Were you nervous the first time you had sex without using a condom?

Yesterday was the first time for me, but we both are clean and he asked me if i wanted to try without it, i felt a little nervous but also excited with the little risk even though im not trying to get pregnant yet lol sex alone is a risk though but i went for it and it felt so natural and so right without it on. The other 2 guys i had sex with before him had condoms but damn this was just incredible.

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  • Yes, the first time was with my girlfriend who was on the pill after we'd been exclusive for several months. One night during foreplay, I went to get out a condom and she asked if I wanted to try without it. It felt amazing and the very small chance of making her pregnant was an extra turn on. We've never used a condom again after that.

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  • We were both virgins at 14, we never used condoms as she was on the pill for cramps. So it worked out really well. It's just better to be on regular birth control to put the nervousness aside.

    I think it's more jarring going the other way if you ask me, having unprotected sex for years and then having to use a condom for the first time.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I was nervous but not because it was without a condom but because it was my first time having sex at all. I wasn't worried about it being without condoms because it was with my boyfriend and I had birth control.

  • I wasn’t nervous during the sex, it’s like a bonding thing when a guy is in you bare, but afterwards I definitely was. I was scared he maybe didn’t pull out in time.

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  • I didn't use a condom when I lost my virginity. So I was just nervous in general.

  • I would say for me not nervous enough, she got pregnant.

  • I was nervous not using a condom either.

  • No, It was my wedding night and I had been on b/c for 6 months already.

  • My Girl was on the pill so it's was always without a condom

  • I’ve never actually tried it without a condom. But the next time I do it it will be barebacked because I ain’t using those dumb things again.

    • Also @paulalove98 please tell me you were at least on the pill then? Lol!

  • no, shwas on birth control and it was fine

  • Not really. About the only things I was nervous about was if my parents would come up and find me fucking her, or even in bed with her. Their beds were directly under mine! And, the other thing I was a tad "nervous" about was, "is she actually gonna let me cum in her or is she gonna stop at the last second and make me pull out?".

  • No, not at all. I was more just interested in taking my time to enjoy her.

  • Who slept in the wet spot?

    thats something you didn’t prepare for, is it?😜

  • I loved it it was actually my first time too made it even better

  • my girl loves the feeling of
    my seamen oozing out.

  • Yes, I was petrified that she would get pregnant, which she did.

    • Can i still get pregnant if he pulled out and did NOT cum inside me? I took the morning after pill 2 hours later..

    • I think in theory you “can” but everytime we got pregnant, it wasn’t from me pulling out. I don’t roll like that. I’m all in.

  • I don’t believe in condoms. The first time I had vaginal sex was with a woman who claimed not to have a womb and not to have any STIs.

  • virgin

  • Not really. Since I got a vascetomy back in 2019, I've never used a condom, and it was definitely a good decision

  • omg yes but it felt good

  • Nope not at all

  • not really

  • yes because I wasn't sure how long I could last

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