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Sexual Health Small Penis Humiliation (SPH) - What triggers your arousal/What works for you?
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The guy I am fooling around with is into SPH (Small Penis Humiliation) and because I want to please himo badly... I want to learn more about this fetish/kink of his. I have always been open to BDSM and so this doesn’t come across as weird to me. On the contrary, I feel so empowered when I know that I am able to get him off by using trigger words or actions. I have done quite a bit of research on the subject (Small Penis Humiliation - SPH) but couldn’t find anything too exciting or explicitly informative... If you are into SPH (Small Penis Humiliation)... what are your go –to trigger that work every time your are with a partner? Also, isn’t repetitive to always tell him...”oh look at that small little dick of yours”, “look at that tiny little mushroom”... won’t he get bored and therefore no longer find those phrases arousing? Last but not least, would someone with a similar fetish be MORE willing to please his partner orally or by other means? PS: His dick is slightly below average size (4.5”) however fully erect his girth is about 6”... but he still is into SPH (Small Penis Humiliation).
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3 66I am absolutely into this and would love if more women were into it.
I don't really get it
I'm generally considered "small average" when erect and small when flaccid, what gets me off is not humiliation as such, but women being amused/laughing at it, and I love being compared with larger penises,,,
I love it lol
I am pretty handsome and in good shape but I have a Micro penis and for the life of me I can't understand why any guy would want to pretend to be small. Girls laugh and say something about it when they see it. I think if they had a small penis they would prefer something else. Crazy to think about tho
For me it is informing me that you are going to tell somebody. A friend or a family member, maybe a co-worker. Something about someone new knowing I have a small penis turns me on.
Ouch, I am smaller then your guy, 6" I think above average. I am 4" fully erect if that.
I've been told my 6 inch penis is small, Well it excites me when girls humiliate me about it
For me it’s not just verbal, it’s also body language and physical too. The look of displeasure when a women sees how small my dick is and then during sex they seem bored like you can’t even feel them is amazing. Raceplay can also be a part of this which really works for me but isn’t for everyone.
Putting it in my girlfriends mouth whist flaccid and watch it grow and she has to stare at me
i have that fetish too but the difference is that im "really" small, you should try to show him with your fingers that his dick is small, I've got a big experience in this it has been done a lot to me.
I am smaller then him and I am not into SPH. I find it embarrassing.
That girth is big love to have that
personally i prefer the "gentle teasing" of sph. What i mean by that is the girl giggling, calling it a clit or clitty, making fun of my size, but doing it in a way that sounds nice or even have her try to appease my hurt feelings. I really don't like the cruel side of it where the girl is don't right mean and calls you things like "fag" or whatnot.
have you made him wear panties?
My wife has done that! Told me with a little dick my size I might as well wear panties. And she's bought me my own panties to wear. Her girlfriends know too which makes it even more humiliating!
I can tell you what turns me on sph wise. I like my partner to tell me about ex bfs who had bigger, superior dicks and how much more full they made you feel and how he could shoot his seed deeper inside you. You could toy with idea of telling others about his shortcoming. Your friends, his friends. 'Outing' him to strangers. Asking for small condoms from store staff and maybe buying a big sex toy and saying you miss being filled by a proper sized man to the staff member. Then in the bedroom you make him use the big toy on you and make sure to go wild with it and show him it is more pleasurable for you than his mini me.
My sph fetish is also tied to a femdom fetish so i like a woman to dominate me and sit on my face and demand oral and ass worship too
You should compare him to guys you've fucked or sucked before. I think nothing is hotter. My ex was a bit of a prude, but once I got her to tell me if she'd had bigger than me. She was like OMG yes, she said her boyfriend in college, she couldn't even get her hand all the way around. I about cam. ;)
Also ask him if he should wear panties? Maybe a tiny little thong, because that's all his little dick would need to cover it.
Yeah make fun of it by grabbing it with your toes and rub it hard
its nice that you want please your boyfriend and I'm sure he gets of on you focusing your attentionon his small manhood. but ddep down he really wants to see you fucking big fucking cocks. you should uckold him. I'm sure he's lovethat.
I'm into sph to and love to get humiliated in public or get tied to a tree