So, can I officially have sex with my boyfriend now or it’s still cheating?

I filed for a divorce case against my husband and I gave them all papers to prove that he is an abusive and he needs help. I’ve been staying with the only guy that helped me through it all since the beginning. We love each other since a long time but can we finally start having fun on our own or wait to officially get divorced?
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  • Get on that dick, you aren't going back.

  • If you're sure of the divorce then there's no reason to wait in my mind. Divorce can be a long process legally and it seems silly to put your life on hold for something that's already over.

  • I would wait. Your husband could use that against you.

  • Not cheating as you guys have filed for divorce

  • Fuck whom you want too, the divorce is already in the process, and you 2 are nolonger married.

  • who cares or who will get to know about it

  • It still would be cheating.

  • You are 20 years old and you are already divorced? To me should I have sex is not the important question, to me the important question is what are you doing for work? What are you doing to build your future? Take care of all that first, and great sex will follow.

  • To me, as long as your husband knows the relationship is over and you're separated and living separately you're both free to move on.
    I've been separated for several years.
    We've both moved on with our lives.

    • In this case he is going crazy and keep chasing and I had to report it to the police

    • Alright. Well then, I'm going to go anonymous and I hope you have a nice day. 😅