race knowing your going to lose 9 times out of 10. And possibly NEVER win. Not to meantion you have to PAY to race, every single time, regardless if you win or lose.
But at least you have a chance! with prostitutes you always loose.
Nope you always win. Because there is no race, there's always a trophy. Its a different trophy mind you, but its still one. Sure the other one is better, but at least we get one.
Well.. why get one instead of getting both? love is really not that hard to find... don't give-up on it so fast!
Its not about giving up. Its not like just because you sleep with a prostitute, your giving up on relationships. Charlie sheen gets in relationships all the time and he still sleeps with hookers. But that's just one example. You shouldn't have to get both. men shouldn't have to resort to prostitutes. Ideally women should be putting out, or doing something to deserve the money men pay for them.
So when a woman goes out with a man she should decide before she even knows him if she is going to sleep with him? the reason we are going out is in order to meat and get to know each other.... and there is no way to know before you spend any money if anything could happen.
Lets get real. Most women know within the first 3 minutes of meeting a man if there is a possibility of sleeping with him. And sometimes they even say "im definitely going to screw this man." Money is not a requirement to meeting someone and getting to know someone. Only gold digging women think this way. Im not spending money just to hang out. Do you ask your friends to pay for your way when you hang out with them? Then why do you expect a STRANGER to do it? Because he has a penis?
No, because if someone asks me out then it means he is paying. and I don't know what kind of women you've met but most of the women I know would never go out with a guy they know they don't want. it's not that fun talking to someone you don't like for an entire date, and it's not worth the free meal. you should get to know nicer women..
So if you asked a guy out then you would pay his way? I doubt it. And by the way most women don't ask out men, it just isn't the norm. You can lie to me all day and say that you would, but I highly doubt youd ever ask a guy out, and even if you did you can't tell me that tons of girls do. And which is is, either you know you want to be with a man or you dont. And if you know you like a man your dating, then what's wrong with doing something to deserve the money he's paying you. What is he paying for?
That's exactly it! you don't pay the women, you pay for the date, for a chance to get to know each other! by thinking that women owe something to you because of the free meal you are making all women whores! and then, it's not surprising that you can't understand why prostitution is worst then dating!
If a man is paying for the date, the woman should pay for the date too. Because if he's the one paying for the date WHY is he the one paying? Why not her? Why not both? I mean if both people are equals, and both people are trying to get to know one another, why should the man have to pay? Because he's her equal? Nope, because she expects him to. Both people are getting to know each other, BOTH people, so its not just him paying to know her, Shouldnt she do something to earn her knowledge of him?
I still think that it has to do with you asking her out and not vice-varsa. in any case, many girls don't have any problem with splitting the bills.. the first date if you pay it shows you are not cheap, I think that from the second date you can pay half. and I know many girls that agree with that.
So if she asks a guy out he STILL has to pay. And why is the guy cheap if he doesn't pay for the first date? Who cares if he's cheap. Unless you care about the man for his money. Why is it that only women are allowed to call men cheap and for some reason its not OK to call a woman a gold digger. Or better yet, why can't men calll women cheap for not paying half on the first date? AFter all, men and women are equals right?
Well, not completely, no. it is a bit hypocrisy, but come on, you can pay for one lousy date! and if not, stand on your morals, some girls won't be turned off by that..
I say, come on, you can do one lousy thing to deserve the man paying for that date. And when I find a woman that thinks that a man saying "no I won't pay for the date, were going dutch."isnt CHEAP it will be the same day I play hopscotch with a leprechaun and the Easter bunny.
dude...u have a seriously warped view of women and dating. I don't date guys for money or free stuff. in fact, I pay for ALL MY OWN FOOD AND TICKETS AND STUFF when I go on dates. he can pay for himself like he would if he were alone. we just chill and have fun. sex comes later when we fall in love. because that's what sex is for. the ONE person you will LOVE AND BE COMMITTED TO FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. and no one else.
Good for you, your not a whore.
You're not actually suppose to date women only for sex...
If you don't close the deal, then there's no point.
