Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Guys, Should I give up being a virgin?
Anonymous
I’m a 20 year old girl. I give up on love because I’ve only gone through heartbreak after heartbreak. They always end up being jerks , I just wish I can normally date like my friends but that never happens. It’s like I want to just create memories with someone and it never works for me but other people get to have moments that become memories and if I keep getting into heartbreaks it means that I’m never capable to be with someone even if their not the one and I’ll never lose my virginity either. I’d rather just have a boybestfriend and have sexual fun with him. I truly believe that’s all I’m good for. Maybe my standards just to have a normal boyfriend and casual dates wasn’t meant for me. I’m an unlovable 20 year old inexperienced loser. I’m pretty funny smart but that only hurts me more because I’m never trying ever again for a fucking guy to date. Fuck that and fuck love. I do everything else in life except this and I’m not grateful for this at all. I give up on love
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I’m a normal person I couldn’t care about gifts and shit. i wanna spend my time with someone , none of u guys fcken get it because nobody else can relate to me. Fuck this , imma go die bye
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What Guys Said
(20)If you give up on love now, you’ll never find it. Sometimes people find it when they’re 16, sometimes after multiple heartbreaks. You’re still young! Don’t let a few asswipes ruin your future happiness
Nope!
Asshole
It’s not important either way. Would focus on meeting interesting, nice people and then getting into a relationship that leads to sex.
Just don't over think about dating and movie like romance.
Just let it come to you rather than you going for it
You just haven't found the right guy. It can be difficult, but waiting for the right guy will be worth it.
You know what babe, you should try getting more open to guys and stop showing guys that you love them just observe if he does or not, just observe if the guy feels jealous when u talking to other guys and stuff like that, but don't overdo it ok. I believe you'll be fine in some time , Oi am an Indian guy and I am pretty much facing the same problem can you text me back let's exchange accounts
"Maybe my standards just to have a normal boyfriend and casual dates wasn’t meant for me." - Duh? Wouldn't that mean giving up on virginity?
"They always end up being jerks" - I don't get your point, sorry - what do boys you meet being jerks have to do with virginity? Maybe gotta keep trying until you find some none-jerk and then lose virginity?
I think you need to add some explanation - that "train of thought" style of your question is too convoluted for my understanding.
You shouldn't give up on love. I am sure there is a loving and caring guy out there for you waiting to make happy memories with you. You also shouldn't give up your virginity. It is dangerous out there with STDs at pandemic levels. As over 53% of adults in America have at least one of them. Stay safe and healthy.
As a 36 year old virgin I understand how you feel. I haven't had any luck with women. But that is no reason to commit suicide.