come on sweetie think about it twice!
- what might he think about you if you give your virginity to him even he is not your boyfriend?
- he may think your stupid enough to give your self to him.
- he just using his advantage to get you.
- if he likes you too he wouldn't hesitate to court you as he know in the end you're going to give him what he wants from you.
anyway the decisions are still yours just be careful sweet!
are you sure you want to do this? "he's not my boyfriend yet because we both needed time to think about it" but you're sure you want to have sex with him?
yess we have talked about it a lot on Skype and yeah we've been together this summer for 1 month 24/7. we have only kissed because I didn't want sex when we both were not sure about the future together. sex should be special. and now he called me today and told me that he wants to try long distance because he really missed me those past 3 months. and me too, I can't wait to see him again. to finally kiss and touch him again. So he wants to be my boyfriend but I want him to ask it in real life before telling everyone he's my boyfriend because it's not official yet.. but do you have any tips?
make sure you use protection. if you're not on birth control, definitely use a condom. when i had sex before i was on birth control, i made him wear a condom and pull out because i'm super paranoid and know i have a lot of education i need to finish before i can have kids. it might hurt and you might bleed but it depends on the person. for some girls, it doesn't hurt, they don't bleed, and it feels really good. other girls will bleed for a while and be sore for a few days and get absolutely no pleasure from their first time (or second or third). it's impossible to predict how you'll feel. remember that jumping from kissing to sex is a HUGE leap. there's a lot in between so you don't have to have sex right away. there are other things you guys can do first. it would probably be ideal to have him finger you before you have sex anyway so sex will be more comfortable.
yeah well that's a good idea. But no guy have ever fingered me... so Im kind of nervous. Now everyone will probably say that Im not ready for sex when Im this nervous. But there have to be a first time and I think everyone is nervous for the first time..
1. (Under 18):
That COULD be illegal, thus statutory rape :legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/Statutory+Rape
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Statutory_rape
2. If it's not illegal: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1178062-losing-ur-virginity-how-painful-it-is-guys
3. No, he won't mind.
My advice: You know what a penis is? Stay away from it ! ;)
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yeah. Don't take this the wrong way, but seriously think it over before you make up your mind with this. That's a big step.
Make sure you use no condoms the first time
:rolleyes: Make sure you USE condoms the first time!
@jacquesvol lol at whoever took my answer seriously
Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Most Helpful Girls