I own quite a few sex toys or have tried most of them, here is a photo of my current ones.
If I'm wanting to masturbate I absolutely love using my Fleshlight. The benefits of that one for me is it feel absolutely incredible when I'm using it, especially if I warm it up first, and I can cum inside it so I'm not making a mess anywhere, but it does take some cleaning out afterwards and can take some drying too. If I'm wanting to do it with no preparation first and that takes no cleaning or drying afterwards my next favourite is my dildo, the vibrations from that makes me cum in no time at all.
As far as playing with my butt I wouldn't really recommend any butt plugs, none of them did anything for me whatsoever, I then tried vibrating prostate massagers and all they did was keep falling out of me and didn't feel great at all.
I then discovered the Stainless Steel prostate dildo (the long, curved one in my photo) and I can honestly say I have never experienced anything like it in my life. When I push it in as far as it'll go and move it slightly or just press it slightly and just leave it there within a minute or so my whole body starts shaking and It looks and feels like I'm peeing, but obviously I'm ejaculating, and I can easily do it at least 5 times in a row one after another, and I can even do it while I'm completely soft. I would definitely recommend laying on a towel while doing this though because I make a lot of mess while ejaculating.
Mine is the most expensive one that you can get (about £150 or whatever it is in your currency) but you can get a cheap one on Ebay for about £20.
Trust me you and him wouldn't be disappointed by one of these. I also hope you find this helpful
This is so incredibly helpful! Thank you for putting in the time to post a pic and explain in detail! I really appreciate it! This was sooo helpful and having the pics as reference makes it so much easier for me. I will definitely check them all out and let my boyfriend know he’s about to have the best experience ever!!!
I have one of these I frequently use but not (yet) with my partner.
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It includes a penis pump with 3 settings and 7 vibration settings. I can cum in less than 5 minutes when I stroke it aggressively. Versions of this are available in sex shops.
I ordered one of these but it is probably sitting in a container at Long Beach.
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It strokes the prostate like a prostate massage.
Can't wait to use them together. Versions of this may be hard to get.
Wow!! Thank you so much. This is so helpful! I really appreciate the effort into commenting on this
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!A medium sized clear glass butt plug one size larger than you're comfortable with. They clean in dishwasher. With a penlight, he can look straight up you tight little rectum.
They clean in the dishwasher? How convenient! A glass one is the best?
I have a sizable collection and they're all glass except the inflatable vibrating one.
This seriously just happened to me last weekend. We had both been curious about anal. I gave her anal without toys, but she used 2 dildos on me with lots of lube and it was pretty wild. I am wanting to do it again.
we get kinky and have used Leather blindfolds, cuffs/restraints and for us it’s pretty sexy. My girlfriend has also put a vibrating cocking on me. Didn’t do much for me but she liked the stimulation
I love that for you! I feel like being sexually adventurous is so fun and such a turn on, especially when guys are open to trying different things. Wild huh? Now I’m definitely going to try it
That is awesome, my girlfriend and I feel the same about being adventurous. Yeah definitely try it because it does feel different. Pretty orgasmic.
Start small if he's never done it before.
I'm INTO that shit yo. I started with small plugs, then moved on to "trainer" toys. Girlfriend pegs me now, it's pretty dope. No, I'm not gay. I'm not into dudes or dicks.
But yeah look for smaller toys, they'll get the job done for starters. Once y'all get used to it, move up to the bigger stuff. Try to convince him to let you peg him. He'll cum from anal and you'll get off from being the dominant one. It's a win-win for both of you
As the giver and not receiver I think that’s sooo hot. I don't know why guys think it’s gay!!! As a girl, we love to be dominate since guys are usually the ones who take control. It’s just a fun new way to be adventurous and expand your horizons in sex. I love guys that are down for this type of thing. He’s obviously never cum from his butt so it would be different and new to him which I think he would really excite him in the bedroom
Start small and work your way up.
Then get a harness if he's ready.
Have fun and good luck
The pornstar pocket pussy molds are pretty popular for obvious reasons lol. Get a decent stroker though or Fleshlight of choice
Someone else also recommended the flashlight. I give him handjobs and stuff but for some reason I’m weird about using a pocket pussy. Weird fear, but I’m worried he would love fucking that more than me. Is that ridiculous?
@blondefun1 I have a Fleshlight and I can guarantee that he won't end up preferring that over you, as great as a Fleshlight is it's not as good as the real thing. I bet you would also be really turned on using it on him
I liked and have tried a cock ring but it was too thin. A stronger vibrations.
Nothing. I dont like them.
I always wanted my wife to use my penis pump on me when we were having foreplay but she isn't interested.
strapon
That’s what I’m thinking. I would love to try it. I think he’s scared but I think he would love it
just start slow with lots of lube
I love vibrating butt plugs and bdsm toys 😍
I have the butt toy to fuck since I'm a 25 years old virgin loser who never had a girlfriend and I have a micro penis
You’re not a loser. Just haven’t found the right person. Everyone is different. Put yourself out there and go on dates. It’s nerve wrecking at first but it’s fun and you get to meet different kinds of people
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Get a butt plug make sure you grab lube too. You can also get a dildo. That is fun too.
I Like a dildo at least 8 inches and thick so it hits my prostate
Try buying different size dildos and go from smaller to bigger as he gets used to it :)
I had a kinky girlfriend that used to entertain me with a strapon cock.
Kinky people are the most fun! We’ll try and do anything ;)
Yeah she would do anything. And she got me doing some wild things too.
If he wants to try out butt stuff you could get him a butt plug or a prostate massager, they will probably be able to advise you in the store what is the best for a beginner.
My favourite it toy is a Doc Johnson sleeve really great when used on me by some.
I hate asking questions as sex stores. I always feel so awkward but they are the experts so I’m gonna have to get over that and ask for suggestions. I’ll definitely check that toy out when I’m shopping
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