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Reverse Cowgirl: unsatisfying and uncomfortable?

Am I the only one who finds the RC really unsatisfying and uncomfortable? I'm rather top heavy so I spend most of the time trying to balance and not fall over and the rest of the time trying to make sure I don't break his dick when I'm bouncing up and down, not much time left for any enjoyment. I hate it but guys seem to love seeing butt holes when theyre fucking, we'll I'm done with that shit. No more Reverse Cowgirl for this girl!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I've got bigger boobs too, but I just get him to "hug" my boobs lol and lean back so my back is rubbing against his chest.

    Reverse cowgirl is actually my favorite position! Have you tried pretending like you're twerking on his lap while he's sitting in a chair?
    Lol I be up in there like

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3k0rPtb0Izs



    but I mean if that doesn't work for you that's cool there are other positions. Switch it up!

    • Damn that's nice.

    • Yeah, I've tried that position and it doesn't stimulate me at all. It doesn't hit the right spot inside, my legs are spread which makes everything feel worse, plus then I have to do squats? Fuck that, I'm making love not working out. I feel so many positions people want to try are because it's shown in pornography, they don't actually feel good their just good for camera angles.

    • I come the fastest in that position (and missionary when my legs are over his shoulders), but different strokes for different folks I suppose

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  • I like both positions, it means I get to be in control. With cowgirl you can see his expression when he comes - I get a kick out of that. With reverse I can massage my man's feet, since he loves that.

    Also, it's great exercise! If you need to shed a few pounds, then these positions are perfect for toning your thighs.

    • He hates his feet being touched, which really annoys me because what else am I supposed to be doing? I can play with myself but jeez, I can do that without the other effort. It Just feels so rubbish in that position, it doesn't stimulate anything whatsoever for me.

    • Damn feet massage sounds good.

    • I'm ticklish so that would feel funny.

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  • I'm not a big fan either. If you have a shitty lover it's a great position for him to not see how utterly bored you are though.

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    • That's the only saving grace - you don't have to feign enjoyment, I just end up staring at his hairy feet (which he's quite sensitive about so I can't even have a chuckle at them while I'm down that way!)

Most Helpful Guys

  • I love this, and im sure most guys do, seeing your behind like that is so awesome.

    Why don't you try being more upright? Or surely if you are leaning forward and resting on your arms, you have more than enough stability?

    A lot of girls struggle with this position though in my experience, so don't worry!

    • I don't have long arms so I'd be leaving forward which doesn't make it easy to move your hips up and down without looking like your wiping your arse on a wall, sitting up right means I literally have to bounce up and down and that isn't really fun or sexy it just looks stupid in my opinion. It's either bolt upright or hunched over, either way it sucks.

    • "seeing your behind like that is so awesome." Yeah the view is amazing.

    • Bolt upright is great in my opinion, feels good for your man, and if you hold your boobs while your doing it, even better!

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  • No more? :(

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    Given my shape I like RC better than regular. You won't break mine I don't think.

    • It doesn't feel nice in anyway, it does nothing for me sexually and it just feels awkward and uncomfortable. Almost falling over onto your face while trying to keep a penis inside you is just too distracting.

    • Guess it wouldn't work out :(.

    • We wouldn't match up sexually I guess. Ha.

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  • Do what you like. I'd rather see your sweet face and top heavy assets myself.

  • I hate it. Worst position ever. It does nothing for me or my SO.

    • Well damn you didn't have to down vote me just because my physical body part likes RC better. I can't help that. XD

    • @Red_Dragon: I haven't voted on anyone's answer here lol. But yeah, reverse cowgirl... not for me. I mean, I'll do it, but it doesn't feel that good for me. Might as well move into doggy or turn around and do it face to face.

    • But thanks for the down vote 😜

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  • I kind of like it.. because it's an absolutely different position.. it's not just a cowgirl, but a REVERSE cowgirl position.. I don't know maybe I'm whack lol but I don't mind it at all.. saddle me up cowboy *YEEE ARGHHHH!!"

