Well is it normal to feel like I don't want to have sex ever?

[Anonymous]

I don't feel anything when it comes to sexual things. I am okay while watching sex or reading anything about it but I just don't want to do it with anyone. The idea of me involving with someone sexually feels gross to me. So I wanna know is it normal?

[jspl90]

Well it is important to check why you feel sex is gross is it asexuality or is it something else but wouldn't asexuality be lack of interest towards sex not necessary the feeling of disgust towards it? Perhaps you should talk to someone you trust about these feelings or a professional on the subject but there is nothing wrong with not wanting to have sex it seems there is also different degrees of asexuality

[Asker]

Thanks for your opinion :)

[Berethor]

How could it be normal? you not going to have children? it's not normal, and you going to be single forever, but that said at least you not a total prude as you okay with watching sexual stuff, but it also indicate that you likely have some sexual potential that you are wasting.

[cherryblossomXD]

Its totally normal. Ignore these men. Look up asexual or demiromantic. See which fits you best or maybe its something else. Either way, its normal.

[cherryblossomXD]

Meant demisexual

[Asker]

Okkiee thanks 😁💮

[Asker]

Well I have a doubt about being asexual it's like do they find sex totally gross. Because I just find me being sexual with anyone gross not the sex.

[cherryblossomXD]

I dont think they think its gross. More just not interested in having sex with anyone. They still like romance though.

[Asker]

Yeah I know about that romance thing. by the way thanks 😊

[cherryblossomXD]

Maybe you're demisexual where you can only think about having sex with someone you love?

[cherryblossomXD]

Okay hope you understand yourself better

[AndyOh]

Sounds like you are becoming A-Sexual.
However, before you put that badge on, I would really look at if this is way you want to go. Should you see your doctor or a psychologist and find out why you feel like that? Did you enjoy sex before?

[Asker]

Never had sex. And I don't want to do it ever.

[AndyOh]

It is your decision and your body. As an outsider and third party, I would only say you might want to try it before you kiss it goodbye. And you don't have to do everything. Otherwise, enjoy life :)

[Asker]

Hmm I understand your point.

[DavidFox]

That’s not normal. Did you ever want to have sex?

[Asker]

Nope

[DavidFox]

Maybe you are asexual

[Asker]

But I don't find sex gross. I just think me having sex with someone is gross.

[DavidFox]

Why is that?

[Asker]

Because I don't think I can ever do that thing. I can't even imagine myself doing that. If I try to imagine I'll just immediately pull my thoughts back because even thinking about it makes me feel shit about myself and I feel so gross. Thinking about it feels like mental torture tbh.

[DavidFox]

Hmm, maybe you have thought about it too much. When you masturbate what do you fantasize about?

[Asker]

I don't masturbate

[DavidFox]

Ah. That’s usually a good place to start. Until you learn about your own body, will be hard for someone else to turn you on

[Asker]

Well I find that too gross. Still me doing that as gross not others.

[DavidFox]

Frankly unless you mentally get over that hump and realize it’s not gross, can’t foresee you having sex anytime soon

[bowenw]

It does not sound normal, although everyone is different. I suggest speaking to your doctor for a professional opinion.

[Gedaria]

I've heard girls say this, but changed there minds later...

[Twalli]

I think you might change your mind if you find the right guy

[iFarted]

You just haven't met the right person to make it an amazing experience.

[Asker]

Well, do the people who haven't met the right person don't have any sexual desire too?

[AlexDeLarge]

Do you have low self esteem? Maybe if you find yourself unattractive you might feel that others think the same which could possibly lead to the repulsion you have towards sex

[Asker]

No I don't have low self esteem and I don't think I am unattractive.

[AlexDeLarge]

Ok. Have you ever spoken to a doctor or a therapist about it? It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you but they might be able to give some answers

[Valnac]

Not really, try getting some counseling.
You are missing out on an important part of your life!

[gandolph3]

Do you masturbate

[Asker]

Nope

[gandolph3]

That is fine, just stay single and have a few cuddlely pets

[Anonymous]

Probably never had an orgasm or masturbated before I guess if you feel that way about it. I felt that way until I was 13 and masturbated, then everything changed

[Anonymous]

I feel same way.

[Anonymous]

Normal only for virgins

[Anonymous]

You're asexual and LGBT has been normalizing that.

[Anonymous]

Find your trigger sweety

[Anonymous]

No. That’s not normal. U could just have a low sex drive.

[Asker]

No no it's not like that it's just I don't think I want me to be sexual with anyone. It's not low sex drive.

[Opinion Owner]

Well have u had sex with anyone?

[Asker]

No and I think I don't want to do it with anyone

[Opinion Owner]

Ahh ok. Well I don’t really know what else to say to help u 😕

[Asker]

Yeah I understand. Thanks for your answer ☺️.

[Opinion Owner]

Anytime. Just wish I was able to help u more.