What are your thoughts on anal?

[andreanicole58]

I was with a guy a while ago and we did some anal stuff. All he really did was finger me but it felt so good! I know anal is like taboo and whatnot but it's still fun if you go slow. So what are your thoughts on anal play? It is an automatic no or a maybe? If you've done anal stuff, was it good or bad? Would you do it again? Any tips? Did you ever orgasm from anal alone? thanks in advance!!!

[AustinMan]

So many questions, so little time. I am an anal freak and an inveterate sodomite. I love to play with her and her to play with me so you go girl!! For me, it's an automatic mandatory and that's one reason why I believe in having a calm, direct, matter of fact conversation about what each of us needs and wants sexually when sex is on the table but before we have sex. I've included some links below to My Takes I've written that you will hopefully find useful. I'll gladly answer any questions.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a24301-how-to-ask-a-new-prospective-lover-for-sex-the-way-you-want-it

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10152-how-to-talk-to-your-so-about-sex

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10446-prostate-massage-properly-done-supercharging-a-hj-or-bj-with-anal

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a6855-comfortable-anal-sex-for-beginners-a-guide-to-the-first-time

[AustinMan]

Thanks for the MHG! I hope you've decided anal play and anal sex are good things?

[DivineDaj]

I haven't done anal things at all. My S/O wants to try it and honestly I'm TERRIFIED! I use to be extremely closed minded about anal sex because I find it gross. I automatically think I'm gunna catch an infection because it's going from your ass to your vagina (or vice versa). The thought makes me squirmy inside. But as of right now, I'm not gunna say I'm completely down for it but I might try it once...

[andreanicole58]

i think trying it even once for your partner is good but always know you can stop at any point in time when it hurts too much or your just uncomfortable. remember that communication is KEY!!

[foesmoes]

communication is definetely a key.. I had 3 different experiences. 2 came right away, th eother one was terrified and said she will never do it again. I guess it depends on ur thoughts as well..

[JonJames]

So -- has a dick been in your ass? A tongue? Or just a finger?

[anaspie]

Eh. Not for me, it doesn't get me off at all and tends to be rather painful for me so it's a no go for me.

[G-Daz]

Nasty, not in a good way. Not into causing colon issues to a girl i care about.

Hasn't been taboo for like 3 decades now. I would prefer the front

[Yumix]

I like anal. not a must have so if she doesn't like it it's okay, but if she does... sure I will happily do it

[Anonymous]

I like anal play and sex. No risk of getting pregnant and if you learn it can be pleasurable

[JonJames]

Any time I have sucked on a woman's but hole -- I mean clamped on it with my whole mouth and pulled? I made a friend for life...