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Sexual Health Should I lose my virginity to an experienced man or a virgin man?
Anonymous
I just turned 20 and this man is in his late 30s with a body count of 9 (all with long term girlfriends, no hookups, he said) We have known each other for 8 months now. But he started expressing his feelings for me recently and how he wanted to become a couple and do couple stuffs like sex (he is respectful and doesn't pressure me). I told him I also have feelings for him but I am unsure about doing the sex part right now. I have always wanted to have sex after marriage but I don't know if I am wasting my time by waiting for marriage. But anyways, the real question is, if I should lose my virginity to an experienced guy or a virgin guy? I know a person shouldn't be judged by their body count but I am unsure which one would be more comfortable for me. I know it is up to me but does anyone have any advice or opinions? Thank you so much.
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What Girls & Guys Said
16 16Your call. When it feels right you'll know. I would prefer experience as it will make that first time for you better.
Experience man of course
@tasqueen thumbs up
You should lose it to a virgin in his 30s like me jk.
I think losing your virginity shouldn't be a huge deal. You didn't affect anyone except yourself. Just go out and experiment and live your life. I wish I did more of that sometimes blah.
experienced
experienced is always better.
Virginity is pride of woman, and it is considered most precious quality of a woman in Arabs and Muslims, those women give to their husbands only. But in other religions, just enjoyment to any person whom they like or for money
Honestly it doesn't matter a virgin guy would be inexperienced and the non virgin could either know what he is doing or be very bad at it so I guess at the end of the day it's just a roll of the dice but if you feel more for the dude more than the other follow that
ew. first of all, you JUST TURNED 20. and the dude is in his late 30's? he's creepy. you will regret losing it to scum like that. just saying...
would also love to know how old his ex's were at the time of them dating. probably as young as you.