The guy I'm dating thinks I'm too small. to have sex?

I've basically been just sucking his dick, I want to have sex but he thinks I'm too small and he could make me bleed or something... he's 6'8 and I'm 5'0 and he's dick is super big, but I want it bad, how do I convince him to fuck me... I'm frustrated...
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  • If it's any consolation, I'm 6' 9" and have been told that I have a big dick (9" long) but, my ex-fiance was only 5' 3" and she never had a problem taking it! I could go all the way to hilt with no problem!
    Although the inside of your pussy is probably only about 4' deep, it stretches A LOT to accommodate a baby passing through it so, even bigger dicks will still fit, at least a good part of the way in. If he can't sink it all the way in, you can at least take as much as WILL fit with no problem! I've even seen girls shove an entire football up there!! I mean, she'll just be laying there naked in bed and look perfectly normal and then she'll pound out the football that you never even knew she had in her!! I've seen girls take huge monster dicks and dildos almost the size of your head, and I have a short video of a girl taking a 16" long dildo to the hilt!! Maybe you can use that to show him you CAN take it! How she does it, I don't know but, it looks like it goes half way into her chest!! At one point, she actually spins around on it (just half a turn) so, it IS inside of her!!
    Maybe if you found a dildo the same size as his plonker, and used it in front of him, it'd prove to him that you COULD take him.
    Or, you can always make use of my dick! It's not like anybody else is knocking down my door to get it!

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  • One way is to show him. Suggest mutual masturbation, and pull out a large dildo and use it on yourself. If he sees that you can take it, he'll get the idea that you might be able to take him too.

    If his disk is super big, though, you might want to help him enter the first time, going slow.

    A woman's vagina can stretch to let the head of a baby through during birth. A man's penis is never that big.

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  • Wear your sexiest trashy little nothing and tall stiletto pumps. Agree on a safe word and that he will honor it. Anything else is just role play. Then demand he fuck, carefully at first.

  • You said his dick is super big, so I'm assuming it's both very long and very thick. Mine is too, but I've had sex with an Asian girl about your height with no problem. How? I give my girls sufficient foreplay including oral. By sufficient I mean they have an orgasm during foreplay. That increases the length of the vagina and "loosens" it for a thicker dick. Then if they are still hesitant because of my thickness, we do a girl on top position like a cowgirl. That puts her in control of how fast and how deep the penetration procedes. I have never torn or caused a vagina to bleed.

    You should talk with your boyfriend and say that you two need to try this. With you on top, tell him you won't do anything that's painful to you.

  • I'm sorry you're going through that.

    I also tend to worry that some of the women I'm with may be too fragile for how rough and dominant I can get. I need to feel confident that no matter what, I'm welcomed to be my normal self sexually.

    Once I feel good and my confidence is built up, I'm riding like a mechanical bull.

  • He may be worried about getting you pregnant. I can't really think of any other reason. I wouldn't give much of shit about your height lol

  • Tell him if it can fit in my mouth it will fit in my pussy, just use some lube and go slow if it's that big.

  • Stop sucking his dick, tell him you'll start back after he fucks you. It could be a little painful the first time, I don't know if you're a virgin. The vagina is made to expand, trust me if he takes his time it will fit perfectly fine

  • Go with Cowgirl. You aren't size limited. You can always do "cameltoe slide" during Cowgirl which also is not size limiting.

  • umm hun isn't it obvious? You take control of the situation. Grab his big ogre ass and drive his lips into your's and then slip the tongue and push his ass on the bed and take your clothes off. Honestly sometimes a woman being sexually aggressive is not only warranted but the most pleasing thing to the eyes. Put the foot down, he'll fall in line.

  • Then he better learn how to eat your pussy!!!

  • Don’t suck his dick again till he does it

    • He definitely would fuck her then

  • Tell him don't be an idiot and think you're in a porn film, and to take it nice and slow. Tell him to eat your pussy till you cum and then it should slide right in there.

  • I’m 5’4 my ex was 6’3 you’ll survive he can stop with that nonsense.

    • @lovedejj_xo did your ex have a big cock though?

  • Well just tell him, "sweetie your dick isn't that big, I have had bigger" when he gets mad tell him to quit being a ass hole and fuck you

  • Tell him fuck me or leave for good.

  • Tell him you don't care if you bleed.

  • Have him lie on his back while you are giving him a BJ. Right before he cums, straddle his waist and sit down on his dick. That way if he does hurt you. You can stop or readjust so doesn’t.

  • Sounds like it’s time to climb on top and take what you need

  • What's wrong with him that he hasn't done that already?

  • How big is your ButtHole?

  • Haha, what?

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