Girls, vs older men?

[kfhaggerty]

Is it, or is it not true that women in they’re younger years, or those of middle age have a disinterest in having sex with older men? I sincerely want your feedback. Thanks. K.

[SueShe]

I can only speak for myself when I say that personally, and if I were interested in fornicating, I certainly would not want to have too big of an age gap with the partner. Two to 3 years older is okay but certainly not more.

The reason is that men tend to be about 2-3 years less mature than girls of the same age. This age gap makes it ideal.

Now, my view is that older men are actual desperate to find a younger woman simply because they need to prove themselves that they are still attractive to younger girls. That would also be a reason why I would never start anything with an older man. It is not really true love but more a need for validation.

[kfhaggerty]

That is an interesting opinion, even though it eems to mock older people in general. What say you about “Cougars”? You know, the elderly ladies who actively seek out younger men? And, for that matter the younger men who verily seek out older women? Without intending to sound offensive, I indeed find you to be. You seem to be a bit closed minded. It may be due to your upbringing, or maybe even your religious beliefs (of which I respect and make no judgement…honest). I am an older man, yes. I am also alone, and recently have become quite lonely. Do you blame me for anting the comfort and affection of another? Should I die in pain? You haven’t thought this question through enough for having made such a statement. Good luck to you, when you get old. I pray those who you consider ours will have a better opinion when you are gray, eak, crooked, shaky, and suffering from Alzheimer’s disease. Ou sadden me, for your opinion is basically worthless. One day you will come to see this. Too bad you’ll be so infirm you won’t be able to remember insulting a generally nice gentleman. Oh, yeah…. I don't know you. K.

[SueShe]

Thank you Mr. Haggerty for your feedback. I am actually surprised at your answer. You wanted to hear what people have to say yet you seem not to like them. In your question, you are solely mentioning copulating with younger girls and not being in a relationship. To me, those are 2 very distinctive topics. But anyway, I appreciate you taking the time to express your views.

[kfhaggerty]

I did indeed want to hear. And, while I disagreed with your response, I must say that my query was insufficient, as you pointed out. I really did want to know about the sexual type of relationship a woman may offer a person such as I, but let me be clear. I want companionship every bit as I would like a sexual relationship. It’s my fault for not making that clear. As a result of my error it seems we’ve banged our heads together, which was most certainly not my original intent. May I at least apologies for telling you to fuck off. I misunderstood your response to my original question and thought you were answering (I am sorry if I’m about to use an inappropriate term) in a solely feminist fashion. When I am in a sexual relationship, whether she is older or younger, the love and partnership always supercedes the physical aspects. Therefore my original question should have included a clause about the possibility of my finding a love, and then about a lover as a secondary concern. I once again must say I’m sorry, and did not mean to fend you so terribly. K. P. S. How is it you know my name? To my knowledge I never released it to this website. Do you know me? Bye for now.

[SueShe]

Mr. Haggerty, no need to apologize. I am usually expressing the way I feel and it is not always very diplomatic. As to your name, it appears in your handle so it is quite easy to find out.

[Nikki1989]

I have always preferred much older men. So much so, I married one.

[kfhaggerty]

Well I’ll be damned. If you don’t mind my asking, what is the age differential between the two of you.

[kfhaggerty]

I would also like to add that you are a very pretty Oman and ‘m certain he is one hell of a lucky guy!!!

[Nikki1989]

20 years between us.

[kfhaggerty]

Good for you. I hope I can find such a companion.

[Samantha36]

Iv always been with older men. I was sleeping with a 35 year old when I was 18

[rachel776]

my first boyfriend was 5 years older and my boyfriend now is 15 years older

[AustColombiangirl]

I've been having sex with older men since I was a young teen

[wiltingrosepetal]

that's not a good thing-

[LocaFR]

Not true for me i prefer older men

[kfhaggerty]

If I may ask, with your permission, hat is the age gap between you and your man. I just received a scathing letter from another woman (please to read my response if you can), but I feel your ideas may help with my situation. That’s all I wanted to know. Do I die lonely, or do I have a shot finding a woman of lesser years who can love me despite my being an older man. Thank you so much for responding. K.

[LocaFR]

I have been with a guy who 20/25 years more than me, so i think you find someone, not easy but possible