Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Should I tell my husband what happened at the swingers club we go to?
Anonymous
Just to clarify I'm not asking what people's opinion is of my husbands and my lifestyle. We are swingers and that's what we enjoy. Last night we were supposed to go to a swingers meeting that we are a part of but my husband had to work late so I ended up going by myself and he knows that. There is 10 people in our little swingers Club that we have, or I guess you could say five couples, so I was kind of a 9th wheel last night. At our little party they have what's called the glory wall. It's basically the same thing as a Gloryhole but it's just a long wall in our friends garage with a bunch of holes in it. All of the girls line up on one side and the guys line up on the other and if you know how a Gloryhole works it's the same idea. The guys don't know which girl is sucking them and the girls don't know who they are sucking, kind of anyway, you can sometimes tell because all the guys are different shapes and sizes and we know whose dick is whose. I was Sharing a hole with a really good girlfriend of mine, we just kept taking turns. My husbands only stipulation with the whole swingers thing is he doesn't want guys to finish inside me without a condom on. Well while me and my girlfriend were taking turns we both knew that it was her husband's dick that we were sucking on At one point. The guys are supposed to tell you when they are about to finish although they never do, while I was sucking on her husband he started cumming inside my mouth. I tried to play it off like I enjoyed it and went ahead and finished him up but I knew my husband wasn't going to be happy about it. I don't think he would get super pissed off or anything but I'm wondering if I should tell him that this happened or do I not say anything and just let it go? There has to be a great trust in this lifestyle and I want to be honest with him but I hate when he is upset with me. What should I do?
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What Girls & Guys Said
16 31Why would he be mad about that? I think you are overreacting.
I am sure he meant inside your pussy, mouth is not a big deal
And it's a glory hole, which means she's not able to understand what's going on with the guy.. :P
Not your fault the guy failed to inform you. Tell him. Better that then him finding out some other way.
I say keep it a secret, but obviously you want to stay trusting.. Your call buddy
Be clear he will understand you 😉
You can either look at it like, 10 guys get to bang your girlfriend, or, you get to bang 10 guy's GFs.
Best to be honest a secret could make him resent you and the other guy causing friction (pun intended) at the club.
Nah.. He doesn't need to know
TLDR?
in my opinion u should strive to suck and swallow the cum at the gloryhole just my two cents
I thought they were only suppose to cum on you not fuck you
That's Bukkake parties. Some swingers parties have almost no rules.
Just tell him the guy came suddenly and wihout warning and that you were so hot the momet just carried you on.
He deserves to know... and the oral crampie story will definitely turn him on
Don't stir the pot, it wasn't intentional, and you both chose the life style it happens
Tell him who knows he mite get turn on or piss off
You should tell him.
So why tell him?
Would you keep it secret from your husband? :D
It depends on so many things.
Have u swallowed that guy before or played with him with hubby?
Does he do the glory wall thing to? Does he know guys don't let girls know when they about to cum?
You are 2 fucked-up people who swing! It goes with the territory!
Wtf holly shit
I don't agree with your lifestyle - but surely honesty is the number one factor in a relationship.