Relationships and masturbation?

Would it bother you if your parter preferred to masturbate from time to time, instead of having sex?
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  • No sex is weird. There are periods of impotence. Or just not feeling it.

  • Sometimes a girl and myself will masturbate together, but about always turns to fucking after w have cum.

  • No it wouldn't bother me

  • Some times it's "that time of the month", might not be available, etc. When you prefer to get off instead of using a partner, there is a problem.

  • I don't think masturbation can affect relationship as long as sex is still frequent, if you have a high sex drive (like me) and sex is not enough for you and you need to masturbate every now and then to relief yourself then you partner should accept that, it only become a problem when you start prioritize masturbation over sex with partner and it affects your sex life as couple.

  • Yes I'm not a peg to allow this

  • Nope

  • If it's on regular base, then it's strange.
    If only sometimes, why not

  • Na, just as long as she lets me watch too.

  • No i like to do it myself to

  • At least let me watch

  • I would love it

  • Ofc It will make me bother, why ıf I have making love and I will do masturbate?

    • For what?

    • Uhh, what?

    • If I have a partner, why I will make masturbate?

  • Wouldn’t bother me if she masturbated sometimes when we are apart. Wouldn’t bother me if she wanted to masturbate together. Would bother me if she turned me down then went off to masturbate.

  • if she or he masturbates while watching porn i would be upset for sure like you have me right here

  • 25 to 30 years ago, my wife would tell me not to bother her in her bedroom because she would be masturbating. On a few rare occasions however, we would actually have sex in my bedroom. I would have loved to watch her masturbate, but I guess she wasn't comfortable with it.

  • When I'm in a relationship I will if it's mutual masturbation

    • Otherwise I'll wear a pair of Pantyhose to masturbate with

  • If you are in a relationship maybe you could masturbate together instead of sex

    • That's actually a lot of fun. Lol. Sometimes you just wanna cum and go to sleep ya know? Haha. No extra fuss.

    • For sure like time you want to have sex there’s even times when me and my ex girlfriend just cuddled naked no sex just cuddling that was fun

    • That actually sounds nice right now. 😅

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