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Should the government organise one night stands?

Everyone wants sex. The problem is too many guys lack the social skills to get it and too many girls worry about their reputation. The result is a huge pool of people lying alone in bed wishing they had a partner as they self pleasure.

Now yes there are hook up sites but that's like buying a real diamond off Temu and moaning when a piece of plastic turns up. And let's be honest people on hook-up sites are too fussy, if you're not 8 inches don't bother guys.

Now I propose the government steps in. They rank everyone into 5 leagues according to looks, body type etc then randomly match you up within your league. You then have to have sex or pay a fine.

With sex being compulsory it will become destigmatized and girls won't worry about being judged. It will also boost guys self esteem and we'll see less mass shootings.

Who's with me?
Should the government organise one night stands?
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  • Well all I know is that when I was single I would have signed up haha. However, as a female its very very easy to get laid. I went 3 months without it and it drove me crazy. My old friends with benefits were not always available so went on tinder. So many guys just wanting a fuck. My criteria was only older than me and live within an hour of me. I had lots of fun... some people called me easy... which is completely true. I was not fussy and I cum very easily. I got what I wanted at the time so it was all good.

    • were u picky on who u hooked up with?

    • @rebeliouse no I was very desperate. I need lots of sex and like I said, they just needed to be older and live near me

    • how come u were so desperate?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • One of the greatest Presidents in US history said it best "The nine most terrifying words in the English language are: I'm from the Government, and I'm here to help. ". On no scale of common sense does this plan sound good. First, who decides who is attractive and in which of 5 groups. Second, it dispenses for free-will and (seemingly) people wanting to have different levels of commitment.


    I am aware that some European & Scandinavian countries are toying with the idea of a sexual welfare system whereby the government will subsidize or fund the services of a prostitute (albeit a specially certified one) to provide services for people who are otherwise unable to pursue a conventional relationship or maybe so firmly in a category of undesirable for medical or physical reasons that is drastically impacts their will to live. Loneliness and a lack of human connection is a cruel thing.
    Maybe a system like this has more merit than outright sex gulags.

    • Oh yeah - the President was Ronald Regan.

  • Interesting. Another non-political post!!!
    Even though I am MAGA, Christian, etc., etc. but also Libertarian. I would support government decriminalized, licensed, regulated and taxed sexual outlets where men can go such as to work off anxiety and minimize rape and other crimes. I have no doubt that sexual frustration contributes to trouble in society. They could even be On Call like counselors. The government would have to minimize abuse and any kind of indenture.

    For many men, even just a blow job scheduled once a month could make life better for them and society in general.

    • I would find it genuinely hilarious if the US made sex mandatory instead of voting. You must have sex with a stranger or get fined, but you don't have to give a say on who'll run your country. Sounds like something they'd do lmao 💀

Most Helpful Girl

  • This is undoubtedly an interesting topic. I imagine the obligation to have sex is somewhat problematic in practice.
    If girls and guys are forced to find a partner, how should it be organized to ensure that everyone finds someone who meets their individual needs?
    Without a minimum level of affection, the organized hookup can quickly turn into dislike or something more. And then, if one partner insists on sex, but the other refuses (with him), and can't pay the fine, we quickly end up with rape.

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  • This suggestion brings me back.

    We were making our own fake countries in school. Girl and I are reaponsible for laws. After much struggling she suggests the following: Attractive guys should be allowed to sleep with (she said r*pe) any (single) girls they want.

    I of course vetoed against that. I suppose it was a similar kink from her though. Fear of being judged and a bit of not wanting to make the decision.
    She, teenage her, would have been quite happy with this system.

    Nothing really stops you making it a thing. Opt in, of course. People would pay an amount of money to be matched and get it back if both agree they slept together. Nothing illegal there, but I suppose opting in and most being spared ruins ghe point a bit?

  • It somehow appealing… Especially the real chance it will take the amount of incels down and potential shooting too…

    Are leagues forever? Or can we have yearly recertifications? A Google Review system? Sponsored STD testing?

  • I don’t want government involved in 99+% of all it’s involved with now as it is, much less get involved in people’s sex lives. They’re already involved! Just look at all the so called “gender confused” people and other sexual dysfunction. Government is great at creating problems so they can be seen as the solution. Just look no further than the scam called covid!

    I want governments out of micromanaging peoples lives! The federal government actually has very little power and authority by virtue of the limited powers granted by the US constitution. All governments are supposed to be highly limited so people can be kings/queens and masters over their own personal lives and property!

  • Rate people based on tiers like some caste system? WTF. Why not just let two people decide consensually?

  • Maybe you want the government THAT involved in your life in the UK but not here in the land of the free, home of the brave.

    • Shit the USA passes that and I'll end up on the news in a bad way lol

  • not at all. i don't want the government interfering in my sex life

  • Oh come on Poppy, you can't be that desperate to get laid!

  • So you want the government to say who you have sex with and when. Nice fantasy for a horny guy have no luck with women. Enjoy cuffing your carrot to it, but posting it reveals you as an imposter. What you are proposing is basically government rape, no woman would suggest that.

  • Most governments cannot even manage to run a country successfully and you want to hand over your sex life to them?

  • Hilarious question, but good grief can you imagine the political debates. All the candidates would be arguing over which useless political party, arranged the most happiness for their constituents.

  • Sounda like a plan... Except for the 5 category part... Lust, romance, sex and love.. It is a strange thing... People end up with the most unexpected loves/ partners...

    So just let it happen... Who knows... There is a beauty for every beast... 😄

  • Pimp ministry. Why just legalize prostitution when making it mandatory and exploitable by government will make billions.

    • Prostitution is legal in all democratic countries.

  • My first thought is that there isn't 1 thing that the government can do right… why wouldn’t you think they would screw this up too.
    Second issue is the government (globalists) want less children not more. That’s why they are trying there best to mutilate children now under the umbrella of the “trans” movement.


    So, Something that can be done now…. Girls be less fussy! A guy who is average in length May has an amazing tongue. You never know until you try.
    The other thing is yes, guys can be awkward around girls and not be able to get girls… well girls this is on you also. Grab that guy by the hand and teach him what it’s like to be a man.


    If it’s sex you girls want, guys are always willing. You need to worry less what people think and more about what you want.

  • The government can’t even organize itself & if it did organize one night stands all the tax payers would be stuck floating the bill as always.

  • Ehhhh the part where there's a fine makes all of this sound dystopian. What about gay people who aren't out yet? People with sexual trauma? Virgins who want to wait for 'the one? Asexuals? Celibates? Or people who just... shockingly... don't want to have sex with a stranger on a regular basis? The government shouldn't ever regulate sex in my opinion

    • side note: do mass shootings genuinely occur because of pent up urges? because if so, that's fuckin hilarious PFFFT

    • Perfect reply!

  • Feminists are already trying to teach kids how to have sex. How to give oral, anal and they will probably want to teach kids BDSM some day.

    I don't know if the feminists are also wanting to teach kids how to date and how to have social skills but I imagine that is all part of the program.

  • It seems like you're the one that lacks social skills and is desperate. You want a central government to step in and mandate that some poor bloke has to give you a poke like it's some sort of community service for a crime he committed.

  • Brilliant idea, and the body type for guys needs to include penis length measurements (semi-erect & fully hard) and a photo of course? What do you think the best details for girls should be @purplepoppy? Innie or outie? Shaved/waxed, or au naturel? Prefers longer sizes, or no real preference?

    The Ministry of Social Intercourse perhaps?

    • * body type of guys

  • I like the idea of leagues

  • Well, the NFL wants to go international. That would be a new meaning of NFL.

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