Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health This guy used me for sex, u was under the pretence that we were in a relationship together. His attitude toward me changed slowly and he became cold and just didn't care anymore, refused to explain anything to me about what happened and treated me like I was disposable. He was also sleeping with other girls the whole time. Thing is when we were "dating" he sent me nudes, I mean full frontal and all of that. I'm hurt and feel used and depressed and he's happy, living it up which isn't fair, especially after treating me like shit.
Should I expose him for what he really is?
Should I post his nude pics online to expose him?
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I was under not u - iPhone 😓
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I have decided to not post the pictures online, I have deleted them altogether. Another update, he tested positive for HIV at some point last week, I have tested negative which I am thankful for. He really did put my life at risk. Those of you who called me naieve, remember that this could could happen to you some day as people show/tell you what they want to hear. Thanks for the advice, some more helpful than others!!
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45 51Do it for fun
No never. What he did was wrong, but exposing him online is awful. You need to move on and heal from this, not get revenge.
If you knew this dude you wouldn't be saying that but I get where you are coming from
Trust, it would be enticing, but you are waaaaaay better than him. Karma will teach him don't worry :)
Don't do it. You don't want to get yourself in legal trouble.
True he can have you arrested if that happens
It's not going to do him much harm by showing the nudes. But if he finds out that you sent them, he can go after you criminally. And if you do it, I hope he does and wins. I don't know how or why your relationship went south with him but it doesn't seem like he emotionally or physically battered you. so chock this up as a loss and learn from what has happened for the future. If possible try to not assume it was completely his fault for him growing distant and uninterested in you. It's emotionally unhealthy for your potential future relationships.
Your anger is a separate issue. I would not do that to anyone. And I bet you you will only feel satisfying emotions momentarily. I just find it unethical and unsatisfying. Put your energy toward trying to learn how to better identify men that will be more serious commitment wise.
Two wrongs don't make a right. You chose the guy, so you should face the consequences and move on. It happens. It's not worth doing something stupid or stooping to his level, which wouldn't make you better either.
if you want revenge that bad then go for it. but guy nudes aren't as popular unless you target them for shaming purposes.
Yes shaming purposes and because he plays so many different girls like this he wouldn't know which one of us it was
Be the better person here and keep your diginity... get rid of the pictures...
I voted Don't Do It. Don't sacrifice your own integrity and sink to his level.
Be better than him. Of course, you can always make him sweat a little, send the pics back to him to remind him you have them.
screw the internet. do you know where he works?
Yessss
if you don't mind spending the extra money, print them out, and send copies to everyone he works with. you shouldn't have to know their names. but put a fake name for yourself so that their not tossed as junk mail. make it look like an invitation to something, everyone likes to be invited to things, even if they have no intention of going, they'll open it out of curiousity.
You shouldn't mess with someone's job or livelihood. This is terrible advice. He used you. You know what, that's life it happens. Learn from it. We all get used at one way or another at some point. If you go to humiliate this guy at work, it may trigger him to seek revenge against you even worse. I'd let it go
Lol deep
@asker ignore @xdude1 send them to his job. he deserves it. he messed with your livelihood when he slept with you and multiple women at once without asking if that was ok.
my ex cheated on me and i have nudes as well. Thanks for letting me know at least SOME people agree to release them :)
Why would you cheat on someone knowing they have nudes of you. They must think they done a great number on you to think you wouldn't do anything about it
You know you can get sued big time, legally it has merit in courts.
I personally think thats a really stupid idea just because he used you for sex, use your brain better next time before hand and take your time before you let someone enter your personal space so quickly. That was you can avoid being USED for sex
I think its the most immature thing to expose someone that way and its much lower then what he did to you
i don't think it would make a diff... unless you stick his nudes at his workplace bulletin board.
While I understand the desire I think you should take the higher road. You'd come to regret it in the future. Sorry you had a run in with a lowlife like him.😢
I'm less forgiving than all these people. If he really, truly fucked you over like you said he did, then copy the pictures to a flash drive and upload them from an anonymous location through a proxy like Vtunnel or using the Tor browser.
Who's to prove that your phone wasn't hacked and a hacker got something juicy to share on 4chan?
Cover your tracks wisely.
Thanks
listen the guy was an ass but you dont do that or else your just as bad
No it's illegal
Absolutely not. Sharing nudes without his permission counts as a cyber crime. Even if it wasn't, being hurt and feeling used does not justify it.
Please dont get yourself into trouble over a bad egg
To be honest I don't think you should post his nudes. Think how you would feel if someone did that to you. I know he hurt you and has used you but it's probably best not to sink to his level. Well maybe not quite his level but you know what I mean. People may have a lower opinion of you if you do it and it probably will not make you feel any better. He will get caught out eventually and will probably end up being alone if he carries on the way he has been.
The best thing you can do is forget about him. No point being all bitter about it because the only person that effects is you. He obviously doesn't care about you, so why care about him. Focus on you're own happiness and I'm sure you will find a decent man who will treat you like you deserve.
Fab advice- thanks :)
You're welcome :-)