Should People Card Someone Before Having Sex With Them?
BrainsbeforebeautyEditor
Face it, people lie about their age but if it's a under age minor lying to an Adult, that could have legal ramifications for the adult. To protect yourself from that happening, maybe should check their ID, verify their age..Unless people start making fake ID's to have sex like they do to get in the clubs 😂😂
Well idc about the cards miss brains muffins since in my book there is no sex before marriage 😌
After marriage i'll make her a card which is unlimited sex for her king 😂
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Brainsbeforebeauty
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TonyMetal___86
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With every shoveling of snow i get a french kiss + tight hug + MUFFIN! 🤴🏻
Brainsbeforebeauty
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Wait, I gotta shovel and do all that, I'm too tuckered out, I'm vegging the rest of the day took a little nap 🤤😴
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TonyMetal___86
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Sleeeep miss brains muffins, i'll be guarding you and when you fall in sleep, i'll bite your spongy forehead and run away 😂
Brainsbeforebeauty
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You'll most likely fall in the snow 🤣🤣🤣
TonyMetal___86
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Than i'll stay inside can't risk falling in the snow while miss brains is sleeping cause there will be no one to save me... I'll also dive under the blanket and sleep warm near miss brains muffins and hopefully i won't wake up in a lake of drooling 🤣🤣
Brainsbeforebeauty
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🤣🤣I don't really drool that often anymore get really sweaty in my sleep cuz them damn hot flashes🥵🔥🔥
collie22Guru
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well if you think she's under age and your not maybe think of a way to find out with out being rude
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CasualObserver2023
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I would just trust her tbh
Jamie05rhsMaster
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Duh. If you don't you're an idiot!
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Brainsbeforebeauty
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Not a thing at my age, this would apply more to younger people and those into one night stands and hook ups
Jamie05rhs
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@brainsbeforebeauty True. It wouldn't apply to me, either. I was just giving advice to others.
Brainsbeforebeauty
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monkeynuttsGuru
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No I’m always frank and earnest with women, in Sydney I’m Frank and I’m Earnest in Melbourne.
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Brainsbeforebeauty
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GedariaMaster
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They can be faked..
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Brainsbeforebeauty
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True
Gedaria
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Sadly being underage, is only a small part of the problem. Abuse can happen any age...
msc545
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or at any time. Like 30 years after the alleged incident, right?
jahaimsMaster
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I wouldn't have sex to someone even close to 18
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Brainsbeforebeauty
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Well at my age, me neither 🤣🤣
Frust97Xper 2
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better safe than sorry i guess
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COMMODOREIIMaster
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That would be crazy lol
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Brainsbeforebeauty
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Might protect some these young guys who get lied to buy teenage girls... Might sound crazy, but that's better than getting slapped with charges or sex offender label cuz some 15 year old told you she was 19-20 it does happen to people
COMMODOREII
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No crazy that teens might actually buy fake ids for that purpose. But then there would evidence of them doing that. Would that be beneficial for older guys and girls to not get sex offenses?
Brainsbeforebeauty
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Good question, it should... If someone not only lied, but finished a fake ID and there was proof of that, then no the adult shouldn't get charged on that situation in my opinion... Glad I'm of the age I ain't gotta worry about any of that 🤣
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COMMODOREII
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Yeah probably but you have that sex appeal for other reasons. 😜
Brainsbeforebeauty
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🤣🤣🤣I mean I wouldn't be having sex with someone I'd have to worry if they old enough, cuz the age range of people that would fall into that category would be well well above that age
COMMODOREII
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Yeah maybe. Lol
Brainsbeforebeauty
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I gotta go back out and shovel 🥺 and then hot hot shower and then strong ass drink lolol
pizzalovershouseMaster
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Wouldn't helpcuz of fake ids
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Brainsbeforebeauty
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Well if would stop fucking strangers, wouldn't be an issue 🤣
Brainsbeforebeauty
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Not you lol people
pizzalovershouse
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Oh ok 😊
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Brainsbeforebeauty
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Well, to be safe, you shouldn't fuck strangers either 🙂
pizzalovershouse
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True 😊
Brainsbeforebeauty
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Well if you do, don't forget to use condoms 🙂
AltCandiceXper 2
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For sure yes. Some people are so hard to tell their age lol
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Brainsbeforebeauty
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Right and people be lying
legalboxersEditor
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sure but they could pull something like this..
Then where would we be?
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Brainsbeforebeauty
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🤣🤣 someone already did on this thread lololol 🤣 but yeah, used to be fake ID's to get in clubs now it'll be fake ID's to have sex lololol
legalboxers
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@brainsbeforebeauty its 10:40am. Im on my 2nd cup of coffee.. and its a Sunday..
