So am I a Virgin or not? Is my hymen still intact?

So I need your help guys... The first time I fingered myself was like months ago... I did it while sexting with someone... he told me that I won't lose my virginity if I did it... (Know that I have never had sex with anyone)... When I inserted myself it just felt kinda not comfortable I did it with one finger but like I didn't have intense pain or anything... when I started moving it I didn't feel pleasure like it was not as expected and like everyone said it's pleasurable... I couldn't insert the second one... I was on my last days of period... So after I cummed I found blood (not a lot) on my fingers and a piece of dried blood ( I used to see this piece of blood on period so I think I know it) ... I don't know if my hymen is broken or not? Did I lose my virginity or not? Also I did it multiple times after but only one finger and again no pleasurable feeling... What do y'all think?
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  • Darling the only way you are no longer a virgin , is if you and someone else had physical penetrative sex together, the hymen normally tears during intercourse. Hymen can also remain intact sometime as well. So the only way you can actually lose your virginity is through physical sex with another person.

  • You're still a virgin whether your hymen is broken or not. Virginity has to do with sexual activity, precisely, not anything else, so as long as you don't do something of a sexual nature with someone else, you'll still be a virgin

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  • He bullshitted you, a virgin should not do such stuff, the hymen is a proof for purity.

    So am I a Virgin or not? Is my hymen still intact?
    • When I saw your profile I understood why you are like that... no wonder now why you are so shitty :)

  • You are a virgin

  • Virginity ends only with penetrative intercourse. You just made your future first time easier.

  • Your are still a virgin if you never had sex (penis penetrating in your vagina). A hymen can break even when you fall on the ground.

  • It takes having a penis inside you to lose your virginity. So relax, you are still a virgin.

  • if you're "talking about having sex", and then asking if you're a virgin, you're likely just trolling

  • There's a chance you broke your Hyman, depending how deep you went in. But your still a virgin. It's pretty easy to check if it's still there fyi. So just have look to see it it's still intact.

    • How can I know if it's still there?

  • Virgin

    • But the hymen is there?

    • Did you have a guy inside you?

    • No... never

  • First an intact hymen does not = virginity. With that being said yes you’re still a virgin and it’s likely the reason it didn’t feel good was because it was putting pressure on your hymen. It will feel better with time and practice

  • Have you ever used a dildo vibrator?

  • Still a virgin. Maybe you broke your hymen, but you are still considered a virgin

  • Unless you have penile penetration you are a virgin. There are ways your hymen can break.

    • Can you explain more?

    • You have to actually have sex with someone to lose your virginity. Sometimes women have broken their hymen riding a bicycle.

  • Dumb question

  • Dont worry you are virgin🤗

  • Don't worry so much about virginity or hymen.

  • Still a virgin

    • Really? Is the hymen still intact?