Sent nudes and feels so ignored, what should I do?

Yesterday i sent nudes for the first time t a guy that I'm in love with, he asked for them while ago and I sent them yesterday late in the night, I woke and saw that ge didn't open them yet, but it's been 16 hours and i don't think that anyone stays away from their phone that much, I'm so nervous about this and feel like he doesn't care even though he's the one who asked for them, is it normal?
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Superb Opinion

  • relax lol any nude is a welcomed nude lol he’s probably in a place where it’ll be inappropriate and waiting to get home to enjoy i’ve been there before and it also made her nervous until i explained lol

Most Helpful Girls

  • That's a tough one... If I sent nudes and didn't get an immediate response of overwhelming happiness then I'd be pissed not concerned. If I take the time to get naked and pose for someone and make it look hot and they dont lavish me with omg's and emojis with hearts for eyes, etc. Then he is a dumb SOB and can jerk off to the photos for the rest of his life cause he will never see me naked IRL!

  • You mentioned that he didn't open them yet. Why don't you just call him and ask him to check his messages from you? After that, comes the part whether or not he liked what he received from you.

Most Helpful Guy

  • SOMETIMES, immature males wager one another that they can connive naïve trusting women to compromise her principles. Next, who can urinate higher on the wall~ >:(

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  • Well you sent them yesterday late in the night, was he even aware you were sending them? I must be misunderstanding something.

  • I dont know maybe he learned from a girl to test girls. And he was testing you to see how easily you would send nudes to someone

  • Any man that asks you for nudes doesn't respect you I'll say that much

  • Yeah that would feel horrible, but maybe he slept then was late to work and then couldn't look at them at work or something waiting till he gets home

  • I go for a week without looking at my phone sometimes.

  • A guy who loves you/cares about you/respects you won't ask for nudes if you aren't in an established relationship.

  • Guys are dumb go with oks, lol

  • its not a great sign, could be he got them from someone else. if you can unsend them i probably would and see what he says

  • Sounds like be got what he wanted and is moving on.

  • He didn't even seen them?

    I would be more worried if he ghosted you after seeing them..

    Maybe he is afraid to open them or just isn't online

  • Your being nervous is definitely normal. I have slept more than 16 hours straight but that isn't normal so I think he probably should have checked by now

  • I am a little more concerned knowing you gave personal information to a guy online. What happened if he send them all over the internet behind your back! Believe me that is going to be all on you if that happens.

  • Did you send it through snap? You could still delete it

  • Whether he likes you or not he would look at a nude picture so something else is the problem.

  • Don't worry, maybe his phone died or something.

  • The Internet is chock full of nudes. That is not why people fall in love anymore. Id stop creating that content outside of the bedroom, to avoid disappointments!

  • Most guys will think they hit the jackpot when they receive nudes, so I bet he's got a girl friend.

  • Sometimes young guys get a little scared when they are not sure what to do next

  • He might just be really busy

  • Send them to someone else

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