Superb Opinion

  • Of course pick the right person who genuinely cares for you in and out of bed. Let him/her know this is your first time, so they can keep that in mind and will overlook things you may go through your first time. You will most likely feel nervous and anxious but don't let that ruin the moment, and if your partner is experienced then things really are a lot easier. Honestly it is normal to have embarrassing moments, so worrying too much about them will only ruin the good moments. Just as others have said: Relax. It is your first time and you will learn more later with experience.

Most Helpful Girl

  • 1. Go slow
    2. Use plenty of lube
    3. Do plenty of foreplay
    4. You may bleed or you may not bleed, have something to clean up with either way
    5. Use protection!
    6. Don't get upset if you're unable to get off, sometimes it takes a few times before you are relaxed/comfortable enough to get in the right state of mind to orgasm
    7. Don't be afraid to ask your partner to stop if you're in too much pain; you can always try later.
    8. Try to relax, the more tense you are the more tight your muscles will be.

Most Helpful Guys

  • The only virgin that I had the honor of taking, happened like this.
    When she was sexually aroused and soaking wet, I had her get on top.
    That way she could control how deep she let me in, and could control any pain she felt.
    She started slow at first, then she shuddered, then she started taking me full on.
    She thanked me, and said there was a little pain, but what she felt afterwards more than made up for it.
    We kept in touch, she’s married now with kids. You never forget your first.
    Remember to relax!

  • Dont think "we are in love now" or "we are basically married now".
    Be honest, its ok to be nervous.
    Its gonna be somewhat uncomfortable and there will be some pain, thats normal for the first time.
    Use protection.
    Enjoy yourself, the more turned on you are the more enjoyable itll be.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • girl you better make sure he turns you on and you're comfortable with him. if you're too nervous or tense, and not turned on enough it'll hurt like a bitch.

  • TAKE YOUR TIME!!! Make him wait!! Make sure he is the RIGHT ONE, and make it something you WANT TO REMEMBER!!!
    If you aren't sure, just stop, and say no, a few times!! The guy that REALLY CARES, will wait, and not be angry, or annoyed, but just smile, and suggest something else, something caring, loving, and good, as the REAL one cares about YOU!!

  • Dont rush in to anything just to feel you need to fit in with friends or anyone else biggest tip I can give

  • Dont make it in car

    • literally calling me out so hard lmaooooo. but you right for sure

  • just make sure you actually want to, and that you've chosen a good person, and that you use protection.

  • Spread your legs wide and enjoy

  • Don’t be boring.


    Be consistent


    Don’t ghost


    And if you don’t give a fuck (be a hoe and post thirst traps)

  • Foreplay is key. Take time to be comfortable, take time to explore and take time to enjoy yourself. Don't let him just stick it in.

    • Make sure he gives you oral too. This will help you get wet. The guy should put some Vaseline on penis so it lessens the friction on it sliding in. You should grab his penis and slide it in slowly into your vagina. If there's any pain stop. Relax a bit and maybe try again.

  • Make sure you are ready and the person you are going to give it to is worth it.

  • I say make sure you're in control at all times

  • Take your time till marriage. Most guys will disappear after they got your scent

  • You should at least do a background check first. And go to the health department together to get tested for STDs.

  • Do a lot of foreplay and do cowgirl

  • Let the Man do what he does.
    God Bless

  • What kind of tips do you need this is pretty straight-forward

  • Get tested for STD's when you feel comfortable and consent to losing your virginity.

  • Sorry for your lost

  • Use protection, make sure you will be respected, and make HIM TAKE HIS time, go slowly and inch in and not shove it, or else it will really hurt!

  • Both of you must pee after sex so that no infections occur. You may/may not bleed/have pain. Both are normal. Don't forget protection. Make sure you trust the guy and you're very comfortable with him so that you don't feel forced to do stuff.

  • Remember to relax

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