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#Scenario If you started dating someone today, whats the longest you’re willing to wait for sex and what needs to be done until then?

I’m pretty patient in terms of waiting for sex, and am not comfortable having actual sex within the first 6 months... honestly, not even with the first year. But if i feel he’s the one, i’d prob give in sometime after the 6 month mark. I mean, my first ex didn't get it til after that and one other didn't get it until after a year and a half (because we were both trying to wait til marriage but failed lol). Still, for the 1st month or two, I am occupied with pg-13 type foreplay until then. My favorite things are kissing, masturbating eachother, getting these tits sucked, phone sex and hickeys. However, I’d consider oral after the 3 month mark. Most men these days, won’t settle for this, especially if i ever want to be considered for marriage. Most boys would, but theyre just looking to hookup. I’m fine being single but if i get in a relationship, thats all i’m willing to offer for the first 6 months until i’m comfortable and in love. So what do you yourself need in order to wait, and how long would you wait for whoever you date?
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Well at least a few others said they need to be in love as well. Like its the only way i can live with myself. I can't just sleep around and whoever i sleep with, i have to at least had been in love to feel less guilty for having given in before marriage... cause can that religious guilt eats away at ya
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I dont count dates. I can go on a date with you every day of 1 week. But those 7 days is not long enough for me to be in love with you. I have to be in love to have sex. And that usually takes months for me.. usually about 6+... it is what is. If he can't wait that short amount of time, then on to the next. We all got options for a reason 🤷‍♀️
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  • We would have to exclusive for sometime before I would be thinking of having sex with him.

    • Sounds good

    • Ain't nobody got to wait for you

    • @yofuknutz Feel free to leave then.

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  • I don't know what I'd do anymore in this scenario. I have different beliefs now..

    • Awww yea sometimes we change

    • Yeah! I never had a one night stand to be honest, I'm a relationship kinda girl. I used to believe once you have feelings, making love was even better. Now, I dont know if I would still do it before marriage anymore Crazy right? LOL

    • Yea im definitely not into ONS. And the only reason i’d possibly do it before marriage again is because i dont see myself marrying anyone in less than 6 months but it would be nice 😂

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  • Waiting till marriage for everything you listed except kissing

    • Even hickeys (Sucking on neck)? and even boobs sucking? mr boob lover?

    • Haha, I know! But yes, I am going to hold off on that. But once I get married I will be sucking and teasing and touching them all the time!

    • Haha good

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  • If we haven't had sex by the end of the fifth date then there won't be a sixth date (5 dates probably takes about 2 and a half months to 3 months)

    • Yea i never count dates lmao. I've dated guys for years and we were official after 1 date and stopped counting dates after that lmao

  • Deciding to be with someone for me, is seeing that person in my future. That all sounds amazing but, what about everything in between that? Good, bad, doesn’t matter just doing it together.

    • Exactly. I wouldn't even date someone if i didn't see them as my future husband

  • Well I don't mind waiting till she's comfortable with it so yeah if she's still making out, sexting, masturbating, etc with me then I would still say that it's a good relationship especially if the person is a decent person

    • Good :)

  • I have waited enough lol, i see women that likes me I pounce on her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

    Nope not gonna happen 😂😂😂😂

    • Woww

  • Just bc you are anti-sex for 180 days, doesn't mean you can't be sexual with handjobs, blowjobs, or anal. If you aren't willing to do those, then you might find a good guy at a convent for priests! Lol

    • I said above IN THE BIG PARAGRAPH THAT YOU didn't READ that i’d do some stuff but not blowjobs. And anal not happening at all

  • Honestly, I might be able to wait until marriage or at least a series relationship if we are talking penatration because I don't think I'd feel comfortable as a man on top but, oral is one that I'm willing to do after the first 6-months to a year. Depends on what she needs or wants to do...

    I can find a way to compromise... 😉😁

    • Oh okay

  • i really don't have rules for my self like that

    • Okay

  • I've waited 6 months for sex... but we did everything before.. it all depends... I was seeing a girl this past year I waited 6 months and the sex was great when we did.. but I respected her opinion... but when we did have sex... it was crazy after... every chance we had we would... she was more sexual than I was... sometimes waiting is worth it... I am older now the longest I will wait would be 3 months in all honesty

    • I respect that

    • are you Indian?

  • I guess it depends. If they're a virgin then I'd wait forever ig until they are ready. For not a virgin tho probably like a month

    • Lmao understandable

  • I'm saving ALL sex for marriage. No exceptions. And I'm willing to wait as long as it takes.

    What needs to happen until then? Well, we need to have time to gradually fall in love. We need to go on dates. We need to tell each other about ourselves. We need to learn about each other's personalities. We need to learn each other's preferences. We need to spend time together just enjoying each other's company. We need to build a bond. We need to build trust. We need to talk about our goals and dreams. We need to make promises to one another and keep them. And we need to tell each other "I love you."

    • Is boobplay for marriage as well?

    • Yeah. If it turns me on and it turns her on, then it's sexual. Therefore, it should be reserved for marriage. Playing with boobs (and having them played with, from your perspective) is definitely fun, but you have to be patient and wait until the appropriate time. If you're not married yet, you can't do that yet.

    • This makes sense. I take it no kissing then either 🤣

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  • Eternity. Lol

    • Why lol

    • Aceness.

  • I can and have waited a year before having intercourse. Until that time we have to at least exchange oral. Not right away, but. I'd say after 6 months.

    • Thats good

    • So when are we meeting. Lmao

    • Haha

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  • I would be willing to wait for like a month and of dating the person. I wouldn't expect a girl to put out on the first date unless she wanted sex badly.

    • Mmkayy

  • It depends on how everything goes, sometimes a couple of weeks, sometimes a month

    • Okayy

  • No later than the 3rd date

    • Okay

  • Probably a year

    • Sounds good

  • I would, and WILL wait an indefinite amount of time for Sex. Marriage must happen prior to that.

    • Okay :)

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