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Should I do my best to lose my virginity?

I recently turned 31, should I do my best to lose my virginity before I turn 32?
I kinda want to, but I'm awkward at meeting new people lol
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I normally say find a guy you really like and don’t focus on sex since it’ll come naturally. But at 31, you’re kinda missing out on a lot of good intimate years. Maybe find a really good looking gigolo to rock your world.

    Why did you wait so long? Religion?

    • I'm worried I'm missing out as well. I don't have a particular reason, it just never happened

    • Mmm. I think you need a shot of confidence that comes from a good rogering. Get dolled up and go to a bar in the uptown area after work hours. Find a nice corporate guy you know is clean. And go for it.

  • Skydiving with 8 friends and a webcam. Not that that happened to me, but it would be interesting… 😜 jk

    • The best way is with somebody who is understanding and supportive. Somebody who's willing to stop if there's pain or fear or if it's just not right. A situation where both people are ready to do this for themselves. It should be in a comfortable place where you aren't worrying about someone barging in.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If you wanna do it because you want to know what sex is like go for it; not too many guys will turn you down.

    If you want to have sex because you see it as an expectation my advice is don't bother.

  • It’s completely up to you but I guarantee there is a guy out there who would love to be with you.

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  • It is your choice. Just make sure it is with a kind, caring guy. Don't forget condoms!

  • Do whatever makes you happy. I doubt getting laid with just anybody to say you're not a virgin anymore will accomplish this, but it's your choice.

  • you are a woman you can literally post an ad 🤷🏾‍♂️🙄😂😂

  • Do it with someone you care about.

  • No, give it that getting out of bed at 6AM after a night out try.

  • No just give up

    • Maybe I should 😂

  • My advice would be for you to do what you want when you are ready...

  • Your virginity isn't a condition or a malady that needs to be fixed or cured. For god's sakes woman, start with DATING, not FUCKING.

    • What if I don't want a relationship right now, just sex?

    • Get a vibrator. Or charge. Whores get more respect in western culture than sluts. Just sayin'.

  • You should give me call.

  • it's only as awkward as you make it. i would say most people would not have any issue with that. it mostly in your head, not in other peoples heads.

  • Contact me !!

  • Lol why, though?

    • Why not? Sex seems pretty damn nice to me

    • @Vanella Of course sex is nice; I agree with you. But virginity isn't something that needs to be lost. You just have sex when you find someone who is honest and reliable and you fall in love with them. It's that simple. You don't manufacture something like that. Let it happen naturally.

  • Get married

    • No, thank you. I'm not really about the married life.

  • I mean if thats what you want to do. No one woul fault you

  • it will happen when the time is right!

  • My girlfriend lost her's at 33

  • Just do it. You'll love you did it.

  • It's your choice

  • Seriously u are 31

  • I will help you out dear

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