Brainsbeforebeauty
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Lolol
TwalliMaster
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If a girl might be under t bgg e age of consent and you're over 20 you should wait.
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KrakenAttackinMaster
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Not only card them but probably record it to verify it was consensual.
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Brainsbeforebeauty
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Record what? The ID? I agree... The sex itself? Hell no
KrakenAttackin
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Both! If she comes back at him later a jury can decide if it was consensual.
Brainsbeforebeauty
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That's crazy... To suggest people should have a right to record sex... And then they could have that shit all over the internet... I would never have sex with someone that would demand to record it s proof I consented, that's frickin ridiculous
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KrakenAttackin
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To post it on the internet without her permission is a felony on most states. But to have a record for court could be invaluable as evidence. I think women should get used to this idea.
Brainsbeforebeauty
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I think men should get used to not having sex than, cuz just like I don't have sex with people I don't trust, I sure the fuck ain't having sex with someone that don't trust me either
KrakenAttackin
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Perhaps you are right.
Brainsbeforebeauty
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I mean, would you have sex with someone who doesn't trust you? Sorry, but that a mood killer for me 🤷🏼♀️
TonyMetal___86
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Sex should only be between married couple or at least between a couple who are going to get married...
KrakenAttackin
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Depends how hot you are for them.
Brainsbeforebeauty
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Hot for em but don't trust em don't sound right. . There's two heads to think with there, not just "the one"🙂🤷🏼♀️
KrakenAttackin
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@TonyMetal___86 Perhaps but in the U. S. a wife can have her husband arrested for "rape" with a phone call.
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Or give her a fake name and deny the encounter ever happened if questioned... assuming she doesn't save her panties which are covered with your DNA.
msc545
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@TonyMetal___86 Your idea applies only to about.0001% of the population, and it originated in the middle ages... nobody is a virgin, and nobody waits until marriage.
msc545
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That is actually quite true. AND - it happens.
TonyMetal___86
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@krakenattackin what kind of laws is that? Why don't you protest to change these laws that oppress men! If any woman under any circumstances is going to take advantage of me of something that i haven't done, she's going to regret making a phone call cause i'll make her life a living hell and make sure to turn these laws against her and she might laugh at the beginning but will surely end crying in the end! I don't care about the laws or anything else! Your a law by itself when your right and haven't committed anything wrong! Here or in the U. S or wherever i am there is no such thing as marital rape for me! A marriage cancels the word rape cause the girl becomes your wife but you as a husband should also take into consideration when your wife have harsh reasons to refuse sex and she will make it up for you later... No need to use your right as husband to force her for sex cause even at this point your forced her for sex, you ain't going to like it cause she didn't want to! Your a husband, her body and her organs and all of her is your responsibility, you will provide for her, feed her, take good care of her and love only her forever and if all laws falls one day, you will make a law to protect her and not to harm her...
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@TonyMetal___86 In the U. S. marriage means a total shift of power from the man to the woman. The system is designed to use all the power of the government to enforce "protection" of women and to transfer men's resources and labor product to women. A married woman simply has to make an accusation of "harm" and the man will be arrested, legally barred from his home, legally barred from his children, and be legally forced to lay for both... while sitting in a jail cell or even if homeless. If the man falls behind on child support (say do to Covid unemployment) he will be out in jail. As I have said before, there is absolutely, positively, ZERO reason for a man to get married or even live with a woman. The risks are just too high.
KrakenAttackin
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It's not that all women will destroy a man but any woman can destroy a man.
msc545
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exactly
Brainsbeforebeauty
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@Krakenattackin and any man can destroy a woman... I'm asking you nicely to stop gender bashing on my posts... I'm done... I don't bash men nor do I condone women that do, you want to bash females all the time, do it on your own posts or someone else's, but I'm tired of the sexist remarks.. I'm asking nicely, instead of just blocking... You have a right to your opinions, but I have a right to be on here and not have to put up with sexist people with an ax to grind... Thank you!
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Ok, fair enough.
msc545
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@TonyMetal___86 You apparently think your blustering and defiance will overcome any sanctions that might occur as a result of a false accusation. They won't, as demonstrated by thousands of cases of men being kicked out of college, losing their jobs, and sometimes going to prison. The judicial system in most countries is tilted toward believing women's accusations of men's sexual crimes, true or not. The only way to win this particular game is to not play.
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OddBeMeMaster
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I’ve read a lot about female minors able to get into clubs. So maybe. But also... vaccinated card?
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OddBeMe
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Hey babe, you vaxxed?
msc545
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Good point.
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@OddBeMe 🤣🤣🤣
ValnacGuru
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No just imbed a chip that can be read by a smartphone.
