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Want to surprise boyfriend w/ sex. How can I get my boyfriend in bedroom w/out letting him know it's for sex? Should I come out in lingerie or naked?

Want to surprise boyfriend w/ sex. How can I get my boyfriend in bedroom w/out letting him know its for sex? Should I come out in lingerie or naked?
My boyfriend has been waiting for a long while for me to be ready for sex. He's wanted since a couple of months ago, but I just haven't felt ready. He's been very understanding about that. However, I now feel ready and want to have sex with him. I want to surprise him with the sex. However, there are a couple of questions I have.
1. How do I ask him to come in my bedroom without giving any hints that we're going up there for sex? I want to surprise him a little after we get in the bedroom, but I don't want him to suspect anything until the right moment. I want to make sure he has no idea that I'm going to surprise him with sex (until the right moment).
2. I've been thinking of going in my bedroom's bathroom (just tell him I'm 'using the restroom') and then come out in either sexy lingerie or totally naked. On one hand I think lingerie could be fun because I'm not totally naked so it's kind of a sexy tease. I could tease him for a little while by not getting naked (until I actually do). Also, there's often something very sexy about leaving something to the imagination for a while.
On the other hand part of me wonders if the tease thing is such a good idea. Maybe it would be better if I skipped all that and was just butt naked right when I came out of my bedroom's bathroom.
I'm gong back and forth on these questions. Please help me figure them out. Thanks!
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  • Begin around noon and call him. Tell him that you have a surprise for him when he comes to your home that evening. Later in the afternoon, call him again and tell him that you can hardly wait for him to unwrap his gift. But don't tell him what the gift is. Leave him guessing.

    When he arrives at your home, have dinner for him and tell him he can get his gift after dinner. When you are ready, walk into your bedroom and then call for him to come and help you with a zipper. This works best if you are wearing a dress that zips in the back. When he lowers the zipper, say to him, "You've got to keep unwrapping if you want your gift." Then let the dress drop to the floor, turn around and give him a kiss and whisper in his ear, "I want you to make love with me."

    That will work.

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  • Just an idea you can try tell him like a day or so before that you need his help moving some stuff around the house. Have him come over and tell him that you will start in the bedroom since it will be the quickest to rearrange. Tell him to wait there for a minute and you be right back to tell him what needs to be moved around. Come out wearing some sexy lingerie that’s his favorite color and begin the fun. Nice simple and left him wondering if the other rooms will need some work also.

    • Great idea! I'm totally going to do that!

    • Always come up with a lot of ideas that friends use when needing to spice things up. I hope that works and if needing other ideas let me know.

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  • You can just say you want him to look at something in the bedroom, that you think is broken, and what his to look at it. Be sure to have something real, and the story of what is wrong is plausible. If you choose to walk our to him, then definitely wear something sexy. It could be a sexy bra and panties, or perhaps a sexy low lace bra, stockings and a garter belt, etc. However, do sometimes just come out naked, but not the first time.

  • Tell him you want him to take a look at your plumbing.

  • You're 35 and you don't know how to get a guy to have sex. Dear lord.

  • Although naked is best, be wearing clothes and try to trick him into fixing something and then jump his bones.

  • Completely naked would probably get him hard instantly. You could hide it more easily if you ever just hang out in your bedroom with him.

  • Naked and do a come hither with your finger

    • what do you mean by "do a come hither with your finger"?

    • You know. Come here motion with your index finger

  • Uhh to be honest I don't know, simply because I never heard of a girlfriend giving sex without her boyfriend asking 🤣 I would say lingerie but then again if I were in bed with a girl wearing lingerie I'd think we are probably just going to sleep. So honestly and unfortunately you'll have to be naked

  • Wait, how do you know you're boyfriend and girlfriend, if you haven't had sex yet?

  • What does he like best?

    • I don't know. This will be our first time together. I also don't want to ask him because I want it to be a total surprise. If I ask him I think he may catch on to what I'm trying to do.

    • Ok, flip a coun and go with it. Either way he'll figure it out and lo e it

  • why does it have to be bedroom

    • Maybe in the snow

  • Try waiting in ur bed room and just tell him to come inside to help you with something that's all

    • I know this might be silly, but I kind of really like the idea of leading him to my bedroom (with him having no suspicion of sex), me going into the bathroom, and coming out in either lingerie or naked. So if I just asked him to fix something in my bedroom then say 'I need to use the restroom' (and then take off my clothes) do you think he wouldn't have any idea I'm planning on surprising him with sex? Or do you think there's a better way to go about it?

    • If it's out of the ordinary then he might suspect something but if u casually ask his help then it will work but try to go with the flow don't tense up that's all ull be fine

    • Better to wait outside lying on the bed in a sexy pose to surprise him that would be better

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  • Ask him if he could have a look at your bedroom curtains that are falling off the wall.

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