Sex on first date, opinions?

I really try not to. I don't move in for a kiss unless the guy does first. But when someone starts kissing me, I can't stop. Which is exactly why I don't move in for the kiss first normally xD

I told him flatout, I'm not looking to hookup. I don't want sex on our first date (yeah that plan went out the window, and I don't regret it). I was busy after, he had to be home because he had plans to play a game with a friend. Well I kinda forgot my plans and he took me home with him. We made plans to go for another date today, or soon if he ends up busy.

Anyways. Do you think it's possible to have a relationship after sex on the first date? I' good either way.. just curious on people's opinions lol
It's possible to have sex on the first date and still have a relationship
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It's not possible
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I'm asexual
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  • Always fuck on the first date.

  • Never

  • Depends on how long you've known each other.
    If you were friends for years and had sex on the first date, then it's cool.

    • Nope lol.. we just had a very good chemistry

    • Then, maybe, maybe not. You have to think about where to take it all after the sex.

    • thanks :) I guess we'll see lol

  • Its is strange but it can work out but dont rely on just sex. good luck.

    • That was the issue with my last relationship, and we didn't have sex on the first date. In fact, it never got farther than me giving him oral.

    • He just wanted head, and that was it. never returned anything sexually, not even fingering

    • Im so sorry he was a moron. If im into a girl Id want to do everything. But I womt have sex untell I get married. Its hard but thats what I plan to do. My last relationship was based on sex and my ex cheated all the time.

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  • Largely it’s up to you guys... for me - it’s fine. It shows me she’s already committed (a good thing).. and that she feels comfortable enough to give herself to me (also s good sign). Also shows she enjoys sex (A great sign).. And also isn’t hung up or jaded about “first date sex” (another good sign)...

    Yes, it’s possible to have s longstanding, loving, very rewarding relationship with great sex! I’ve done that.

    • Agree!!

  • Yes, sex on the first date doesn’t mean much other than you both did what you wanted too do! It’s all about the chemistry. If you have great chemistry and a good vibe, you don’t have too worry about crap like that!

  • I know people that have done it and had a relationship, but I wouldn't.

  • It is possible but it's nothing for me

  • It’s possible

  • Depends on what kind of sex.

  • I think it's possible but you have to be careful so it doesn't end up a one night stand or that the relationship becomes based off sex.

  • I'm asexual

    • I had the asexual spot just for you CT <3

    • Thank you

    • you're welcome :D

  • It's possible but the connection between the two should be be much stronger from the beginning otherwise the lust will fade away.

  • Every serious relationship I've ever had started with sex on the first date

  • In life everything is possible sweety

  • In my experience, it never works but I still believe a relationship can come out of certain ones tbf

  • I went out with a guy for almost year and we had sex on the first datev

    • Thats probably y ypu lasted a yaer with him, so found wild chick to fuckbon regular base that he could a girlfriend.. Then why nott... 😁😁

  • been there, done that..

    • I swear I saw your profile pic and it looked identical to a meme we made from a classmate in high school, then I looked closer and it's not him lol

    • lol..

  • Are you a whore? I'm just asking

    • no, I'm actually a good church going girl (okay maybe not so 'good') I've only had sex with 3 guys. I wouldn't call myself a whore compared to many where I live at all lol

    • Dont tell this where live? He going to look for an opportunity to you laid, loll😁 Dont give your self fast.. Tease himm😁😁

    • lmfao

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  • Honestly if you want a relationship with a guy- dont have sex with him on the first date. Be sexy- put thoughts in his head. Be confident. Be yourself. Wait at least a month. If you have sex on the first date there's almost no way he will see you as a long term girl.

    • One month is long tho. Maybe the 2nd or 3rd date

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