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ImuglyandiknowitXper 5
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i always do that
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Brainsbeforebeauty
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Do you really? Not a bad idea... If I was 18-early twenties, I probably would
WaldoeGuru
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if in doubt... always
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msc545Master
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Men sure as hell should, and should take a photo of the ID as well.
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TstrbrainerGuru
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Yeah, I would definitely ask for any id proof if the woman looks quite young.
Even though, it won't be much problem if the adult was convinced that his /her partner was also an adult
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Brainsbeforebeauty
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And why should know who you're having sex with
Tstrbrainer
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Your questions is not clear 🤔.
Tstrbrainer
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*question
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Brainsbeforebeauty
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What's not clear?
Tstrbrainer
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Is there any subject between "should" and "know"?
Tstrbrainer
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Did you mean : "why should I know who I'm having sex with" ? Sigh language confuses me sometimes
Brainsbeforebeauty
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No, it meant that's why you should know who you're having sex with, versus having sex with a stranger or someone you don't really know well
Tstrbrainer
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Oh 😅. Yeah. That's definitely a point
Slim57Master
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They could also use fake IDs, one reason im glad I prefer older women
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Brainsbeforebeauty
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Right! And one reason I'm old enough not to have to worry about this lolol.. think it's more a worry for 18-20 something year olds
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19 55Well idc about the cards miss brains muffins since in my book there is no sex before marriage 😌
After marriage i'll make her a card which is unlimited sex for her king 😂
🤣🤣🤣
With every shoveling of snow i get a french kiss + tight hug + MUFFIN! 🤴🏻
Wait, I gotta shovel and do all that, I'm too tuckered out, I'm vegging the rest of the day took a little nap 🤤😴
Sleeeep miss brains muffins, i'll be guarding you and when you fall in sleep, i'll bite your spongy forehead and run away 😂
You'll most likely fall in the snow 🤣🤣🤣
Than i'll stay inside can't risk falling in the snow while miss brains is sleeping cause there will be no one to save me... I'll also dive under the blanket and sleep warm near miss brains muffins and hopefully i won't wake up in a lake of drooling 🤣🤣
🤣🤣I don't really drool that often anymore get really sweaty in my sleep cuz them damn hot flashes🥵🔥🔥
well if you think she's under age and your not maybe think of a way to find out with out being rude
I would just trust her tbh
Duh. If you don't you're an idiot!
Not a thing at my age, this would apply more to younger people and those into one night stands and hook ups
@brainsbeforebeauty True. It wouldn't apply to me, either. I was just giving advice to others.
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No I’m always frank and earnest with women, in Sydney I’m Frank and I’m Earnest in Melbourne.
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They can be faked..
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Sadly being underage, is only a small part of the problem. Abuse can happen any age...
or at any time. Like 30 years after the alleged incident, right?
I wouldn't have sex to someone even close to 18
Well at my age, me neither 🤣🤣
better safe than sorry i guess
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That would be crazy lol
Might protect some these young guys who get lied to buy teenage girls... Might sound crazy, but that's better than getting slapped with charges or sex offender label cuz some 15 year old told you she was 19-20 it does happen to people
No crazy that teens might actually buy fake ids for that purpose. But then there would evidence of them doing that. Would that be beneficial for older guys and girls to not get sex offenses?
Good question, it should... If someone not only lied, but finished a fake ID and there was proof of that, then no the adult shouldn't get charged on that situation in my opinion... Glad I'm of the age I ain't gotta worry about any of that 🤣
Yeah probably but you have that sex appeal for other reasons. 😜
🤣🤣🤣I mean I wouldn't be having sex with someone I'd have to worry if they old enough, cuz the age range of people that would fall into that category would be well well above that age
Yeah maybe. Lol
I gotta go back out and shovel 🥺 and then hot hot shower and then strong ass drink lolol
Wouldn't helpcuz of fake ids
Well if would stop fucking strangers, wouldn't be an issue 🤣
Not you lol people
Oh ok 😊
Well, to be safe, you shouldn't fuck strangers either 🙂
True 😊
Well if you do, don't forget to use condoms 🙂
For sure yes. Some people are so hard to tell their age lol
Right and people be lying
sure but they could pull something like this..
Then where would we be?
🤣🤣 someone already did on this thread lololol 🤣 but yeah, used to be fake ID's to get in clubs now it'll be fake ID's to have sex lololol
@brainsbeforebeauty its 10:40am. Im on my 2nd cup of coffee.. and its a Sunday..
Lolol
If a girl might be under t bgg e age of consent and you're over 20 you should wait.
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Not only card them but probably record it to verify it was consensual.
Record what? The ID? I agree... The sex itself? Hell no
Both! If she comes back at him later a jury can decide if it was consensual.
