This question is for guys to answer, and ladies to read, although anyone can answer?

Guys, can you just have a general conversation with a woman, or does it always turn sexual (details aren't required) Answer anonymously or on your ID it doesn't matter.
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  • I always have a general conversation with any girl out there that I know.

    It was today only that I was having a general conversation about a program that we had to write. Of course, the program was shared among other students too. So we had that program. And these girls were not able to just make their program run. So I sent them mine. Done!
    I met one of them like 15 days ago, and now, she is completely free with me. She talks with me and all. Its like we knew each other from like 6 months.

    • Thanks for sharing buddy.

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  • Of course.
    One major tip I gave to a friend to help him overcome his major fear of women and his tenancy to think WAY to far ahead was to view them as people - lmao I know sound crazy.
    I have to admit that several factors make it hard to do myself. Some things will just trigger the deep male instincts.
    These include:
    the out fit - much flesh and highly feminine revealing features can really trigger this instinct
    The attitude - Some women have a flirty attitude which of course will trigger my male instincts as well.
    Seeing their instincts kick in - Eyes dilating, flush skin, hard nipples starting to protrude.

    So for the majority of conversations I don't really consider gender. There are times that it does become dominant.

    • That's exactly how I am with my conversations.. I could be talking to male OR female. I treat everyone as friends.

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  • The tone that it is done in is definitely paramount in setting intentions of conversation. Some people just emit sexual energy naturally and that leads conversation to become sexualised often. Respectfully setting boundaries is the key to the intention of the conversation. You cannot control a persons behaviour only your own.

    • I agree. and as I've mentioned to others, this question came about because of something I was told this morning about how guys pester girls in private on this site with sex talk.. I just wanted to know how deeply rooted into guys this behaviour was, because the whole thing is alien to me. If I talk in private then I'm the same on here as I am in there.

  • I find I can get guys to do what I wany with a little bit of cleavage and a short skirt...

    • The reason I asked this was because of something I was told earlier today about unsolicited and unwanted sexual advances from guys in private. I just waned to know just how bad it was!

    • Can guarantee you that, it is now that will push guys away from you if you do that. Be honest and sincere in your behavior, then even a guy that is playing you, may feel a bit and leave you alone.

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  • I have conversations with women every day and there is only woman with whom the topic of sex is discussed: my girlfriend.

    • As it should be I couldn't agree more.

  • No, it doesn't turn sexual when I talk to women. Almost all of the conversations I have don't turn sexual. That being said though, I probably WOULDN'T like to have a "general
    conversation with anyone who was boring. Most women (and men) are boring to talk to.

  • Yes, I can have a normal convo with a woman without talking sex.

  • Sure. All the time. That's normal society.

  • I think they can. It’s all about the tone and stuff.

    • Tone?

    • @3Andronicus yes tone of the conversation

    • I don't understand. What are you going on about? How does "tone" affect the actual words that are used to convey a message? The meaning will remain the same, regardless of how you hear it said.

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  • Yes if course I can have a conversation with a woman without it turning sexual, because I'm an adult!

  • I can but often times they do turn sexual but i never bring it up first cuz I’m far too worried about creeping them out

  • I can.

    • I' was told just now that we are in the minority.. I was just curious how MUCH of a minority!

  • I can have normal conversations without thinking about sex at all. Ofcourse when I'm in the mood it becomes a little bit harder to stick to a normal conversation, but even then I'm perfectly able to have normal conversations 🤷🏼‍♂️

  • That depends on the girl involved. I like having normal, casual or philosophical conversations with women, and I will only turn the conversation sexual if the lady wants or asks for it, or turns herself the conversation into sexual matters, which I would appreciate very much !

  • Sex can't be on their minds all the time, right?

  • For some guys. It won't turn sexual unless you really want to be intimate with the girl. If you are in a relationship and talking to a different girl, you turn it sexual when you are looking to cheat.

    You are a guy yourself, right? Where do your conversations lead to?

  • I'm having a normal conversation with one right now.

  • Yes.

  • Yes, I can. And I do all the time. Lol. I find this humorous. Not everything is about sex, you know?

    • Absolutely Jamie.. I agree it isn't, and the background to this question stems from women on this site getting pestered for sex in their private messages. I wanted to find out how deeply rooted the problem was.

    • Ah; I see.

  • This would only apply to complete creeps.

    • I think so too, but it's surprisingly far more common than I'd expected.

    • Indeed. Many men see women as nothing but means to get themselves off. Unless it's their mothers or sisters. But they never stop to think that all other women are someone's sister or mother or whatever as well.

    • That is exactly my logic too!

  • I have friends all around the world and never talked sex... That's something you can't do with anyone

  • Ratelydo my conversations with girls that aren't my girlfriend have nothing sexual in them

  • I can but I only do it to get my job done or because I don't have a easy way to get away from talking to her. I really don't share many interests with most women outside of sex

  • Sex is apart of life. I have female employees and friends that sometimes sexual jokes or playful flirting gets tossed out. But you have to know your audience.

    It's the classic Harry met sally argument that guys and gals can't be friends. That's bs. Just be laid back about it and know the person you're joking around with.

    • I couldn't agree more.. That bit 'know your audience''

    • Yeah. I had a few more religious conservative employees. Obvi we kept it down around them

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