Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health When you were 13/14 what did you want from relationships with the opposite sex?
I, personally, smoked weed and was down with experimenting with guys - making out, feeling up, fooling around. I never had an expectation of security. I got that when I wad 18 and met my future husband. You?
Someone suggested I ask this question. So here I am?
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13 43I agree with you except I didn’t smoke weed till I was 16
It's something I never had any girlfriends growing up to I got to be age 28 and age 35 I had some girls who I had crushes on but It never went no where Now my one cousin was like age 12 and his mother my third cousin was wondering about him cause she found condoms he must have left on the sink and forgot to throw them away so who knows maybe he had them for masturbating not sure
I wanted fun. Friends. Wasn't until 15 started that I started looking for any romance stuff, but then was all of it at once yknow. Of course I never found all of it at once cause you never do but yeah.
I was a fat kid that everyone picked on. Having a relationship with somebody was something that was so totally never going to happen that I never gave it much thought.
I just wanted to get physical
After my rape I wanted to them all to die. I was so angry I wanted them all to hurt. Not only for what happened to me but the response I got afterwords.
That is completely understandable. I am truly sorry to hear that happened to you. How do you think that has changed you as an adult, if you don’t mind my asking?
It's late can I talk about this tomorrow? I'm not up for this conversation right now.
Of course. Talk here, send a pm. Whatever works for you. I support you and I am sorry this happened to you.
I was not in the right spot emotionally for any kind of dating at that age...
At that age, only to score.
i didn't want relationships at that age. i didn't even think of having sex at that point.
When I was 13 or 14 , I just wanted to be her infront of my eyes doing what ever she's doing.
Just watch her moving and look into her eyes.
And she would come and speak to me with a smile and I could make her laugh with my silly jokes
The same thing as now, just date and have fun. Then eventually, have sex and fall in love.
When I was 13 I was car crazy. When I was 15 I bought my first car, a 1948 Ford Coupe. I was dating a 14-year-old, and we had sex quite often. It was after my grandfather, dad, and my president all died within a month of each other that I "grew up".
Where were you when you heard jfk died?
I was in typing class. It was the half-credit I was missing while I took care of my father after his surgery that left him paralyzed. I should have graduated in 1963, instead, I finished my typing class and was eligible to graduate that June of 1964. I was in the Coast Guard learning search and rescue.
Wow.
I don’t think I expected anything I was too shy to talk to my crushes or even acknowledge them. I was always serious about relationships but I didn’t imagine me having a future with anyone until I met my current boyfriend that was the first time that I had hope that I’ll get married and have kids with someone.
My only relationships with girls at that time was friendship
I just wanted to suck on titties.
Noice! I got my tittes felt! Not sucked on till I was 16 if I remember correctly. 🤔
I wanted too, but I was only allowed fondling rights.
Shoot! Well fondling is good too
Yep, when you are winning don’t blow it, right. I was quite appreciative.
Indeed! Don’t knock a good thing! One time, when I was 16, I was making out with a guy I’d had a huge crush on for 2 years. I was so freaking into it he took my shirt off, sucked my tits………then stopped. 🤨 I had no idea why. Then he ghosted me. One of the most bizarre experiences I have ever had. Then, several years later, my husband and I ran into him at the mall. I awkwardly introduced them and he he shook my husband’s hand. 🤣 Hubs had broken his had a few years earlier and this guy shook it hard. 😬 True story.
He is wanker, it makes my hands very tough too.
Tbh I just kinda wanted to learn what a girl wants in a guy. I did want a girlfriend for exoerimenting too but not to have sex right away. I
Same.
sex lol. and to play video games with me.
You wanted sex at 13. I was still a little squeamish but open to messing around, making out, fingering, hand jobs.
yeah cause i saw my first porno at 13. i'd also seen porn mags before that point too. so i was fully aware of it and wanted to experiment with any girl lol
I saw porn when I was 8. I enjoyed it. And I def wanted to be fingered. But for some reason wanted to wait for sex. I can’t explain why. 🤔 I started smoking weed when I was 13 too.
Some kissing and cuddling, some boob squeezing, maybe a handjob, and in my wildest dreams I hoped she'd let me eat her out and give me a "thank you" kiss after
Mmmhmmm. Same. I never thought I would let a guy eat me out. The idea petrified me. Then I met a guy and we had a bit of miscommunication, he thought I gave him the green light. It happened. 😬 In the end, I am glad it did. I needed to get over it. That was 20 years ago. I am married to him now and we have 2 kids.
Experimenting sex with different genders, Masturbation, alcohol, travelling, dealing with heartbreak...
Went through it all that
Yes you did! ❤️
At that time I was very naughty and popular girl
I can only imagine! How old were you when you lost your virginity?