That's crazy... To suggest people should have a right to record sex... And then they could have that shit all over the internet... I would never have sex with someone that would demand to record it s proof I consented, that's frickin ridiculous
To post it on the internet without her permission is a felony on most states. But to have a record for court could be invaluable as evidence. I think women should get used to this idea.
I think men should get used to not having sex than, cuz just like I don't have sex with people I don't trust, I sure the fuck ain't having sex with someone that don't trust me either
Perhaps you are right.
I mean, would you have sex with someone who doesn't trust you? Sorry, but that a mood killer for me 🤷🏼♀️
Sex should only be between married couple or at least between a couple who are going to get married...
Depends how hot you are for them.
Hot for em but don't trust em don't sound right. . There's two heads to think with there, not just "the one"🙂🤷🏼♀️
@TonyMetal___86 Perhaps but in the U. S. a wife can have her husband arrested for "rape" with a phone call.
Or give her a fake name and deny the encounter ever happened if questioned... assuming she doesn't save her panties which are covered with your DNA.
@TonyMetal___86 Your idea applies only to about.0001% of the population, and it originated in the middle ages... nobody is a virgin, and nobody waits until marriage.
That is actually quite true. AND - it happens.
@krakenattackin what kind of laws is that? Why don't you protest to change these laws that oppress men! If any woman under any circumstances is going to take advantage of me of something that i haven't done, she's going to regret making a phone call cause i'll make her life a living hell and make sure to turn these laws against her and she might laugh at the beginning but will surely end crying in the end! I don't care about the laws or anything else! Your a law by itself when your right and haven't committed anything wrong! Here or in the U. S or wherever i am there is no such thing as marital rape for me! A marriage cancels the word rape cause the girl becomes your wife but you as a husband should also take into consideration when your wife have harsh reasons to refuse sex and she will make it up for you later... No need to use your right as husband to force her for sex cause even at this point your forced her for sex, you ain't going to like it cause she didn't want to! Your a husband, her body and her organs and all of her is your responsibility, you will provide for her, feed her, take good care of her and love only her forever and if all laws falls one day, you will make a law to protect her and not to harm her...
@TonyMetal___86 In the U. S. marriage means a total shift of power from the man to the woman. The system is designed to use all the power of the government to enforce "protection" of women and to transfer men's resources and labor product to women. A married woman simply has to make an accusation of "harm" and the man will be arrested, legally barred from his home, legally barred from his children, and be legally forced to lay for both... while sitting in a jail cell or even if homeless. If the man falls behind on child support (say do to Covid unemployment) he will be out in jail. As I have said before, there is absolutely, positively, ZERO reason for a man to get married or even live with a woman. The risks are just too high.
It's not that all women will destroy a man but any woman can destroy a man.
exactly
@Krakenattackin and any man can destroy a woman... I'm asking you nicely to stop gender bashing on my posts... I'm done... I don't bash men nor do I condone women that do, you want to bash females all the time, do it on your own posts or someone else's, but I'm tired of the sexist remarks.. I'm asking nicely, instead of just blocking... You have a right to your opinions, but I have a right to be on here and not have to put up with sexist people with an ax to grind... Thank you!
Ok, fair enough.
@TonyMetal___86 You apparently think your blustering and defiance will overcome any sanctions that might occur as a result of a false accusation. They won't, as demonstrated by thousands of cases of men being kicked out of college, losing their jobs, and sometimes going to prison. The judicial system in most countries is tilted toward believing women's accusations of men's sexual crimes, true or not. The only way to win this particular game is to not play.
Thank you 👍
I’ve read a lot about female minors able to get into clubs. So maybe. But also... vaccinated card?
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Hey babe, you vaxxed?
Good point.
@OddBeMe 🤣🤣🤣
No just imbed a chip that can be read by a smartphone.
i always do that
Do you really? Not a bad idea... If I was 18-early twenties, I probably would
if in doubt... always
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Men sure as hell should, and should take a photo of the ID as well.
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Yeah, I would definitely ask for any id proof if the woman looks quite young.
Even though, it won't be much problem if the adult was convinced that his /her partner was also an adult
And why should know who you're having sex with
Your questions is not clear 🤔.
*question
What's not clear?
Is there any subject between "should" and "know"?
Did you mean : "why should I know who I'm having sex with" ? Sigh language confuses me sometimes
No, it meant that's why you should know who you're having sex with, versus having sex with a stranger or someone you don't really know well
Oh 😅. Yeah. That's definitely a point
They could also use fake IDs, one reason im glad I prefer older women
Right! And one reason I'm old enough not to have to worry about this lolol.. think it's more a worry for 18-20 something year olds