Sex on the first date: Yes/No?

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  • I would say no Giving to much to soon Your not giving you'll find the guy will have more respect for you and he now knows his got to step up to win your affections

  • My rule is no sex until marriage.

    • People can do what they want but they're gonna have to find someone else besides me.

    • To the downvoters: maybe I'm old fashioned. So what? When I find someone like minded, it'll be good for the both of us.

  • Depends on the girl

  • Not for me, I'd consider waiting until we were at a more mature part of the relationship

  • Just a tip. If you want a lay men will do it without hesitation. But if you want to be taken seriously s as a romantic interest then don’t give it up first date.

  • It obviously depends on the person and the date, but if it feels right, why not go there?

  • I have and I haven't. I found not having sex until about the fifth date made the wait so much more worth it, and getting to know each other through those dates deeper made the sex more intimate.

  • I want commitment and security if i want sex i can just go jack off or bang some slut on tinder

    I don't want to have a relationship where our first romantic night was just me and her fucking, I want good memories that i can share with our kids and not make them uncomfortable

    • the fact that i got 2 thumbs down shows just how shallow people are

  • If they are into it, why not? When I started dating it was more of a third date thing. I never had to ask for it, they just invited me home. I would have waited longer if they weren't ready, but not more than a couple of months.

  • I say yes if the chemistry is feeling right and you are both into each other. Even if it doesn't work out in the future, hopefully both of you had a great time and made a damn nice memory. What's your opinion?

    • Yes. I've had sex on a first date and he became my boyfriend later.

    • Awesome, occasionally it does work out

    • Yeah, I guess lol

  • I've done that before when I was younger but now that I'm older I don't advise doing it that soon.

  • are you sure it's a date?

  • Wow, there sure are a bunch of whores in our society today.

  • Depends fully on how the date goes and what both want. It could happen. But it's not a bad thing if it doesn't happen. Sometimes it's okay on the first date, sometimes it isn't.

  • This isn't a yes or no question. There are 1001 variables. First of which, do i want to see her again? Or am i content to use her as a ditch for cum?

  • Yes, but only if you don’t care for the outcome and have very minuscule wants for the partner for the evening. It’s kind of a hard no on a relationship. Just f*** buddies

  • For me personally, no. For anyone else? If you both want it, go for it!

  • I always have sex on my first date it's a must for me.

    • Why is it a must? Lol

    • I love sex on the first date as well

    • Cuz I love having sex 😍

  • my answer was yes.
    But thats because i usually only go on dates with people that i know beforehand.
    I may be old fashioned but i don't just go on dates with people that i don't know yet.
    so i don't know if "a first date" really is a first date.
    If you get what i mean.
    i mean yeah it's a first DATE, but i already know the person for a while you know.

    when i don't know someone then it depends if the date goes well or not.
    if i really like the person and we both would like to see eachother again then it would be a no for me.
    if not then sure why not.
    you won't see each other afterwards anyways so why just not grab the opportunity when you got one haha.

  • Not for me.

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