Biologically we are wired to stop right after we plant it so that we don’t clean-out our own. But with experience and edging some can stay the course of even the most stubborn vag orgasms. If I blow though, can’t hold it and she is hanging, I will finish her orally. I don’t want her remaining on fire after sex; I want her in a corpse state so I can get some sleep. The selfish part is nature intentionally making the female orgasm the most complex puzzle known to creation while the male is just wired to unload, ensuring procreation. Nature didn’t give us sex with the intention of pleasure even though we thinking humans love to exploit that part.
With selfish men yes, me on the other end. I don't stop till she gets her, then on the rare chance I last longer than her. Sometimes she doesn't wish to continue which I will cease the action. The main thing is communication, if it's an issue Express it to your partner. So it can help improve your relationship. If that is too straightforward, trying visiting your local sex shop to find things to make him last. Then try looking online like (#notsponsored) Adamandeve. com just to start your search.
Same. I enjoy foreplay and I will usually have my girlfriends orgasm before I even penetrate them lol. Then I'll start and usually if timed right I can get them into rolling orgasms. God I love watching jello legs afterward. However, if he's finishing to quick, tell him to use his hand a little before and after he finishes. Yet I agree communicate your dissatisfaction and find a solution together
Because he's being selfish. You don't need to have a boner to stimulate her clit to orgasm.
This isn't about multiple orgasms. It's about both people getting off.
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Somehow, this is the way man's body works.
In general we our orgasm = cum = ejaculation and when we have it, we "go soft" and may take at least 30 minutes to recover (longer with age).
So what you witnessed is the male biology at work.
Hence foreplay becomes a technique we guy learn to become better lovers and you girls should disallow penetration until you are near.
If the girl is really hot, I may cum after a few minutes without losing my erection. I can still keep pumping away with a hard penis for quite a while longer. If the girl hasn't cum, and wants to cum, I'll keep plunging into her until she does. I can imagine what it's like to not have cum while my partner decides she's had enough, so I don't want that to happen to the girl I'm with.
I think it ends when both of you are ready for it to end. If I finish first I will still try to go a bit longer to get her to orgasm or will use my fingers or a sex toy to finish her off.
Well, usually after the man cums the penis gets small and soft again, and you can't really "pound her hard" with this.
So the guy could only continue after a little break or by giving oral sex or with sex toys or whatever the girl likes.
That little twitch you get is an artifact of what we get. I know some guys can go over and over but the typical guy like me is cum and done. Arousal floods the body with testosterone and adrenaline and the spigots shut down when I cum. I experience an adrenaline crash and libido blows out like a candle. It's not selfish. It's biology.
Some people are too egotistical for foreplay.
For some reason I knew about this phenomenon when I was about 12. So to prevent being a short quick and undesirable fuck I would masturbate and not cum for as long as possible. Once I became sexually active I would always cum only after the girl came at least once. I also like to cum in her pussy and not stopping. Continue fucking and I get hard in only seconds and everyone is happy. Getting hard very quickly after cumming and continuing to fuck her after you have cum is always something every woman I've fucked has been very satisfied with.
I olso whant to keep on afther i cum, but i don't whant kid yet. Sex stop so we can clean up, make a shower and maby start round 2, but olso afther we cum for the first 3-5 min the girl will alwase look less atractive, i never understand why? I have all the time beautiful girl, but afther i cum i lose my interest in them for a short time. So:
1. Sper in pussy meen pregnecry
2. Low feelings afther orgasm
You need to train him. Men should only cum with permission. I never cum till my wife has had all the orgasms she wants. Then she grabs and squeezes my balls which is the signal that I can cum (with her still squeezing my balls!).
Try different positions. I last longer if my wife is on top.
Even if he cums he still has fingers and a tongue.
Hahaha. This is always a fun question.
The real reason is because most girls do nothing during sex. They don't have the stamina or upper body strength to control sex and get both people off.
So generally they just get fucked.
I don't put any effort onto getting a girl off. I expect her to make herself cum or enjoy the experience.
not for me. I like to go down on her and keep it going.
there is no biological need for a man to orgasm again or have sex any more but a woman who needs to be ready to conceive (orgasm aids conception) needs to be ready to orgasm at a moments notice and multiple times especially if another male comes around and packs his seed inside her moments later
U haven’t been with the right man then. Any true gentlemen wouldn’t stop until she’s satisfied.
He goes soft and can't thrust anymore. His penis head becomes ultra sensitive. Men have a period after cumming where they cannot get hard. That's why I make sure the womwn cums first.
I can stay hard after cumming so I'm really lucky.
Because those guys don’t care. I always get the girl off first.
That's not true, I always take my partner to orgasm my licking her clitoris. Even after cumming for first time a guy can be ready for another round.
I like too eat that pussy until I feel her twitching than I go for mines
For me it does most of the time but that's because I always make her cum first.
I dont stop till i know she has orgasmed or othereise it isn't good sex
It stops because the penis gets very sensitive and starts to go flaccid. If that happens I continue to rub her clit and suck her nipples, etc till she cums as well. I never quit just because I had mine.
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