Tips for the first time?

[Wintergrace]

Hey, guys. You might remember my question about telling my boyfriend I’m a Virgin. Well, we made it official tonight, and we discussed everything. It turns out that we are both virgins. We’ve been waiting for the right person and we feel like we’re right for each other. We are both very comfortable around each other and it feels right. I thought I would seek advice for men and women so we can up our game for the first time. (Yes, we know to use protection and we are both adults in our 20s).

[Dargil]

A nuts and bolts, non-romantic answer.
*Be prepared for things to go wrong and don't be anxious about it. You are on the same team with the same goal. Be prepared to say: "Better luck next time."
*Foreplay will help prepare you. If you are doing oral, now is a good time.
*When first entry arrives, butter up with water base personal lube. You will likely be very snug and you don't want any abrasion. Don't rely on nature alone.
*I favor this position because it distributes his weight comfortably for you. It also gives you some control. You should agree that you control how this goes with pre-agreed coaching words.

Folded Eagle Position

*He should enter you in a series of short pushes; a little farther each time, not all at once. Have coaching words for "enough on this push" and "try again". We used a firm OK! for "enough" and a softer Ok. for "try again".
*It may take several pushes and you may not get him in at all on the first session if it becomes uncomfortable for you. Be prepared to "regroup" for later or another time.
*The last push will likely pinch and will be stretch-and-give. Once he is in, he should stay in and not withdraw and re-enter if that "stretch and give' pinched a lot, because it will happen again withdrawing and re-entering. Better to enjoy the ride the first time.
*One more thing. First times for a virgin guy may result in instant ejaculation before he even gets in (it did for me). Suggest to him he masturbate in the morning before you are together that night. Good luck.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-health/a50658-advice-for-your-first-time

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/a56110-a-guide-for-virgins-on-their-first-time

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/a27515-azrial-s-blowjob-guide

[Being_a_good_Indian]

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[Madhatter920]

Just try to enjoy yourselves. :) Don't be shy about voicing what you like and what you don't. You'll figure it out together. Have fun!

[MrTuxedo]

It's good that you're both virgins, so I suppose there will be no judging or discomfort.
I would advise you to go slow and talk to each other want you want. If you don't feel good, tell him, if he doesn't feel good, he should tell you as well.

Hope it helps, have fun you to ;)

[Twalli]

Cowgirl for the first time. A lot of foreplay. Only do cowgirl until you no longer feel pain.