Relationships and masturbation?

Would it bother you if your parter preferred to masturbate from time to time, instead of having sex?
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  • Yes because we can do both.

  • If she wanted to do her own thing nothing wrong with that all i asked is that i can watch

  • Not at all. I think it's fun to do it together sometimes too.

  • Nah id be ok with it. would love to watch her actually

  • no it's 2 very different things. I've had sex and masturbated after.

    but if he only likes to masturbate.. then need to talk to him to find out why. try to give him oral first?

  • Instead of having sex yes
    If your horny it will make your partner horny or maybe to watch then play

  • If I was available and got turned down by my partner so she could go do it then it might. Other than that though it's natural to need to do it.

    That being said, I think doing it together while watching each other would be pretty hot... I might not be able to control myself though 😂 I can definitely see myself stopping to bury my face between that person's thighs haha

  • Totally for it

  • We do it just for fun. Both masturbate occasionally in front of each other. It is very arousing.

  • Sounds like something fun to do together.

  • It would only bother me if masturbation took the place of sex.

  • Hell no. I often feel like self-service.

  • Wouldn't bother me one bit, as long as my masturbating didn't bother her and she lets me watch her masturbate.

  • Not if it doesn't replace the intercourse.

  • I know I do because I have a higher sexual drive than her. if she does it's kinda like wtf I'm ready and willing 24/7. but I understand nobody does it quite like yourself.

  • Only if we weren't having sex frequently.

  • I'd be fine with it as long as it doesn't take away from our time together having sex.

    Hopefully she would feel the same way.

  • Kinda, unless she needed more sex than I could provide

  • Yes it would. I’d rather have sex than masturbate but she doesn’t have the high sex drive that I have.

  • Yeah

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