Should you stay in a relationship with low sexual satisfaction?

if you can easily refuse, try adding kids in the equation.
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  • Is communication an issue? Have you expressed that you are sexually unsatisfied? If so, how did you go about expressing it/opening the discussion with them? And how did they react/respond?

  • I think yes but you can not cross your limit

  • You should end it because it won't work on the long term

  • But what is the point of being in a relationship if you're getting your sexual needs met elsewhere?

    • Meant this as a reply to another opinion. My personal opinion is to have an honest open discussion about whatever issues may be causing the lack of attraction and/or end that relationship.

  • Try to spice things up gotta have sex everyday

  • Absolutely not.

  • Depends on what you're getting in return. If you can be the kind of person who will give without ever thinking of what you'll get, well then that's big of you... But in reality that is not possible for a human being...

    So if you're getting something in return that can make up for the lack then great.

    Also remember, the other person may have an actual reason, other than just a low sex drive etc. which they might not actually be comfortable telling. If this is the case, which you can't readily know all by yourself, you might want to give that person the emotional or psychological cushion so that they open up to you and you can find a middle ground... Or at least the satisfaction that its not something wrong with the relationship, but the fact that THAT is the kind of relationship/partner you have.

  • Not good for relationship
    The best relationship in high sexul satisfaction

  • Make her to understand what you want before anything

  • In my opinion, yes you should stay because sex is not all the thing in this world as far as your partner gives you respect.

  • what should weigh is the mutuality of feelings. the rest is resolved with conversation

  • No I can't

  • If it doesn’t improve it won’t last

  • I'm sure my boyfriend feels really bad about it but I've never had an orgasm. I can't make myself have one either so it's not his fault. Either way I'm satisfied with not getting one so I don't think I need to get anything out of having sex more than the comfort of him being satisfied and the whole thing about being close to each other. I don't think I would leave him if I could get one from something other than him. Sex really isn't important unless it's with the person you love (imo)

  • If u love them then you’ll stay. For me, I believe u chose to be with them in the first place so tough if your not happy. You’ll just end up upsetting them and causing them to resent you.