Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health To OLDER Guys on here if you are attracted to someone say 15 years younger will you bring up their age/them being young to remind yourself of that?
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An age gap to many can be something awkward. So would you bring up her age / her being young to sort of remind yourself of that gap.
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No, no I mean bring it up to stop yourself from going further
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(29)Sure why would I have a problem with that my grandfather‘s wife was 22 years younger than him
So older I am not old enough to know that age difference. But I do know that recognizing the age difference dose help me to keep that distance but if you are both enjoying that as a difference in your relationship it can become a subject for flirtation. I started dating my ex when I was 23 and we were 5 years different. It was a constant subject for harassment because she was such a sexy young queen and I was a pervy old man…. In our minds at least. Lol! We had fun with it. I’m sure that is a kink in bigger age differences.
I'd prefer not to think about the age. If I think about it too much then I'll get cold feet.
15 years is too much, though. I wouldn't go that far.
That’s definitely something to address early on. I don’t think I’d personally go past a 10y difference.
Only if there's another reason, besides the age difference, that I don't want the relationship.
Grasping for straws when she didn't accept my age, like most men, I would say, "Age is just a number." However, most men and I know better. On a dating site, a pretty 19-year-old girl was contacted by a man about age 40, and "Age is just a number" is what he told her.
She looked up the profiles and photos of some 50-year-old women and selected three of the more attractive for their age. She messaged him, listed the 3 profiles, and said, Here are three women you will like. The man replied and he was angry that she would suggest that he might be interested in old women. Of course, that demolished his argument to her that age is just a number.
I do not bring up age gaps... but then again, I don't date 15 years younger.
Hell no!! I wouldn't embarass her. Lol
I would never bring up her age if there’s a significant gap. It’s not necessarily an insecurity for an older guy to have a younger girlfriend but it can be an insecurity for some people.
Granted I am only err 0 so a 15 year age gap is a felony charge waiting to happen. Usually I will go 10 years in either direction though.