What about you makes you a good sexual partner?

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LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

I am not that experienced, but from my experience what makes me a great sexual partner is -

my open-mindedness. I am a closeted pervert, a huge pervert, but I don’t like showing it to just anyone, I like to know I am loved and trusted and I love and trust him back so I can unleash myself.

That’s why I don’t have sex out of relationships.

When I do, I am a shameless person! Simple, uncomplicated. I am an adventure lover, I am the least judgmental person you might meet. I am so shameless and so open-minded that a man can easily open up with me about his darkest desires and I’ll understand him, will love the new ideas and make his darkest fantasies happen. I have enough of exciting ideas of my own. I believe, all is fair in sex and war. There’s nothing you can tell me that will surprise me. I believe sex is the beat way of bonding and I’ll be his partner in crime or a seducer in whatever fun idea he has.

I am unconventional, fun, sexy, have quiet shapely body, I love male body, I love my body and I so LOVE sex!

I am not the type to turn the lights off, I’ll ask you to bring more mirrors, so I can see ourselves all around.

I’ve only had one partner, for like 5 months of sex life and I think for a virgin I started out quite well, I was still learning and thankfully there’s still a lot I have to try, learn and experience, I think once I get a bit more experience with the future love interest of mine, I’ll become absolutely a great partner.

And also, I can say I was a great sexual partner, because when the pandemic started and China got locked, my ex fiance waited for me for 2 YEARS!

I doubt he would do it if I was just mediocre.

I am also often asked for new ideas and advice by my fellow friends. Because they want to spice things up.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

I’m not down for whatever but I still know how to get down and I will do some of whatever it takes to make sure my dude busts that mf nut

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I think for me it is always wanting to be better always making it about the person that I'm pleasing being able to look into that person's eyes read the color of her cheeks the way she moans the way she moves her body and in those moments understand that she's saying something to you what she wants without saying one word

In those moments always make it all about her

I make it all about the person that I'm with and I can feel that energy of sensual passion excitement out of control feeling that desire of intimacy and touch the deeper I can get her turned on is the more I'm going to get turned on and it's just a vicious cycle of back and forth more and more and more to where it gets so intense it's beautiful when you can become one with that person and I mean in every way I think that's what makes somebody good and the willingness to keep wanting to become better and better no matter how good you are

MementoMori777 · Accepted Answer

I'd get pleasure from my partners pleasure, so not only would i purposely make it the most pleasurable for my partner but that's because it gives me pleasure so it works out, there's cons of course and that would be that I wouldn't initiate in kinky stuff unless my partner signals it so the classic boring sex, that and that I have zero experience but personally I don't consider that a con but other do, I personally think that people should answer this questions for their partners tho and vise versa cause I'm basically patting myself on the back here lol

Leapfrog00 · Answer

I listen to my partners. Communication is a must. I ask questions. I ask her what kind of things she's into. I tell her what kind of things I'm into, and hopefully, if she's open-minded, we'll both get to try new things.

I make sure if I have an orgasm, she has one too. I don't stop the sex session until we both get off and are satisfied. I cuddle with her, as this usually makes her feel safe. When we lay there in the afterglow, I listen to everything she talks about, as I would expect the same.

Most important, I make sure she knows I care about her and love her, that is, if we've been together for a while and it's OK to say it.

ushagomez · Answer

I like to think that I have taken the time, interest and practice to become good at sex, so that I can give my partner, the most pleasure possible. That gift of pleasure is then reciprocated. My parents always told me that it is important to be good at sex to enjoy the most fulfilling relationship. They are so right.

rachel776 · Answer

i let him do anything he wants

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

I like doing everything, I'm a total nymphomaniac and Im decent at hiding it. I can make almost any woman cum one way or another.

I'll make her feel like she's in a movie. If we're role playing, I'll sell it to her. If we're in the shower, it will play out like in her head. I don't do that soap getting in my eye shit ruining the mood shit. If I look into her eyes a certain way, she will subconsciously juxtapose it with things that happened earlier in the day-if I'm really on top of my game, earlier in the week which will just amplify the emotions.

Sex is an art, I take literal sexual pleasure in knowing I just rocked someone's world. It turns me on when the person I'm with has what I like to call an orgasm seizure.

Also, I've only ever had repeat customers. Except for this one girl who's a story for another day.

mandyfire98 · Answer

Well. I'd love to show you 😉

richardcory · Answer

I really enjoy pleasing my partner, and enjoy doing a wide variety of things in bed

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I like to take my time and not rush things. I am attentive to her needs and my goal is to make the best possible experience.

strateguy632 · Answer

i am thoughtful and considerate of partner desire etc.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

Sheeeeesh.. yeah. No, pass 😁

slatyb · Answer

I pay attention to my partner.

When I divorced and started dating, I didn't imagine I was anything special. But women told me I was the best, just because I paid attention. I was amazed, I just assumed everyone did that.

AviatorTom · Answer

My main goal is pleasuring my partner, paying attention to how she reacts, listening to her. Only sometimes do I put my pleasure ahead of hers.

exitseven · Answer

I am strong to the finish just like Popeye

humanearth · Answer

That I'm willing to try almost anything

Kabluie · Answer

experienced and sex positive, so practically anything goes

Nikki1989 · Answer

Passion and enthusiasm.

worldscolide · Answer

I put her pleasure before mine.

stratford · Answer

My attentiveness to her desires and my cunnilingus skills 😂

AsaKyo · Answer

Nothing because I have zero experience lmao

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Many things. But I’ve learned to be good sexually it’s gotta start with an emotional connection and it’s not a 5 min sprint. From seduction to foreplay and aftercare and follow up; sex is fun but essential. I’m a giver so try to remain open to what she needs and flexible as every sesh is unique

loveslongnails · Answer

It gets me off to get you off, I mean really off, as many times as you can handle until you pass out from exhaustion! And whatever it is that gets you off, I'll find out (or you can give me hints)

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