Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I am a Muslim female (18) and my boyfriend is a Muslim male (also 18) we've known eachother for about two years but have been exclusive for 7 months. We've done pretty much everything but vaginal sex and this is pretty much because 1. We're scared of committing an ultimate son and 2. We don't want to get pregnant.
But the thing is. We are just super needy for eachother and we don't know if we can hold back. But we are also scared of the guit we may face after the act. We are very in love and plan on getting married in the future. (But after we complete university so very much down the line)
Should I feel guilty about wanting to have sex and if I do have it. Should I feel guilty?
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4 25No and no. My opinion, don't think about it so much and use protection.
If you have already had anal or oral sex you have already committed a major sin. Vaginal sex outside of marriage is no more sinful than these are.
Why r u waiting to get married I thought muslims were very pro young marriage?
You shouldn't feel guilty for wanting to have sex. Try to be satisfied with oral and other sex acts besides vaginal intercourse. You could explain to him that a mouth feels very similar to a vagina with the added benefits of the lips and tongue. Let him cum in your mouth and swallow it so it's close to same feeling as cumming inside a vagina. To receive pleasure, have him pleasure you with a dildo or vibrator. Also have him eat you and finger you.
We already do this. And we both love it. But we'd like to go a step further
I'm not sure what else to suggest. Some people enjoy anal sex, but many consider it a sin. If you don't already, try mixing things up as much as possible to add excitement. For example be intimate in different locations such as in the shower, in the kitchen, in a vehicle, outdoors, in exotic locations on vacation, etc. Try roleplaying. Shave your pubes if you don't. Consider getting some sex toys.
Just get married, problem solved.
I wouldn't trust a Muslim man to keep his word, they have a habit of turning on the women who goto bed with them, dumping them and shaming them for being whores.
Perhaps your man is not like that, lets us hope that is the case but it doesn't change the situation and the solution is so very straight forward.
My parents won't let me get married so young. They want me to wait until I graduate at about 24
Your parents are nothing to do with it.
They would disown me and call me stupid
All the more reason to get them out of your life isn't it? They sound like awful people.