There are plenty of women who want the same thing are you afraid of diseases or something? lol
You should have to pay a lot for girls when you go out if all you want to do is have sex. For you I'd say prostitution is better because all you want is sex. Nothing meaningful.
And to "So, unless you want men to date you, stop acting like whores, because were just going to go there instead of dating you. Because at least with them its a sure thing."
If all you want is sex you're a slut. I'd much rather be a whore (though I'm not) than a slut. Atleast they get paid.
Anyways, I'd rather date.
If I were a girl id rather date too. Because I'm gonna get paid for NOT having sex. If all you want is a relationship, you're a gold digger. Of course you'd rather date, because at least with dating you have an option of not having sex. A whore has to put out to get money, a woman you date does not.
Actually, I don't think a guy should have to pay for everything. I don't think it's fair. And I wouldn't be in a relationship for the money. Stop acting like you know all women, moron. You don't.
I know every woman in the world! But that's not the point. A man ends up paying for the date anyways, and the woman has the option of putting out. Going to a whore house and giving the woman money without getting sex in return is called STEALING. Or.... dating.
Eh. You just don't understand.
No, you don't understand. The guy loses money on a date regardless if the woman puts out. 1. a man shouldn't have to pay for sex. 2. And if she doesn't put out and he pays, (hes still lost) What happens if a woman goes on a date and the guy spends all the money on her. She gets a free meal, and a free movie, and a good time with a guy. What does the guy get... a good time with the girl? And he has to pay for that? And how good is it when she's not giving him sex?
Ur the one that doesn't. If a man wants to go out with a girl so badly then why can't he do the manly thing and pay? Instead of complaining like a bitch. Like you are. It may surprise you, but not all guys go out with someone just for sex. I don't know, maybe they like the girl (I know, it's a shocker). And a guy can have a nice time with a girl without complaining about not getting sex or using his money. You're just a loser that doesn't deserve anyone except someone that's as whiny as you are.
Do us girls all a favor and stick to prostitutes.
Nope you dont. If a woman wants to have a boyfriend so badly, then why can't she just put out? Because SHE DOESN'T KNOW HIM.. that's why. You seem to think that its perfectly find to throw away money on a stranger, and not get anything in return. Since when is giving money away to a complete stranger, who did nothing to earn it, "manly"? A man has no idea if he's going to get laid, and she could turn out to be a total psycho on the date and screams and throws plates.
It may suprise you, but not all women actually put out on dates, some women actually use men for money. LIKE YOU. You're just a 400 lb WANNA BE gold digger who lives with 30 cats and no man actually wants to have sex with, ever. Do all of us men a favor and stick to touching your cats, because no man wants to touch you.
Im done talking to you. your a moron. BLOCKED>
Sorry but im just not interested in dating.
You are at the brothel or parlor for an hour get a little chat then to the sex and you or she leaves. No muss or fuss, and no emotional "tests" or any of that garbage that comes with dating.
Plus no need for a call back unless you request it. I like my connections in small doses.
I paid $500 total for sex with four girls. Do you think it was worth it? It was guaranteed sex, but I kept ejaculating within five minutes with each girl. Chinese girls have a rule that if you ejaculate, you can't continue having sex without paying extra. That's why I ended up going to the prostitutes four times. So, on average it was $125 per girl. I got tired of being a virgin, so I decided to go to prostitutes in August 2015 since it was a sure-fire way to get laid without all the risk of not getting laid through dating. I mean what if I ended up paying more than $500 for dates and never got laid. That would've made me really sad. I read one guy doing just that. He went on expensive dates with girls but not one girl would have sex with him. That's not cool. I think I will start dating girls now, since I have nothing to lose. Sex isn't necessary for me anymore because I have good memories of sex now, but I still want to have more sex with girls. I have a really high sex drive.
I couldn't agree more with you. I am not even bad looking, but I'm kinda broke. Its been harder for me to get a date than before. Most women are prostiutes, I know some girls will bash me for saying this, but the same ones that would criticize me, would not date a guy who makes less money than they do, or who wants to pay evenly at the movie dinner etc. which proves my point
I ain't callin you a gold digger, but you ain't messin with no broke.