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Sexual Health Guys, what can I do if anything to get my husband to want me again?
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We have been married 2 and a half years now and the sex stopped in the first yr. He tells me he's tired or stressed but he takes care of himself in the bathroom a few mornings a week and he thinks i dont know. He works a lot , we own a business so i know he is tired , but no sex for over a yr? I ask him whats wrong and he says he has a low sex drive... really? Doesn't seem to me thats the case if he's masturbating. What do i have to do to get him to understand i need him to want me? Im getting tired of waiting.
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(19)what did you doo
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Just joining him in shower or lie in your bed naked and say lets snuggle. If he tired let sleep while you get work. on him. ;) just take some risks ;)
Wake him up with a BJ before he takes care of himslef, or a HJ. Start on a weekend when there is less stress. Plan a weekend getaway like a trip to a mountain cabin. Take off on a Friday to make it a little longer. Don't plan a huge number of activities and make time for quality time.
Handcuff him to the bed while he is sleeping and give a BJ and ride him. Hopefully he will see the girl he was thinking about when he was masturbating. ;)
we'll maybe take the initiative, i mean the stress can lower a sex drive and he could be to tired for the actual thing, maybe on a day off whine and dine him or try to ease your way back into sex, i mean if you know he's masturbating why not let him know u know and do it for him or with him. and then over time build it up and let it escaleate to the point were your having sex again. i know its pervy but if you want it you have to go after it
sex is tiring and sometimes unpleasant. masturbation is easy relief.