Make sure you have a bath mat in the shower because it's easy enough to slip and that can ruin the moment. As soap or body wash seems like a great lubricant to give yourself a nice nipple rubbing and your man a hand job, it may give him a burning sensation in his package later on; using your own personal lubricant is better in my opinion. Building up the mood prior to jumping in will help build up the sexual tension, making penetration much easier for your guy once that water is on your body.
For sex positions, the two obvious ones I'd recommend are being pinned to the wall and plenty of oral. Unfortunately, having a hard surface with a wet floor does limit your options but it's still possible to have quite the sex session in there. If you're even up for creative fun, I often detach my second showerhead or my waterproof vibrator and use it to masturbate while my boyfriend gives me a nice anal.
As long as you're intimate and are aware of the dangers shower sex provides, I'm sure you and your boyfriend will appreciate enjoying the moment together!
Thanks for the advice!
You're welcome! After not having sex for a few months now, I'm sure he'll appreciate your thoughtfulness on this :) Just make sure you both are in the mood of course!
I'm getting horny just thinking about it... And he's ALWAYS ready.
My tip is to just start the foreplay in the shower and finish elsewhere. It's not easy and it's generally not all it's cracked up to be.
First: you would effectively have to have sex standing up to avoid drowning or accidentally water-boarding your partner. This is really difficult and introducing soap and water is a serious slipping hazard. So, if you really want to try, avoid leaving razors lying around or soap.
Second: Water is not lube, in fact, it will wash away most of your natural lubricant and it will likely conflict with any artificial lubricant you try to introduce. This is why I say foreplay is great in the shower, but it's not realistic to actually have a full sex session there.
That's all I can suggest.
Careful not to get soap in your urethra, it will burn and the fun will be over.
Noted.
Keep the penetration out of the water, as the water will wash away your natural lubrication and you'll chaff.
The positions that work will vary greatly on the shower you're in (many are small and constricting, some are larger and easier to move in or brace against). The positions that work best are usually her up against a wall being penetrated from behind, or facing him with one leg over his shoulder (you have to be able to do the splits to make that work). Ther other positions are things like Lotus, where he's sitting on the floor and you sit facing him on his lap.
Showers are great for nice long sensual foreplay - and you can both be under the water for that - but once you start to bang, you have to be careful and you may want to reduce water flow or angle the nozzle mostly away from you, because you really don't want it washing away your lubrication. Otherwise, be safe and have fun!
Thank you!
LOL! My best advice would be get clean and don't slip and fall!
Don't have any expectations!
Don't worry about the sex; just let things happen organically. Be fully present in the moment at that time and place with him.
Relax and go with the flow!
HAVE FUN!
Thank you!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Shower sex is a bit risky since it's easy for someone to slip and fall so if they have a mat you can put down or even just a bath sheet, it'll make things safer.
It is a definite fall hazard, and the water washes away natural lubricant. Make sure you have a non-slip mat on the floor of the shower, and bring extra lube.
Lube? Not a bad idea...
Water is not lube 💦💦💦
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Is it golden shower sex?
What do you mean?
Does it involve pee pee?
I'm open to it, but I haven't the slightest clue on how to incorporate that.
Only advice I can give is bring toys. Shower's a lot like regular sex, only with water. Focus on the uniqueness of the experience, for example, consider where the presence of water, combined with specific activities, might be able to heighten pleasure, and give experiences not able to give outside a shower.
It’s not that great
lol relax people domt need to no evrything about your persomal life
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This is a site for people to anonymously post their questions and answers. If this is a question she has, then what's the problem? People share a lot more about themselves in comparison to a question about shower sex 🤔😂
As so many people have said shower sex isn't that great but if you still going to do it I recommend doggy style as it's the best way to do it. I also recommend to have the water on cool as it adds to it.
You need to put something on the floor to prevent fallings. Maybe some kind of "chair" is not bad idea too
eh, shower sex kinda sucks. I'd advise foreplay in the shower then move to a better location
I only like fingering and handjobs in the shower. A tub is much more intimate for foreplay. The shower is just so damn uncomfortable for p in v sex... unless you have a huge shower stall with a bench...
Don't.
It's cold, slippery and dangerous.
Don't slip in the shower.
All I can think is imagining how much fun you guys gonna have
Is sis joining in?
Nope. This is me and him, making up for lost time.
Ohk... But is the other girl allowed otherwise
Nope. Mono et Mono.
Don't let the water run down over your pussy during sex. It washes away your natural lube and makes sex less enjoyable. Other than that, just have a good time.
Noted, thanks!
Honestly sneak from behind touch him up a bit give him a hj make him turn around feel him up a bit again you turn around let him have at it standing then press against the wall turn around kneel give him a quick hj and finish with a bj
I like it.
Do it n a pool and I'd u want to do something for him I strongly suggest a nice long blowjob. Sex. Is also 4 u a blowjob is purely unselfish act 4 him
I have never successfully had shower sex. I never managed to enter the girl, and all in all it was just complicated and not worth it. Taking a shower together is super nice, though! I suggest you give him a handjob or blowjob in the shower, if you want this to be really successful. Or you just clean him veeeery well in all the different spots and see how he reacts. 😉 Good luck and enjoy!
I've never been a fan of shower sex for the reasons you mention. Though showering with a friend is fun.
@BillieJean1070 My words! Thanks for your reply!
Not sure what’s to know
do you have a bar you can grab onto?
Yes.
hold onto it and find a good position from there... usually a position from behind works easier. Shower sex isn't as fun as it sounds. We usually start in the shower and end up in the bedroom. Make sure you adjust the shower head so that water isn't pouring directly down on your body if you go down on each other. You will feel like you are being water-boarded if it is lol
Noted. Thanks!
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