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Sexual Health So my girlfriend has been using a dildo molded from her ex-boyfriend's penis, and freaked out when I confronted her about it. Am I in the wrong?
nicenthic Xper 7
This is a question I'm asking for a colleague: I've been with my girlfriend (25f) for almost a year now. I knew her a little bit before we started dating and hooked up with her pretty soon after she became single. We have a pretty good sex life. She wants it almost as much as I do and usually our foreplay includes toys, and sometimes we use them while fucking too. Her favorite toy as long as I knew her had been this particular dildo that she'd always had as long as we'd been together. I didn't really think much of it. Sometimes when things were getting hot and heavy she'd hand me the toy and have me thrust it inside of her while I attended to other parts of her body, as this was the best way to make her orgasm. At the time I really thought nothing of it as I know a lot of girls can't cum from PIV. One day recently though I saw on her Facebook page that she had been tagged in a photo with tom from another mutual friend in some photo from when they were all together + friends from two years ago. I was reading through the comments when the mutual friend said something along the lines of "omg u guys were so cute together!!1 :)". Well Tom replied to it with "lol haha well at least [my gf's name] still has something to remember me by ;)". I thought of course at the time they were just talking about the photo, but when I checked again a few hours later, the comments were gone, all of them, which weirded me out. I asked my GF what Tom had been talking about, about what he meant with the something to remember me by comment. She didn't know what I was talking about at first but then told me about the dildo. Apparently, when she and Tom were still together, they had the idea together to make a mold of his cock using one of those dildo molding kits so that my GF would have something to use when she went to study abroad for the semester. And the dildo was the very same favorite one that we used during our foreplay.
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I'll admit I freaked out at the time and told her to get rid of it that instant, that I can't believe she wanted to be pounded using Tom's penis while we were having sex. She yelled back at me telling me that I was acting like a jealous child and..
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..that it was just a dildo in her collection and that i was trying to control her. So yeah that convo didn't end well and we kinda cooled off a bit separately. I didn't really want to start another fight so I just kind of kept my mouth shut about it.
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14 15Lmao. I'm sorry, but this made me laugh. That is a bit odd. No, you're not in the wrong for confronting her about it because I'm sure she thinks about their old sex sessions when using it. If I were you I would leave. Once she gets tired of the fake thing she may want the real thing, which will result in her cheating or leaving.
People actually get molds of their former partners genitalia? wow...
molded flesh lights...does that happen?
That's really fucking weird to me. Why would she keep that after they broke up in the first place, let alone have you use it on her? I mean I know it's just a dildo, but come on. She needs to get rid of that or you need to break up with her. Any time you see it from now on you're going to be thinking about her ex's dick and how it's still getting her off even though you're with her now.
She's getting fucked by Tom. That's messed up. I guess this guys cock can't do what Tom's does.
Give an ultimatum