To OLDER Guys on here if you are attracted to someone say 15 years younger will you bring up their age/them being young to remind yourself of that?
An age gap to many can be something awkward. So would you bring up her age / her being young to sort of remind yourself of that gap.
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No, no I mean bring it up to stop yourself from going further
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(29)In my case the age difference would be self-evident.
If she's of legal age, an age gap doesn't affect me much.
I’ve been attracted to younger women but I never got past just flirting because I figured I was too old for them and they are not interested.
Other. I'm looking for her reaction to see if she dismisses the gap or downplays it or acts like "yeah obviously you're too old for me".
No, not really. I would just enjoy her company.
I'm currently dating someone 12 years younger, and so far I've never even mentioned the age difference. She hasn't either. I'm not sure what exactly you mean, but other than in relation to hobbies, interests and future goals, it doesn't bother me at all and don't plan to mention it in any way.
In my late 30's I had two different women who were in their early 20's messaging me and wanting to be together.
"Age is just a number" is a common thing that they said to me when I would express concern about our age gap. After a while I just gave in to them because they're so beautiful. I never met them in person, but the short lived romantic online interactions and sexting were enjoyable for a while.