I'm a 28yo virgin guy and most of the girls expect guys to have some experience with sex at this age, so If I learn it with prostitute, I won't be so clumsy or finish too soon for the first time.
(Prostitution is legal in my country and I have already found one with good reviews and price.)
Should I hire a prostitute to learn how to have sex?
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EDIT: Based on your answers I have decided NOT to have sex with a prostitute and wait.
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4 42No man. A hooker is nasty.
Think about more of a sexual therapist thing and make sure you woman knows what you are looking for.
Makes you more likely to get laid later however, might regret it later, can't really be a virgin again later, unless you're also into the butt stuff.
Best bet is to write up a tinder bio, let them know you are a virgin. Get good quality pics done by a proffessional and don't be ugly or poor😗
I learned how to do a lot of funny stuff by getting hookers. They'll put up with anything we do since it's their job. From bondage to pee humiliation, they might hate it and I like when they get mad but they're getting paid.
I just want to learn normal ordinary sex, that´s all.
Terrible idea. Just ask out girls. Not online, in person.
I don’t meet many girls in person.
lots of guys on reddit admit to have paid for sex to lose the v-card, plenty of positive experiences they admit
yeah, get a real professional and not someone supporting a drug habit and you will be happy
Someone who loves you will not care and teach you. Also I would think that a prostitutes is a bad teacher
lmao someone needs to lay off the damn romantic novels and movies. oh wait I just realize you are only 15, no wonder
@CasaNorba LMAO 😂
@Chthou95 are you laughing because you though I was funny or are you just mocking me?
@CasaNorba Look at my opinion and you'll know who i was agreeing with
@Chthou95 okey dokey, lmao now all of the sudden I'm lmao. is weird how these women all think that sex is a precursor of love and relationships
@CasaNorba They're not aware guys can fuck without feelings needed
@CasaNorba @chthou95 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ how old are you, 10? just because you can have sex without feelings doesn't mean that doing it is always the best choice 🙄 I don't care if someone goes to a prostitute, but if you do it out of pure pressure hoping you will learn something then it's stupid. Don't come at me with stupid things like "doesn't know you can have sex without feelings" if you're not even able to understand the reason why asker wants to go from these few lines of text 🙄 go fuck a prostitute if you want easy sex but don't go expecting to become a great lover of that people will applaud because you're no virgin anymore
@Layafell 👍
@layafell yeah ok miss 15 year old he clearly said he wants to gain some experience before going into the serious stuff. which of course you would never understand that cause your still too young and Disney movies and porn are the only sex ed stuff you have. but oh well looking at the bright side lets hope you stay this way because after all you'll be surprised how many bimbos who ride the cock carousel at age 21 sounded exactly like you
@CasaNorba Exactly. If the dude wants experience, he should go for it. He has nothing to lose
@CasaNorba if you think that fucking a prostitute will teach him anything useful for when he has a girlfriend then that's pathetic. Guess that's the only sex you managed to have at your age else you would know better 🙄 now go annoy someone else with your ridiculous bullshit. Don't have the patience to deal with people who only think with their dick
good luck with that
Well i mean upto u but u need to be careful
I don't think girls mind. Just be honest about it.
Well some might, isn´t it safer to have some experience?
Safer yes, always. But specially if she likes you, that won't be a problem.
Yes you should
Feel free to, but some women might be uncomfortable to be in a relationship with a guy who's been to a prostitute
I would never tell anyone about it.
That's deception
Go for it
waste of money, i paid a prostitute once, sex isn't as great as u think, better jus whack off, u save tonnes of money, jerking off is free so why pay for the same exact feeling u can get from ur hand? thats kinda financially stupid
wish i could go back in times and get my money back
Because jerking off won't teach me how to have sex.
u will see lol, maybe u will love sex but i think most people think its gonna be better than it is lol, let me know how it goes for u lol
the prostitute you fucked back then does not represent all the prostitutes in the world buddy. maybe you need to go back in time and raise your standards a little higher
@CasaNorba what do you mean? Do. you think she wasn't hot? she was hot asf, I'm jus saying it's not as good as I was expecting, I was expecting it to be better than jerking off... It was exactly same feeling... Why are you getting offended? Is it becauze you don't want to believe it's not that great? Hey no need to be mad man, it's jus my opinion that it's not that great... Maybe it will be great for you when you try it but personally I'd rather keep my money
Go try it and see what you think
I already have been trying it for over 12 years now and let me tell you I had better sex with them than what I did with my ex. when I met to say raise your standards is to not just go for the hot ones but do expect them to perform good as well to make your money worth
Very good idea, you only ask her to train you as Best Fucker
Go for it. Im not gonna give you some politically correct bullshit. a lot of men today are virgins and have no experience. a lot of dudes do turn to escorts and if you feel it's worth the buck, do you
lmao I was blocked by @Layafell because apparently she doesn't know shit and wanted to have the last word and feel victorious the only way she could; by playing cat and mouse. lmao just another uninformed soul who thinks sex and love are the same thing and can't stand that people fuck for the sole purpose of pleasure as well
What country are you in, where it is legal? I would imagine that they have periodic health checks that are required?
I’m in Czech Republic and yes, they are regularly checked for STD.
I guess if you feel like you will be bad at it
If you do I'd be very selective about the one you hire. Most of them (especially the cheap ones) wouldn't be invested enough to teach you anything. It would be purely transactional.
I have already found one with great reviews (she also provides GFE experience apparently)