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Yesterday, he asked me if he should tell his future wife (whom he hasn't met yet) about that, or should he say "Oh, I slept with only 7 women in my entire life!"
The question goes to both guys and girls.
Guys if you were him what would you do?
And girls, if you were the future bride would you like to know the truth? How would you feel to know it?
What Girls & Guys Said
13 26Why does anyone even care these days
Only if asked I guess if it was me I’d admit to a maybe a 3rd of it.
I'm pretty sure he is lying. I've only had 3 my entire life.
That's your choice. If you've had only 3 sexual partners, it doesn't mean so did others.
The number of sex is important by the way, mine has already passed 100 women.
but im not jackass i dont need to tell people already know me ahaha
We're just talking about the future wife 🤭
i tell truth but ur friend is a liar ahaha
This is wrong for us
What exactly?
Noooo
No, meaning don't tell the truth?
No she'll jugde you by it and your sexual life by it
He may need to tell her the truth if it comes up
Why?
Honesty is usually the best way to go if you’re going into a marriage
Yeh, I guess you're right.
I'd rather just know the truth my wife she admitted to having sex with over a hundred guys while she was in college
You got the question wrong. It's not about a woman who has slept with over 100 men, but about a man who has slept with over 100 women.
Well isn't it pretty much the same thing
I don't know. Many people put a difference whether it's a man or a woman.
Dude... No man of any value would marry a woman who had slept with 100 men.
@KrakenAttackin well she just had a bad couple 8 years in college
And I had already fallen for her before I found out
I think he can tell, and I think she'll have somewhat mixed views. I doubt it will be a major issue. Men simply have a much bigger knee jerk fear of settling down with highly promiscuous women, and it's almost certainly down to evolved fear of paternity fraud. Women worry about affairs and cheating, but a guy who got laid a lot, it just doesn't drop him the same way.
I'm not sure I'm following you.
by default almost every female lies about how many partners she had because generally women have more than men... in this particular case he’s probably gotten most of them beat.
if she finds out she’s probably gonna bail.
The law of three is usually applies to women so if a girl says she’s been with 3 guys and she’s probably been with 9+, if she says she’s been with 10 guys she’s probably been with 30+
Have sure are you about that theory?))
*How
seems to always work
I guess we'll have to create another survey to know if it's true))
Using your theory I have been with three guys plus one.
@Paige90 I believe I said the law of three “usually“ applies to women.
7 would still be too much, id dump him right there
When you're a guy less is more. As a rule you never tell a woman anymore than you have to. I'm not saying lie to her. Don't do that! Juat don't ever " volunteer" any info.
As for women they should absolutely tell him. I guy has the right to know if she took a train from the entire 2003 L. A. Lakers team.
Now, that's only unfair I believe.
How so?
Because guys are free to hide the truth but women are obliged to tell everything the way it is.
I didn't say they should hide ir. I said they shouldn't volunteer any info. Women judge a guy ON EVERYTHING why give her more reason to do that lol. On the flipside rhe guy has a right to know if she"s a skeezer or not. Get it?
Nope, its a pretty much the same.
I would definitely never be the future wife lol. Poor girl...
Why?
I'll never be with someone who's been with so many women before. No way.
I get it, but what's the reason?
We don't share the same values so it wouldn't work.
I see.
That should be discussed
Meaning, you would like to know the truth?
Definitely.
Do you think 100 is too much?
Yes, it sounds like they are an STD farm.