Should I forgive my sister for sleeping with my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

[Miristheiss]

"Forgive" is a loaded word. That really has to do with you personally not holding on to the bitterness and hate and holding on to the right to pay them back.
People often forgive a cheater (often over time) but still divorce them or break up with them. They may let go of the bitterness but the relationship ends.

You probably are asking about keeping her in your life and maintaining an ongoing, lifelong "sister" relationship with her verses just disowning her and cutting out of your life.

Do what you feel is right for you. If it were me... I'd forgive but cut her out of my life. She is a poison and life would be healthier without her being part of it.

[Angelo75]

-ouch-

Well throw the boyfriend out of the window.
As for ur sister, well, you don't get to "choose" family. You just end up stuck with them from birth.
No matter what, you will end up seeing each other in life. If you don't forgive people, you will end up putting a lot of effort to "remember" the pain done to u.

You do need to make it clear to ur sister though that she can never ever ever do this again. Ever.

[Anonymous]

I think I'd forgive my sister, but it would take some time. But I would never forgive my (EX-) boyfriend.

[Nagahime]

No, you shouldn't. She knew you and him were dating and still decided to sleep with him. Shame on her.

[horatiohornblower]

Forgive don't forget.

[bones_20]

Wtf? No you absolutely shouldn’t.

[SnakeBoop]

nah and don't forgive your (what should be EX) boyfriend

[Flower7]

No, you shouldn’t forgive either of them.

[ushagomez]

It depends on their relative value to you.

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

[Citizenkirk]

You should give it the old college try

[Anno2]

Get revenge by sleeping with her dad.

[Nazorella]

No never! And also broke up with your boyfriend.

[FilmGuy93]

Um... no...

[awkward_author]

You should forgive her, so you can find peace, and move on. However, you don't have to continue a relationship with her, and I hope you dumped him.

[ragooo8]

Yes but never trust her again

[douride2]

Don't you mean your ex boyfriend?

[RebeccaBI2000]

If i had siblings, i would probably in time. I would get rid of the guy asap. I also have a hard time staying mad at family though

[Flower7]

True, the sister is much more important than the guy. Keeping her matters more than losing the guy.

[GlassTop]

Yes. Because your sister is in your life forever. Your boyfriend isn’t.

[AndrésC64]

Nope. You shouldn't forgive either of them.

[Jamie05rhs]

Maybe, after you get revenge.

[drayday4]

Yes it's your sister. You shouldn't forgive him though. I've been a man slut over the years if you fuck her sister you don't care about her.

[Wise4myage]

Nope, absolutely not.

[jahaims]

I wouldn't