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Was I wrong for making a trade for sex with a guy that has a crush on me?

One of my guy friends that I've known for many years has had a crush on me for the longest time. He is a cute good looking guy but for some reason I've just never been interested in him that way. I've been wanting a tattoo for a while now and he just happens to work at a tattoo shop. The tattoo that I want is too expensive for a broke college girl like myself so I was looking for a way to get a discount from him. Last week he was in my dorm room and we were talking about the tattoo and how I could not afford it, he told me he did not think his boss would let him give me a discount. After some more talk I made an offer that if he could do the tattoo for me I would let him have sex with me. I knew it was not something he was going to turn down because he has liked me for so long and the very next day I was in his shop getting my tattoo for 60% off. Last night it came time for me to pay up on my half of the deal. He came over to my dorm room and without wasting anytime we got straight to it. We both got undressed I gave him a blowjob for about 10 minutes and then he climbed on top of me. Here i am with this guy that had a crush on me forever having never kissed him and now were having sex on my bed. I was kind of thinking we were just going to have slow sex for a few minutes until he was done but that was not the case. When he climbed on top of me he started going fast, like my bed shaking boobs bouncing fast. He kept this up in several different positions for almost 30 minutes and even gave me an orgasm before he told me he was about to cum. When he said he was going to cum I could not even get the words out of my mouth '' pull out'' before it felt like I was being sprayed with a squirt gun, I was completely drenched from my face to my stomach in his cum. After cleaning up and talking for a few minutes he went back to his place. I feel slightly guilty that I may have led him on unintentionally. He is a good friend of mine but I'm just not interested that way.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Honestly girl, yes I believe that was wrong.
    I don't mean to make you feel bad or anything, but that's a really sleazy situation for you to willingly choose. I mean... : /... that's kinda embarrassing, like I'm sure you wouldn't be proud to openly admit doing that to the future love of your life or if he was the type of jerk to get bitter and call you out for it on FB, you may feel some sort of shame. I mean..."had sex/got covered in cum for a tattoo"... that sounds really tacky. Not going to speak too much on how so because I think deep down you already know otherwise you wouldn't even have asked this question.

    Anyhow, if you feel like you need to make a disclaimer and remind him that you're not into him like that, just try to do it gently.

  • Whoa im not gon say how i really feel but just be prepared that people are gonna call u a hoe.. and yes u were completly wrong

Most Helpful Guys

  • Wow, you are a whore, as in your whored yourself out for goods and services; what a poor guy, he got to sleep with you as he's always dreamed but he's going to regret it. You are the lowest of the low. At least the guy got some fun out of it.

    I can't help but think of my friend who I've had a crush on for years and years, she recently got a tattoo, if she offered to sleep with me in exchange for me building a computer or something I would refuse, and the wonder who else the girl of my dreams whored herself out to. Hope the sex was worth it, whore.

  • Looking at it from HIS point of view...
    HE had the time of his life - even if HE ponied up the 60% (wondering how much cash THAT was... any idea?)
    and YOU got a big-O

    If only worried about cutting him off from future "dates", why not just say... it was great... but this was a one of a kind deal for me, not really into sex at this time... maybe some day I'll call, OK?

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  • Wrong doesn't really cover it. This is horrible. Don't do stuff like this. You're technically guilty of prostitution.

    • I'd of took her up on it... I have done similar before or lyrics not with money but other help and it was the greatest thing ever for me. I didn't expect to fuck again but it happened because she told me I gave her multiple orgasms now she has a thing for me and I don't obsess over her lol... funny how that works

  • Does it really matter how diff the sex was? Fast or slow, same thing You should grow up a little and understand that trading sex for something like this is wrong.

  • it's called being not smart

  • If you ask him, can you let us know if he thinks he got a good deal? I think he did

    • I've been in a similar spot without involving money but assistance and the fuck I had was thee best ever I jerked off thinking about it sometimes lol and I gave her the most orgasms she's ever had... now she is obsessed with me and I am over mine lol

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