I had a similar situation occur last night /today, I clearly started over analyzing and now here I am. Anyway after thinking about it and reading what you said, I am pretty confident that he isn't gonna bail and that we're both just really crushing on each other. Sex just happens whenever it happens. And if he judges you for doing the same thing he did, his opinion would be invalid and shouldn't even matter at that point. I'm rambling, I congratulate you on having an amazing night, I know I sure did.
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0 0 0 0I had sex on the first date once, and I married the guy.
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1. He obviously respected you enough the first few times you said you wanted to stop and go slow. He likes you plenty.
2. Don't over analyze it. Let him know his boundaries but freak out over him.
3. He's letting you know he appreciates you. Don't let it overwhelm you.
4. Playing hard to get won't solve anything, you'll just confuse him.
5. It wasn't a mistake. Don't try to predict what he will do or how he will react, just enjoy yourself.1 0 0 0Hi.. Thanks for the answer:) How do I tell him his boundaries? what should I say to him that will make him not feel rejected?
The way you tell him his boundaries is the same way you tell anyone. Let him know if he's making you uncomfortable, but don't phrase it like "I'm not comfortable with you / us doing xxx...", maybe phrase it like " I'm not OK with xxx" The difference is that you don't mention HIM, so he won't feel like he's being punished.
Thanks again :)
It seems pretty clear to me that he likes you. He might have moved too quickly but I don't think he would be all sweet with cuddling and playing with your hair unless he liked you.
If you want to drive him away then you can play hard to get.1 0 0 0Thanks :)
Should I stop having sex with him next time we hang out? What can I do or what can I say? I wanna know from diff male point of view:)
Why don't you go out somewhere with him, like dinner and a movie, and don't go to his place at the end of the night. If he likes you for you, he won't pressure you for sex. He will probably want you to come over, because you guys already hooked up, but hopefully he'll be okay with you not coming over.
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1 1im curious to see how this worked out. I'm currently in the same situation
0 0 0 0can't play hard to get now too late just keep dating him and sleeping with him whats the problem he seems cool
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