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Sexual Health Should a man's virginity be considered just as sacred as a woman's virginity?
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40 79Yes. I think that both are sacred. Same with sex. Sex for me personally, I believe should be with someone you love and not casually thrown around for release. I mean, I would give casual sex a go with someone I trusted but virginity is a serious matter- one that shouldn't be thrown away because you are lonely- men or women. Doesn't matter as long as you are comfortable.
I had casual sex once, instant regret. Not telling you what to do just my experience with it. Felt cheap and dirty after. If I had been in love it would have been an amazing experience
@t-8900 yeah. Honestly, it's more to prove something to myself. That I was right about me preferring sex with someone I love. I've only ever had sex with one person so I'm not sure what other types of sex feels like
Follow your heart, not societal trends. I wish you happiness
@gothrocker i support and admire every virgin girl who's waiting till marriage... These are the real ladies! The virginity of a girl is very important and not only because of that skin, it's because it shows the mentality of a girl and doesn't makes herself cheap...
@TonyMetal___86 personally, I waited until the right partner came along and gave him my virginity because I loved him. We've spilt up now but I don't regret him being my first
nor should you. it's not about that it's about being in love when you lose it, it's that simple. You made it meaningful and that's what is admirable about it.
@gothrocker at least you did what must be done, we aren't god to know what's going to happen to us in the future... I had the same situation as yours and since we split and divorced i never had sex and won't have it till i get married again and that's IF i get married again...
@TonyMetal___86 mad respect. so many think all of us guys are just pigs and nothing more.
@t-8900 thanks bro, time for them to learn that we aren't... some men are just REAL MEN and these guys should be taken as an example to what men are and not bunch of stupid males who are like animals and buried our reputation under sh*t
Hello. I’m Rachel, nice to meet you and I do agree with you. As a Christian, I understand that my body is not my own. Purity seems like it holds you back but it’s there to protect you. Plus I’m so glad I have healthy boundaries for myself.
@Animefan94 good to hear...
Is virginity a scary thing?
yes, how is a boys first time any different I dislike when anyone cheapens it by saying guys dont care about it its a very special time are live are completely different once we enjoy the gift of ejaculation. How is it any different
I personally think the whole notion of virginity is in outdated archetype, mainly used for religious aspects. Like anything else of a sexual nature (or in this case lack of) it's the individual's business and to me should be kept that way. I don't care if you're hey straight trans virgin or a slept with 100 people that's nobody's business but your own.
*gay* not hey.
Unless they had supernatural abilities attached to their virginity that got taken away because they lost their virginity like I did before I was raped.
I think it should. It is just as big a deal for a guy than it is for a girl.
Yes-if womans need to be presured by society to not have many guys, why guys should not feel the same preshure?
All mens are superstars if they have a long list of womans but womans are considerated whore, sluts and cheap person if they have a huge list of mens.
I lost my V because of the presure of society that "mens should lose it as fast as they learn about sex" will girls "should fight for it for the rest of theyr life".
Is we are pure togeder or whore togeders!
I do believe in the aspect of if someone goes 7 years without sex that they are a virgin again as well.
I don't. That person will alwase know how sex feel
The reason women's virginities are viewed that way it because men make a big deal out of "taking a woman's virginity". Women aren't really interested in the whole aspect of "taking someone's virginity", so no, it shouldn't be considered that way. I don't even think anyone's virginities should be to be quite honest.
The first time you open your vulnerability up to someone is very sacred it will shape the rest of your sex life in my opinion.
... well, we have very different opinions then, and thats okay
If I were to be married to a man who waited until he knew me to be with me, honestly there is no greater gift he himself could give. Id be so happy.
No but women make a big deal about only wanting experienced men.
I know some people that had supernatural abilities because they were virgins. As soon as they had sex the first time, the abilities went away. I know this because I was one of them until I got raped.
I get that. I always wanted to keep my virginity so I could meet a unicorn or make a blood contract, but then I was raped too
Yes I think it should if he's safe himself for her
Yes, I think when a man loses his virginity there should be free beer, a parade, a spot on the evening news and video of the event…
No. Get whatever pussy you can.
I don’t see either as that big a deal
Some people had supernatural abilities because they were virgins. I was one of them until I got raped.
Sorry but I don’t but that for a second
Actually it is very true that I had supernatural abilities, and I know some people that can prove what I am saying to you about themselves to show you what I was.
Humor me, what supernatural powers are you talking about?
Being able to communicate with spirits for one that came back after much patience, practice and discipline being used.
Virginity isn't sacred. it's just an extra bit of comfort for people worried about faithfulness or stds. A virgin who is clean and near my age, is less likely to cheat or have infections down the road. The higher the body count, the higher the risk.
Actually it is sacred for the ones with supernatural abilities attached to their virginity like I had until I got raped in 2008.
drugs are bad mkay
There was no drugs
Neither should be sacred... its stupid the amount of weight people put onto virginity. Purity culture is so toxic.
I disagree :) But I can still respect your opinion! I love sharing different perspectives
Yes!
Yes.
I think neither of sacred.
What now?
“Should” doesn’t matter, things are the way they are.
Of course it should. Too bad society doesn’t think of it that way
I do, i support and admire every girl who is virgin and waiting for marriage, these girls are golden 😊
@TonyMetal___86 yes it’s a great thing but it would nice If the guy who wanted virgin women were also virgin too then there marriage would be pure
That's true, i did that already but unfortunatly it didn't last, been alone since 7 years... At least i waited till marriage and i'm a man too! Never had sex since 7 years and will never have it again unless i marry a wonderful a lady...
@TonyMetal___86 that is beautiful thing I don’t see too many men do that
Yep it's very rare, it's just my choice, it's because i want love before sex, cause sex alone makes someone feels like an animal, only sex with love is what makes things amazing and this relation in my opinion should only be done between a husband and a wife, i just feel comfortable like that... It's because after sex i would love that we cuddle and wake up the 2nd day glued to each other, i want the whole package and not only sex... This person should be my wife and a part of my family and not any random girl...
I don't think virginity is sacred. When you actually do it, you learn it's not a big deal. But how you act about virginity and sex are completely different. Someone can not be a virgin but also not sleep around. Sex can still be special even if it's not the first time.
Exactly. It's not a big deal at all. I feel no different before and after... Exactly same person. It's not some kind of big life changing event... It's "meh" whatever
Exactly gal please go preach to all the other girls to stop pretending ot is sacred thank you… xoxo
Then there are people like me who had supernatural abilities because they were virgins, until I got raped.
Everyone remembers their first time. For some it even gives the first impression of sex and how to approach it with future partners. So rather than considering it sacred, consider who you want to have your first sexy time with.
All anyone can ask for is patience, understanding, willingness, and communication.