Watching porn whilst in a relationship?

Ladies... would you be okay with your boyfriend watching porn? Guys... do you watch it because in some way you're not satisfied with your girlfriend or what's it about it that makes it addictive?
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Superb Opinion

  • I always share this article about the reasons for watching porn while in a relationship:

    No anxiety when one masturbates (other than the risk of getting caught if that is an issue in the relationship). Often anxiety is a big part of what comes from partner sex: anxiety about how I smell, how my body will perform, will my body perform, does my partner like me, my body, how my body reacts etc. For many people, unfortunately, relationship sex is filled with so much anxiety that it is not enjoyable
    A person is tired and masturbation doesn't require the same level of effort, both mentally and physically to perform
    It is not painful. For both men and women, relationship sex can be physically painful and the inability to resolve the pain or effectively discuss it with their partner leads to the desiring relationship sex less or avoiding it
    A person is bored
    A person is bored with their relationship and wants to play out a fantasy in their head
    A person is stressed
    Because they like it
    They don't have to worry about getting rejected by their partner
    Their partner is sick, has their period or just doesn't want it when the partner does
    They want to do it quick or don't have the time required for relationship sex
    Their partner is traveling or away from their partner
    It's convenient, like in the shower in the morning or evening
    It is their best attempt to remain faithful to the marriage because they are really unhappy and don't have anyway to resolve marital conflict outside the bedroom
    They do not desire the kind of sex they will have with their partner
    It's fun
    They want to indulge in a fantasy that they are: too afraid, embarrassed or fear rejection from their partner to share with them
    They just want an orgasm and they know how best to get there in the fastest way possible
    To learn more about their own body and what they like and how to reach orgasm

Most Helpful Guy

  • Usually I’ve watched it with my girlfriend.

    It’s not addictive, if it then that person has a problem.

    it should be part of open discussion as part of a relationship.

    One of both will watch porn or read erotica, so may as well set boundaries.

    for me the worst aspects include almost a body shaming thing, where the guy say only watches porn where girl has large breasts and partner has small.

    at a basic level there is nothing wrong with watching porn or reading erotica.

    it’s when it becomes part of the relationship but is a ‘secret’ that it can become a problem

    • @ Pretty Pink Anon. Thank you most appreciated

Most Helpful Girl

  • Disrespectful if the one partner doesn't like it. It is fine for two to enjoy as a pair.

    • Thanks to Gaggy. xx

    • Fiddling while Rome burns! If you are Truly the focus of his life then, there's only two reasons why he would engage in that dangerous pastime. 1). He no longer loves you, or 2). He's addicted to it. If that's the case, then confront him and, give him the choice of treatment or you're finished.

    • @pjf1958 Exactly!!! xxoo

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • As long as he has good taste..

  • Porn is what I use when I don't have a girlfriend. Why would I need porn if I had a girlfriend. Pictures of food are not better than food.

  • Yeah it doesn’t bother me

  • We watched porn a few times a long time ago back wen there were video stores. There was one near my house that had a porn section and a few times we would rent one and go home and watch it. It was funny but it also got us pretty turned on.

  • If our work schedules get in the way of our fucking I tend to look for actresses that look like my wife. It's one of my kinks, imagining her doing crazy fun stuff.
    She knows my fantasies, I know hers.
    If we watch porn together I just want to see what gets her off, because watching her cum is one of the sexiest things I could witness.
    If she knows I'm going to masturbate and watch porn while she's working sometimes she'll call me and tell me my fantasies so it's just a better cum. She's a good partner.

  • I watched it a couple times because it was all new. My girlfriend didn’t like that and I never did hurt the relationship because there’s only a couple times watched

  • I watch porn not because my partner can't satisfy me, she rather performs better and more than I expect. She knows that I watch porn because she accompanies me. We watch and discuss, and enjoy our sex. However, I am not addictive.

  • Both my girlfriend and myself watch porn on occasion. We see nothing wrong with it. Neither one of us has an addiction.

  • Idc if she watches. I watch sometimes if she isn't in the mood or not home

  • Not a good idea.

  • I do it because we can't always have sex th er n or my girlfriend isn't here

  • I never watch it anymore so they'll never have to worry about me watching it, that stuff is poison for the mind

  • I only watch porn with my girlfriend. Unless videos she's sent me that are of her that technically are porn count

  • I never understood why a girl would be pissed at porn...
    I think its normal and you shiuld explore too !
    in my opinion

  • watch together

  • I have a girlfriend and I love her.
    I love her whole personality, she has a good Heart and we would do everything for wach other.
    We are a great team and I never had a person I trust more than her.
    But she is absolutely not my type but that's not the reason why I watch porn.
    I realy prefer masturbation over every Kind of sex.

    Sometimes sex is the best thing ever but most of the time I would prefer to masturbate.
    I don't have to care for another person, I don't have to think about disgusting things to last longer and my rock hard dick Turns again and again soft again.
    When I watch porn I simply care about myself and watch something nice.
    It doesn't matters If I cum in 8 minutes or half an hour. I get instandly hard after a few toughed here and there and my brain doesn't start to think about different stuff it's busy with watching and everything works as it should

  • I had a few times where it was hard to watch with a chic. But mostly I love watching porn with a chic. Just cuz

  • I can't wait to be in a relationship to stop watching porn agian, if a person still watches porn when he or she is in a relationship there is a problem.

    I don't know what is it but i'm sure there is a problem.

  • Yes its hot

  • It adds color to the relationship, it becomes warmer and more intimate, we love it.

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