    • But he can't reach your clit or your boobs and you get a view of his knees and feet. Plus you have to do all the work, he can't really match your pace, because you're sat on his legs. I hate it, makes me feel like a p*rn star, ie doing it for the look of it and not the enjoyment.

    • yeah I know what you mean.. I only do it if my bf (when I decide to date again) wants to do it. if it makes him happy, cool he can see my ass, I don't mind at all.

    • Oh wow...😜

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  • Ahhh yes so awkward & uncomfortable :/

  • hahaa. im sure you're not the only one. thank you for the chuckle :D

  • Ha ha. Not too much of a fan either. I think not works better if your cock curves down otherwise you the girl need to lean back. That angle works better for me. If you are top heavy thorn around. I'd rather see the front.

  • Best position ever in my opinion 🙏🙏🙏

  • I'm with you on this one. The only thing I find more awkward is 69. hahaha

    • Yeah not a fan of that either unless it's on the side.

  • If you're really top heavy, I'd think most guys would prefer to have the front view during sex! So cowgirl it is! ;-)

  • https://www. cosmopolitan. com/sex-love/q-and-a/a813/carnal-counselor-reverse-cowgirl/ (you have to take the spaces out, I'm only a level 1)

    I'm a guy and don't really read cosmo but I do know how to look things up on the internet and paste them in to other peoples "complaints" which is obviously what this is, and not really a question. Thought I'd look it up for you, and see if you might try it again, using some tips, instead of just blowing it--I mean, abandoning it

    • Yeah you obviously don't read cosmo, it's known for its atrocious sex tips. It's mocked globally by women for his bizarre guidance so I won't be reading it unless I need a chuckle. But thank you.

    • Then use google to search other sites, I only saw Cosmo, because it was the very first site listed... or continue being a bitch, simple as that

    • How am I being a bitch exactly? Because I don't want to read your cosmo tips? Yeah you're alright thanks, I don't need tips I wanted some input on the position. But thanks anyways.

  • Normal Cowgirl is much better. Any "reverse" positions are not good. I would also recommend you the inverted missionary: www.sexinfo101.com/sp_missionary_inverted.shtml

  • The missionary would suit you best.

  • Do you do it just because he likes it? Since you are top heavy, It must be entirely uncomfortable. Ask him if he can do cowgirl.

    • Meh, not a big fan of that either. To be honest I just hate being on top.

    • Doggy it is then :D won't it hurt because your boobs will be bouncing here and there? But still better than Reverse Cowgirl

    • Bouncing boobs doesn't hurt, just having to hold yourself up and balance with them really detracts from the sex and just pisses me off.

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  • I've never had sex, and likely never will, but I do not like it at all.

    • Why will you never have sex?

    • Lack of: Self esteem, appearance, confidence. I also suffer from: Early-onset misogyny, gynophobia, anxiety.

    • Dude, you aren't even 18. I doubt you're suffering from any of these things, you're just a nervous teen. Don't be quick to label yourself with issues and syndromes, I think they have a very detrimental effect and make you shirk the responsibility of making yourself a better person.

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  • Unsatisfying. We are mutually pointed in the wrong directions. Turn around, please.

    • Yes, thank you! If you want to see as there's doggy. Not looking at feet, that always bores me too watching toes.

    • Why Cowgirl is good. I get to watch you "work", boobs sway, facial expressions. I can massage your clit to help you finish. Eye contact and holding hand. Not strenuous to either. No posting needed. Just grind fore and aft and in circles. I can help you and get the rhythm I want by gripping your hips.

    • I don't really like being on top at all, I find it very uncomfortable and either difficult to balance due to big boobs or like I'm smothering him if I lean forwards. I have an ankle injury so sitting in that position can be extremely painful after a few minutes. I just hate uncomfortable sex, totally turns me off.

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